The Narcissistic Truths – No. 222
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I guess his version was, “….and then someone like you comes along….” Sad thing, is that I am a unique person. truly. Been told it my whole life. INFJ all the way. Special, different, not like other people, not mainstream, ….. and it was a line? How confusing. Imagine knowint you are unique and not because I was pumped up by anyone. and to find my uniqueness was not of any value. What about when you DO really see unique people? Or do you flatline them all to be less than you, no matter what?
lol honestly the immature side of me just wants to throw up two middle fingers and a “eff you” face at this! lol
We are coworkers and he was giving me the silent treatment. But now when I greet him in morning, he just says “do you still remember that”.. the fact I want to know if he is hoovering this way.. how should I deal with that, if I want to give him another chance? We used to be very close.
I don’t follow what you are saying.
No I must not be. According to “Sitting Target”, with the masses you filter through, my Awesomeness is off the charts.
MLA perhaps you are HG’s Holy Grail! You have been here since day one and if that does not show loyalty, I am not sure what does.
You have my vote.
Awww, thanks Ah-Oh! I am fiercely loyal as I can tell you are.
I would probably become very vanilla very quickly for HG.
You are right we were all created different, some similarities yet one of a kind none the less.
Given gifts only we are able to use, if we chose to.
“The more intelligent one is, the more men of originality one finds. Ordinary people find no difference between men.”
Blaise Pascal, Pensées (1670)
Another thing I blocked him on fb very early on he asked this to be changed and I said No.. He said he liked commenting and liking what I put on there so to friend him again. My reply you don’t like or write anything. He said omg you are clever. Never back on my fb. Also look at the friends list: full of women and no family. Strange. I take it his fiancee has been conditioned to accept she is not allowed on his fb. Or I could be wrong.
Might just be the same chap after all. That would be ironic.
Think they are all much the same. We’re you referring that the narc you know could be the same one?
I think subconsciously I knew something was not right. I told him he needed me more than I needed him. I called him a leech. I called him an arse (omg) he did not like that as that was his name on my phone. I said to him his behaviour was like he had done this many times before as he was to comfortable (he said oh don’t say that I am scared), he asked me how I reacted the way I did when I gave in (I said I did not know now I realise he was info gathering), he called me clever ( asked why is it because your mum never encouraged you with education: omg! Bites he does: says NO IT IS NOT), I know what he was up to trying it on with other people and he knew because in front of a big group the leader said that social media would not be accepted as a grounds for trying it on with ladies. His face went cross and he asked me if it was me that did this, of course not lol! I did not lie as it was me and another girl. Anyway he has blocked me now as when he came back for more halo shining I was pleasant then played him at his own game making lies up, telling him he said it not me (when it was me), told him I had bought him a present and that was exciting for him so he asked what it was. I said NOTHING you think I would buy you a present lol! The final straw was when I told him about his fiancee and child; he never told me about them but he was not really bothered, I then said you have not been living in the area long and where he lived when he bought the house and the price of it. Now as I said I am blocked because I said to him ‘we can talk about ##### as it must have been hard with the way things worked out’, he said did you say ####, I said don’t worry we can talk about it then that was it. I had found out more of his game: he was married in 2002 but really I do not know what happened but he does not know that 😂 And this meme: yuck… it’s disgusting all those women not healthy.
I would like to say one thing though as hard as this has been it is not just the Narc that has the problem it is us also even although we do not know it. If I am honest this experience I do not regret as it has helped me in all the he’ll the last few years identify that I have been conditioned to please others: my father a narc and my mother a codependent but I see many Narc traits in her (I believe it can be like this or am I wrong HG? )
Everybody has narcissistic traits.Co-dependents have few and plenty of strong empathic traits.
Formerly ‘ptsdafternarcabuse’
Are you sure?
First Divide. Then conquer.
Your move.
I smell some serious BS.
Hi AH OH. You are candid. Do you care to expand?
“Honestly, you are not like all of the others.”
Does this help clear your sinuses to get a better whiff?
How are you my dearest 1J1?
Ok. Yes. Dear AH OH.
…. just like snow flakes ❅❆❄❅❄
Ms Brown
shortly after the devaluation..
and my distreess and arrassment to him wanting to know what was happening.. he started to get very voicy aggressive.. and also started to say: “you don’ t know who i am” … later on would say: ” i am the great magnificient: (his name)” then it progressed to: ” i deserve adoration”… etc… etc… etc…
i am still in shock
2 years of devaluation
now is starting again wanting to give me another golden period.. i guess he figure that i am worth it.. as i let him carry on all this 2 years.. while i was suffering ( still i am).. but i have been here for him all the while..
but i have been hurt so much .. that now when i see him i feel angry..
Mine actually has ” I am ME that is who I am” on his FB bio line. It still makes me giggle at the audacity every time I see it. I have at least 10 emails saying that I had no idea who he was, that it was my fault [that he lied]. I file them with the love lyrics he gave me the day before I found out what he had done. But reading these emails and lyrics after his dx, I realised my narc is afraid of me, because destroyed as I was, I refused to accept what he did and have risen from the ashes and am like a ghoul at his wedding. He should indeed be very afraid.
Reject any posturing toward a new golden period, it will end like all the others.
Funny that… the Narc I know has ME on his sites. Not sure now though as I said dont entertain the sites, he is blocked and just wonder if it’s the same Narc or they all do it?
To clarify my own comment …. It’s an analogy, Snow Flakes, non are like the others.
Damn Right I’m Not. 💚👸💍
Neither are You. 💙🕵👑
What is the meaning behind your emojis?
Are you engaged to the King?
Holy Grail!
The emojis….
ABB: green heart for saint paddy’s. Me. Sporting big old diamond…as in married to Mr. Black.
HG: Azure heart. Mystery Man. King of Everything.
No secret code. No behind the scenes meaning. Just felt like throwing on some emojis while I drank green Margaritas at a party last night.
You good with that? 🍹🍸
Margaritas are usually green right? Did they make them extra green? I turn green if I drink them. I have to drink my tequila clear, straight, chilled or not. I like Patron as it comes in a green box, so would this qualify as close enough for St. Patrick?
Sporting a big stone? Oh do tell me how big? Mine is 6 total. 3 for the center stone and 1.5 on either end. Platinum setting, the before, now and future setting. I do not wear it. I do like my diamond studs. I call them my Oprah’s at 2.5 each. These I still wear.
My GF’s now they have rings that make mine look like it came out of a cracker jack’s box.
Diamonds are fun to have but a pain in the ass to make sure they do not get misplaced as I have done a few times. One time it took me three days to find my earrings and I only stopped to sleep. This is a true story. I missed a friends bd party I was so upset. But I found them where I stashed them. I am such an idiot at times.
Diamonds are a girls best friend.
Right…I told him for once he was right. He isn’t who I thought he was…he was worse!
meant you not see…
Well of course! Why do not not see…
The ones you wouldn’t consider IPPS. 🙂