Idealised and Ignored

Why does the narcissist idealise you? Why does he then ignore you as he embarks on devaluation? HG Tudor offers his insight as a narcissistic sociopath into these two fundamental elements of the narcissistic dynamic and thereafter provides his enlightening observations on how these elements are played out in so many instances and occurrences between […]

Love or Hate?

      Which do you prefer? Love or hate? This is something that I am asked and of course it is a pertinent question which is relevant to the issue of fuel. When I am asked this question, it tends to be as an adjunct to other considerations such as: – –         Why can’t […]

Tears – Part One

Tears. One might consider them the ultimate embodiment of emotion. Tears appear when you have experienced some kind of extreme emotion. I know because I have watched on so many occasions as I have sought to understand the circumstances in which somebody cries and why it is that they do so. I understand that when […]

Protection

I am just a baby in your arms. I am fragile, brittle and vulnerable. You see I was broken when I was so, so young. I did not know any different and all I wanted was to be told that I was good. I did everything I could to please them but it was never […]

Cheers! The Narcissist and Alcohol

      Alcohol is a pervasive drug. A Bloody Mary prior to lunch, a liquid lunch to conduct business, afternoon drinks because it feels like skipping school, drinks straight from work which turn into a session, celebratory drinks for a birthday, a deal done well, an anniversary or just because it is Friday. Drinks […]