The Narcissistic Truths – No. 143
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Hello,
I’ve been reading your books, and I’m beginning to believe that my beautiful girlfriend of 4 years may have these traits. Everything that you speak of, she does, including hurting herself and blaming me, and having me jailed. Is there a solution that can fix this problem or is there the only choice that I see, leaving her and never seeing each other ever again? I’m in love with her and would like to at least be able to tell myself that I tried all possible solutions that are available. At there any doctors that you could recommend?
Thanks in advance.
Out on Bail
No, there is no cure for the narcissist. Look to your own defences. Get out and stay out. Thank you for reading my work. If you would like more assistance with regard to your personal circumstances I invite you to organise a consultation with me.
On a funny note i seen a funny cartoon for nacissist therapy and it said take a number and they were all 1’s lol
Very good.
Well right now I’m not thanking my ex for anything!
She should have been thanking me for everything I did and tried to do.
I was a happy, optimistic, outgoing, and full of hope human being. Lately I’m feeling defeated because I’m not getting those traits back.
HG, I’m grateful for all your help but not the situation that changed me.
Hi snow white…its great to see you back!! Dont get defeated you still have those traits but maybe youre in between finding you again. I think so many expect to be exactly how they were or similiar but were forever changed after but imo for the better! Youre stronger and youre equipped with knowledge many dont have! Find what you love to do in life and those traits will come flooding back!! What is it in life you enjoy and feel passionate about? Thats where those traits are hiding 🙂 use this feeling of defeat as a stepping stone and a fork in the roadway. Best of luck 🤗 you will get back to you!
Unrelated HG but how Does a ‘non’ somatic feel about being not so attractive? Be it because they were born that way or let themselves go, or both?
What makes them still target beautiful people as an IP
I assume you mean physically beautiful Alexis. It may well be the case that the non-Somatic narcissist sees other traits in that victim which appeal and their physical attractiveness is just a happy collateral consequence.
A Cerebral is not interested in his or physical appearance, it is their mind which is the draw, that is what comes to the fore.
A Victim is not interested in his or physical appearance (save to the extent it fulfils their victim tendencies) but rather how they deserve and are entitle to be cared for and look after.
Ah thank you HG for your explanations
I also think some of is, who get alot of it, fight back. I told him he is a manipulative, narcissistic psychopath. Did you know who you were, have a definition before someone or some event showed you? I don’t think your awareness came right away even as an elite. Did someone ever launch labels at you and did you feel perplexed even if you didn’t agree? How long did it take you to get to being able to articulate all this? I think it took alot of work.
Also, do you have your favorite empath? What would you do with a very calm, grounded and down to earth one? Who would stare right at you and not at first react to all your masks? until the hooks worked of course
Because he mirrored me, i guess he did make me see what i really am.
I do thank you every day.
There was a very long period in the aftermath where I would have swallowed the blue pill if I could. But you can’t ‘unknow’ what you know.
Now I’m glad I swallowed the red pill!
So thank you HG for keeping me drugged up to the eyeballs on the red ones hahhaa
I do take the blue ones if I need to, just to remind me how wonderful I am hehe
Your my pusher hahhaha
You’re
You are welcome Alexis.
Lol Alexis, some of them take the blue pill as well 😂
Thank you for awaking my soul in the best way possible! I now know that I am capable of anything I put my mind to. I know you hate that…
Well they do home in on perceived weaknesses, but sometimes they get it wrong. I remember one of them laughing, saying that it turned out I was a codependent. This wasn’t true at all. I came from Africa, and I am a collectivist. That’s very different. I’m strongly committed to a relationship, but I am out of it if there is no reciprocity.
Yes, namaste *bows*
Thank for making me “woke” to my and your (general not specifically) weak spots, scars, patterns, and injustices. We all have our wounds to heal and only we ourselves can mend them.
I knew what and who I was, I just never realised that the person you least expected could be a lying, evil manipulator.
Lesson learned….next!! 😊