The Narcissistic Truths – No. 62
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I reall need to get out of the office more, you have a celler to HG for the naughty.
Does it have handcuffs attached to the wall to? Dark and damp or just dark?
Sorry my imagination ran a little on that
Oh, a hose, H.G.? What are you a fireman now? lol
Ha ha, I hear you already have a fireman dear Clarece!
Go ahead, turn on the hose! I got a lot of mud to un-smear. **shakes mud off like an Irish Setter**
Clarece, oooo, was your last one a fireman? I would ask more questions, but the kiddies are still awake 😉
No, no, um, JN is not a fireman. He’s a social worker actually. Go figure. But he recently told me he viewed us a “fireman vs. fire kind of thing” because I’m so fiery with him. And I had shared that with HG, thinking he’d enjoy that line since he likes to call me a Super Tanker of Fuel. lol
Sighhhhhh…a flippen social worker. SMH
I remember your nick name…the reference is awesome!
My therapist is like one of the scariest sociopaths I’ve met. I’m so glad I noticed after only a few appointments. Big thanks for that one H.
How did you work that out TP?
I called the night before my next appt and left a message saying we worked out my issues and I didn’t see any reason to continue.
Indeed but what alerted you to what he or she was?
The first second I saw her I felt an immediate sense of comfort. This combined with little things that I written off. She was pretending to forget important things told her. I thought she was trying to make me blow up to see if I’m borderline until I woke up.
Interesting.
Ooh Clarece, you have a fireman?? They’re so hunky!! I dated one once. Hot hot hot but he wasn’t a narc, so I knew it wouldn’t work between us.
Ha ha, if only he was Love!
Yes Mr. Tudor, if only… But I prefer you above and beyond any other.
I’m sure you have the superior Hose.
You say the nicest (and most accurate) things Clarece.
I’ll take that to mean I’m free to leave the cellar and roam where I please…
Only weak men crush women to feel powerful. Of course I am not talking about you HG. How many offenses am I up to?
French, do offenses equate to getting on the naughty stool? If so, what is a naughty stool and why do you have to get on it when you’re misbehaving? Is this an English thing? How is it a punishment? I remember being paddled in school in the US. That’s apparently illegal now. But I can appreciate the concept.
Ask your beloved. He runs the show and will be more than happy to expound on what he will do to you. I am certain you already know that.
No, Love, it is not an English thing. Sort of like being sent to the corner when you are a bad kid. Some of us here have made the naughty step a home. So much so that HG has had to expand it to a stool as well…Before long, I suspect we will have school for delinquents here.
There’s even a cellar for the real troublemakers. lol H.G., am I still banished down there from last week?
Pipe down, I am trying to do some voice work up here!
Oh yes, MLA!!!!! And the dungeon, with claw marks and blood!
And the lotion, to rub on its skin.
and that damn basket. at least he could buy us some higher end lotion, huh, MLA?
I will turn the hose on if you two don’t shut up!
Crabtree & Evelyn maybe…not Lubriderm!
Yes, definitely NOT Lubriderm. Something that smells like Lavender or Gardenias, please 😉
Nevarrrrrr
Thank you ladies for educating me. Unfortunately French, Mr. Tudor said he won’t do bad things to me because of the 5 rules or something or another.
😔 😢
So I am left to my imagination.
Girllllllllll, be GLAD he has those 5 rules going!!!
Love love love……ask him nicely I am sure he will take you up the naughty staircase one step at a time. Beware when you reach the top, he will push you down those same steps. Imagine that.
Thank you ABB. Ok I will ask again and maybe bake some cookies too.
Love, you’re making me want to bake Christmas cookies with my mom!
That’s wonderful Alice. I love decorating cookies too.
Come over Love! The more the merrier! Maybe you can show how too make that middle eastern dish ☺️
That would be so nice Punisher! I’m at home today and instead of working I’m cooking up a storm. It would be great to have company.
I’d LOVE to LOVE! I will be finishing work shortly perhaps I could lend a hand?!
When I am sick from anxiety/depression and teeter on the verge of sucide, you are on cloud 9 feeling marvelous. When I push and fight back to regain my life/health, you become depressed, lethargic,full of hate and revenge!!!
I am curious HG he used my greatest fear against me, he was successful in making it come true, yet unsuccessful in getting me to react, to his knowledge. Would this have been precived as a criticism? A failure to produce the emotional reaction he knew was right there? Or would just thought be enough? I will say my life is 100 times better and suspect he knows, with that is that just another reason to come a knocking, besides revenge?
Thank you HG, you advice is always accurate and I am grateful you are here to turn to.
A failure to react is not a criticism per se, it means no fuel. If you just looked at him for example in a neutral fashion, you are giving no fuel but there is no criticism in doing that. If however you walked away without saying anything, that provides no fuel and is a criticism because you are ignoring him.
It easier to manipulate people when they are in fear. Once again( and again and again and again……) this Man must demonstrate his control and his power. But this is illusion of true power. The real power does not need followers, fans, admiration, it’s not slaving. It just shines, it’s independent. But this Man built this empire of power. His hous has tick walles, doble doors, 2 dogs in front of the house and he is armed. He thinks that he is in danger, he thinks that people want do destroy him. But this Man has the war in his own house. Does he know that? I think he does.
Who knows some day yuo will walking and you will see that this house has open door……
Normal is an illusion. What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly.
Charles Addams
That just came to mind when I saw this
HG you are definitely bringing a different meaning to many things I have thought about over the years. Why this why that.
DFA, now if we flies can just learn from HG how to stay out of the web!! LMAO we have a master spider warning the flies😂…. You gotta love the irony. Thanks HG.
I always was a fan or irony.
Of
My insecurities gives you power.
I still wonder how is that possible. ….
My courage gives you fear.
Indeed 1Jaded1!
Thank you, H.
HG, are you ever embarrassed by how ubsurd you sound? I truly appreciate your candor but I sometimes think it’s pathetic. Getting off on someone else’s suffering is hard for me to swallow. You’re so very intelligent, interesting and funny that it’s a shame that you live such a parasitic life.
I do not do embarrassment.
Of course you may think we are absurd, but that is your perspective, from ours it makes perfect sense.
It only makes perfect since to your kind HG because your kind is totally whacked out & so sick mentally. The world wouldn’t be nearly as nasty as it is if YOUR kind were wiped off the face of this earth. Your black side is disgusting and ugly.
Hello Merry, but tell me what you really think.
I appreciate you greatly Mr. Tudor 💋
I’m grateful you’re here. 💗
This would seem to be a break from reality for your kind. Our perspective is reality and not just a perspective. You HG, have the unusual ability to see the truth about your behavior. You seem to know your actions are wrong but the quest for fuel overrides your thirst. I could say the same thing to my late Brother about his alcohol addiction. Yes, he hurt all of us but only as a consequence of his behavior. We were never his target. Fuel addiction takes addiction to another level. Narcs can only get high if they are destroying a good person. My brother only wanted to destroy himself not everyone around him. You are correct that narcs are superior…but only in their ability to use their addiction to ruin the lives of everyone that loves them.
But narcs feel shame correct? How is shame different from embarrassment? Thank you.
Shame is deep-seated. Embarrassment is superficial and of the moment.
H. G., have there been actions or behaviors you feel shameful about now through exploring your behaviors with the doctors; whereas you did not before treatment?
No.
Exactly what HG said…and to add a little more….Shame is deeper, related to one’s personal existence. Embarrassment is more related to one’s “herd” relationship. Feeling out of step with the herd.