Too Good For That
We regard ourselves as superior. Even a Victim Narcissist has a superior view of himself, he is special because of his illness and infirmity and this means that he should be treated better than everybody else. The Somatic Narcissist is better looking, physically fitter and has a tighter bottom than anyone else. The Cerebral Narcissist is cleverer, more intellectual, a brilliant advocate and has a brain the size of a planet and as for the Elite of us, well not only do we look great we are dazzling, witty, entertaining and knowledgeable, superior in every department to the likes of you. This lofty sense of ourselves is apparent all the time because we feel no need to hide our light under a bushel. Oh, we may attach some false modesty to some of our brags and boasts but it is only done to generate an ever more appreciative response from people around us. We like to remind people about our superiority repeatedly. It appears during seduction but you will naturally regard it as an attractive quality then, labelling it as confidence, a dynamic approach, someone who shows no fear and gets things done, an achiever, somebody successful and who doesn’t want to be associated with such a person. Accordingly, our superiority will be exhibited in plain sight but portrayed as good thing. It continues during devaluation as we repeatedly remind you that we are the master, you are the servant, we are in charge and you are not, we do and you are done to. Even when we hoover you we remain superior because someone who wants you back after the way you have behaved or someone who (falsely) recognises their own shortcomings must surely be superior mustn’t they? The unleashed smear campaign is another piece of our superiority. We are not smeared are we? We are impervious to it, nobody would dare do it and if they tried nobody would believe them because our innate superiority embodied in the façade that we have created. Every single step of your dance with our kind exudes our superiority. It is felt, seen, heard and witnessed, from the way we behave with you through to the way that we behave with others. It is natural to us and therefore should be expected. It is also necessary. If we are not superior to you, we cannot be in control. If we are not in control, then how can we keep you providing us with fuel? Our superiority is necessary. Our superiority is always evident. Here are twenty ways in which we demonstrate our superiority through the things we say.
- I don’t do domesticated
- I would never shop there. It is for the great unwashed.
- I wouldn’t expect you to understand what I am saying but you could at least try.
- Someone has to lead, someone has to make decisions.
- Don’t expect me to do something like that.
- Don’t be sorry, be accurate. Like me.
- I don’t have time for this.
- That isn’t something I would ever be found doing.
- People like me are above things like that.
- Yes, well it is about your level isn’t it?
- Don’t worry about it, how would you ever know that?
- These things are best left to people like me.
- It can be tough at the top you know.
- I don’t shovel shit.
- Do I look like a cleaner to you?
- I have more important things to do.
- This is minutiae and beneath me.
- Come back when you earn as much as I do.
- Show me a good loser and I will show you a loser.
- Do you know who I am?
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How would you finish this scenario considering 19? This was the narc who called me Pygmalion as he was 13 years my senior (I laughed btw) and I needed to be introduced to culture (or gave the impression). You sit at the student union with a chess game ready to play. You come into my department and we end up chatting. I come to your table. Haven’t played chess since single digits, but hey what the heck? We play and our faux relationship grows . We don’t really have a ton in common except chess and the fact that I don’t dole out advice. I listen. You say that you appreciate that.
I remember that I really like chess. You’ve brought it out. I start remembering strategies but you always win. At or about our 45th or so match, I finally see an opening. I see checkmate in 3 moves for my first win. So do you. What do you do next?
Are we still in the seduction period?
Yes.
I would allow you the win and congratulate you in order to show what a wonderful and magnanimous person I am. You will provide me with positive fuel based on that and thus the seduction continues apace. I will make a note to defeat you next time and when devaluation occurs to use chess as a weapon against you. e.g. taking a queen piece and whilst we are eating dinner place it on the edge of the table, hold your gaze and then casually flick it off the table whilst staring at you.
Well then, maybe we weren’t in the seduction phase anymore. He wiped the pieces from the board before he could properly set down his king, and laughed about it, a very poor loser. I never played chess with him again. He wanted to but after that display, no way. Our whatever it was dyamic did change after…or at least came out in the open.
But then, he wasn’t you.
I’m going to have to jump on the band wagon here…HG if that is your voice on You tube…then all I can say is…you had me at “hello and welcome”…oh my dear god! No wonder there is no escape….
Think I need to disappear again…
Yes it is and thank you. No, no disappearing (that’s our trick)
This day has come… HE came to my table today in n the restaurant. I didnt know he is there with his leitenant and a girl (looked like a girl of a leitenant).
Said: “hii Yo, can i seat to ur table or u wanna join our table”. 5 months 10 days after i saw him the last time.
Being honest i didnt feel anything.. he asked directly if i am in a relationship, if i work at the same company bla-bla, and why i dont ask anything about him, why i blocked him.
My actions: i tried to be calm (although it was a small shock). I tried not to comment anything and not to show any reaction.
My main observation: i do not feel anything regarding this person. I had slight reaction when we had an eye contact, that s why i tried to avoid it looking at his face but not eyes.
Looked as his eyes were looking for my reaction or that i would “sink” in his eyes, but he disappointly said ” u dont ask anything about me”
I answered in “yes/no” manner, everything is ok bla bla.
I was looking at him and thought: ” how is possible this person gave me a lot of pain.. and now he is here as if nothing has happened, how it s possible that i had feelings regardinv him”.
At the end -i saw he didnt feel comfortable and said: ” i just wanted to say hii”.
I continued with my stuff for an hour or more as he never existed. He really didnt exist for me although we were sitting in 2 meters from each other.
Important that i observed myself: hos presence didnt bother me at all, as if he is any other guy.
The only thing i am afraid of, if he now will try to do anything coz i told him that yes, i work at the same place.
Thanks God this person is out of my life. I cannot believe i was with him and had to go through ALL those things i had to go through…
Do i need to do anything now, to protect me more from him?
You handled that well Yo but expect more contact from him as a consequence of this meeting and the fact that he will have been stung by you failing to react to him presence in the way he would have wanted and also because you did not ask him questions. He is likely to lash out at you next so you need to be aware he may try and smear you and he will try Malign Follow-Up Hoovers against you. Since he knows where you work you can expect that any contact/hoover will be directed through that. Can you create defences at work (screen calls/ensure he cannot physically reach you)?
It’s true, I don’t shovel shit…not mine & certainly not other people’s.
I have to shake my head. From 3 to 17 all 😢 And from one person. And the worst I never suspected this was superiority and inferiority. Thanky you so much for this. Exclusive material not found anywhere else. And even less in such a real manner.
Great work!!! 😘💝
Just caught up on all my reading – phew! It seems I missed quite a bit.
I do find the above to be an attractive quality because it’s honest. You aren’t willing to compromise and why should you? At least you’re honest when you say, “No, I am not going to do that or go out with so and so because, frankly, I am better than that.”
Sometimes I think more people would benefit from an attitude like that. It helps build self-esteem and self-worth, which are two very important things in this life. Ensures you don’t settle…..especially for less.
And, I checked out your YouTube channel too and it’s safe to say that I could listen to you read ingredients off a Campbell’s soup can label and be quite content.
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Thank you. MUTTON BROTH (WATER, MUTTON STOCK), CARROTS, BARLEY, POTATOES, SEASONED MUTTON, POTATO STARCH, SALT, SEASONED BEEF, CANOLA OR SOYBEAN OIL, SEA SALT, YEAST EXTRACT, SPICES, PARSLEY FLAKES. Memorise these, you will be hearing them in due course.
Mmmhmmm….thank goodness I was blessed with an excellent memory.
Never has mutton broth sounded so bloody sexy! 😉
Ha ha