Understanding the Fuel Matrix
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All narcissists have fuel matrices and you need to understand where you fit into that fuel matrix and how that particular matrix functions as part of protecting yourself.
This Logic Bulletin takes you through :-
1. The Fuel Matrices of all sub schools of narcissist. This includes updated and expanded information about the Upper Lesser Type A and Upper Lesser Type B Narcissists, plus the Middle Mid Range Type A and Type B Narcissists.
2. What the Fuel Matrices look like, their size, the nature of the matrices and who sits in them.
3. How the relevant narcissist of each sub school relies on the individuals in the Fuel Matrix
4. What the Virtual Fuel Matrix is and how it operates.
5. How a Long Distance Appliance fits into it the narcissist fuel matrix and how that functions.
6. Detailed descriptions of each sub-school of narcissist, their behaviours and actions to increase your understanding of the different types of narcissist. This is a comprehensive expansion which will help you understand a lot more about the way different sub schools of narcissist operate.
A fascinating and educational exploration of the fuel matrix and the interaction between you and the narcissist, this is essential to know how the narcissist behaves so you can ensure your No Contact Regime is as effective as possible. It is also advanced reading for those who feel they are well-acquainted with the narcissistic dynamic from their existing reading and consultations.
This extensive Logic Bulletin is available at just US $ 10 and is a bulletin you will read several times and refer to often and can be obtained here
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Hmmm. I think my 1st husband was a Somatic MGN. I used to think he was just a psychopath that slept with everybody. I’m not sure he knows.. i don’t think he’d care either way.
My daughter’s dad fits the cerebral LGN. He knows what he’s like.. also doesn’t care. I think I was an IPSS with him. I refused to move near him.
I DEFINITELY need to scrub this x off my back..
I have recently encountered a very clever UGN. I believe he had “an extensive ‘dark’ fuel matrix and an ability to operate in and out of worlds” as you describe.
I wonder – are you referring to psychic manipulation and a connection with “satan/demonic powers?” – I felt this energy trying to ensnare me, and it has only been through my research and the very valuable information you have offered, I have managed to extricate myself from this dark vice grip on my heart and soul. I really do owe you my life and am thankful I am what you call a Super Empath. Thank you so very much Mr Tudor. I am very curious about the “other world and dark fuel matrix” if you have any more information about this subject?
Hello Ostara, I am not referring to psychic manipulation. I do not subscribe to such views although I know there are those who talk in such terms and they are naturally welcome to express their views and opinions (as you have) with regard to this experience.
Thank you for your kind words and there will be more about the Dark Fuel Matrix in further work of mine.
Have you written anything more about the dark matrix??
Where might i find it?. thank you.
I have but it is not yet published.
I have only read a small number of your articles, HG, and they are most revealing, but in this one, I came face-to-face with my ex F*cktard Narc – he’s a LGN. I still need to read more about his type, but perhaps you could answer a question for me, does the LGN hoover? I walked out over 8 weeks ago and he hasn’t attempted to get in touch, though he did leave some of my belongings with a mutual friend.
Thanks for your work, I’m hoping they will help me heal…
Yes. 8 weeks ago is nothing. Plenty of time yet.
Thank you, HG.
You are welcome.
Since finding your blog, HG, I’ve always felt the ex-MN was a Greater, but in the past few months, I’ve began to wonder if he’s more along the lines of a mid-range. This post brings me back to my original belief, he’s definitely a UGN. Thanks, HG!
Pleasure BH.
Ahhh – I see!! It’s very helpful to now know that I was dealing with a MGN. I wonder if that makes me a Mid-Range.
The UGN. This is the most concise piece I have read about my Greater. It also helps explain as to why I felt he fit both the Socio & Psychopath ‘definitions’. That dark side. The disturbing extent he went to setting up some of his traps. (unsuccessfully) Malign FUH’s. The risk taker. The successful business man. Everything you said plus more.
2 of your articles have triggered me HG. ‘I Want’ when I first read it 3 months ago that he could hate me so much & the UGN. The UGN because to think when we would leave each other at the end of the day 30 years ago & go to our respective abusive homes, that his was so bad that it created this. That once beautiful boy. I loved him so desperately then & my abuse left me impotent to tell him. He took it as rejection. I felt I had blown it & couldn’t be around him so I became his person that left. I became his person that let him down. This was personal. Very personal. The boy was punishing me. The evolving man, saved me. Incredible.
Thankyou.
That you Restored Heart.
HG, did I read this right? Aren’t you a UGN?
“The UGN is very intelligent but not necessarily the most intelligent of the relevant schools.”
Hope I’m not igniting any fury here…😕. Ah, you do precise “not necessarily”…
HG,
Wonderful and enlightening-I would hate to cross an UGN! Instead, I think I would prefer to be part of his inner circle-great intellectual conversations!
Just wondering-what is the longest time you have been with an IPPS? What has been the longest/shortest Golden period for you? Forgive me if this is too personal HG, I wonder because you stated that for the Greater the GP is the shortest. For the Greater like you does the devaluation period usually last longer than the GP because the quality of fuel is higher?
Thanks again 🙂
Longest time has been four years.
The devaluation period depends on fuel, whether there is a trigger for dis-engagement and the nature of the fuel being obtained from the IPPS and from other sources.
HG, are you an upper greater?
What do you think?
LGN – Donald Trump
MGN – Tom Cruise
UGN – Victor Newman from The Young & The Restless
Wow HG this is awesome! All of this time I thought I was dealing with a mid-range, but from what you described, he is a middle greater. Although he aspires to be in politics and on the pulpit, hes very popular, knows alot people, has a harem of women that love him even though he’s married, and has alluded to being self aware. You described him perfectly!
Thank you.
Thank you for the Fuel Matrix articles! Truly enlightening! 🙂
You are welcome.
Ohhhhh.. my God
i am entangled with a Greater !
No wonder what is going on it is all so dark !!!!!!! And yet too charming.
I am lost.
Only God’ s mercy can save me from those deep roots he has grown in me.
Many thanks HG. The UGN. A very dangerous person indeed. One I was entangled with was a reputable international businessman. You better believe nobody knew all the shady shit that took place on the down low. I have also worked in a high level position dealing with various international businesses and organizations. I have seen these narcissistic leaders involved in back channel deals and pay to play schemes. They are admired by all but completely ruthless behind the scenes. It is easy to be drawn into the society life. Beware that you do not fall victim to it though. You will be ostracized if you make a mistake. I was never in that position, but I can attest to the fact that it is an ugly one. It is rare, I think, amongst the wealthiest and most powerful to find someone who is generally nice and not narcissistic. The psychological games are relentless. You have to be a very strong person to survive that kind of abuse. I being just as much of a game player enjoyed this mental sparring. I look back now at all the time wasted playing games and think about the heartache I could have saved myself. If you are in this situation or thinking about it or wishing he was back in your life. Remember the abuse. Don’t minimize it. Get someone who loves you. You don’t deserve to be treated abusively. No matter how much money or power they have.
Would you put Steve Jobs in the upper greater category?
I see myself here except I have no need for fuel. I breath, I have fuel.
I have acted in many of these manners but have evolved or moved away from some of these behaviors.
Perhaps I did devastate when I was younger. Now I do not care to do so. I find it too much work.
I do learn more about myself through your writing and observations and discoveries. I also know more each day that I can choose to feel or not.
But animals are my weakness now. My kryptonight.
Before I really never thought about them and avoided them. Now I know why.
I would put my moms cat in a pillow case and swing it around when I was mad at her. It was hilarious to see it walk after. Oh and I killed a frog. When I did this, I realized to just leave them be. I think it was a test of my mind and how I would feel. I still regret this.
I am oddly normal.
Excellent article, HG. Thank you. But I have no idea where you might fit in. (Just kidding).
And yes, my exnarc is definitely a greater, and my guess is the highest kind, I mean upper, too.
You are welcome.
My ex is an upper greater. I’m a magnet empath. He was my rebound from a middle greater narcissist. You are right. We had a two month golden period, and constant entitlement and devaluaton phase that followed. We have a child together. Our child has a teddy bear at his house that he calls “teddy the narcissist”, to laugh at all of his family who went no contact with him for being a narcissist. I hate him and he loves that.
HG are you a UGN?
It’s a living hell. 😔
On Mar 29, 2017 2:28 PM, “Knowing the Narcissist” wrote:
> HG Tudor posted: ” The final part of the series of articles concerning the > important Fuel Matrix addresses the school of narcissism of the Greater > Narcissist. Like the Lesser and Mid-Range Schools, this particular school > has three divisions. 1. The Lower Greater Narcissi” >