Putting a Sex on You

  I was in session with Dr E. “So,” I asked, “what is today’s topic for discussion?” “Sex,” he replied. “Do I have to talk about this with you?” He pushed his spectacles back. “You do not have to talk about anything, but I would hope you would discuss this with me.” “Can’t I talk […]

Always On Your Mind

“He is always in my mind.” “Try as I might I just cannot get him out of my head.” “I can’t stop thinking about him.” I am sure such comments or similar have been made by you at some point about the narcissist in your life. We have this formidable capability to get into your […]

A Statement of Intent

I should imagine that most of you looked at this picture of a person pushing a boulder up a hill and thought to yourselves, “Oh yes, that is what life with a narcissist is like.” I know you do as I have had it said to me several times.  I always reply, “Achieving and maintaining […]

Never Let Go

I was engaged in a discussion recently with Dr E. The conversation concerned relationships. “So, when you end a relationship, tell me how do you feel about it?” he began as he unfolded his notebook and found a fresh page. “I do not end my relationships,” I replied. “I see, so they are always ended […]

Tough Decisions

People face tough decisions every day in a wide array of scenarios. It may relate to health, business, relationships or money. Should the aggressive cancer treatment be undertaken despite the risks? How many people should be trimmed now the business has been taken over? Do we send in troops against the enemy on foreign soil? […]