My first narc did not use silent treatments so when I experienced it with my second narc it was very startling to me. Along with silent treatments came cold void blank stares, and rejection. It wasn’t until I broke the relationship off and the sudden interest in me again, was I convinced I had yet again found myself in the arms of another narc. It only took me 3 years to my last one that took 14 years to figure it out, so I am hopeful. Silent treatments are extremely childish. Then again, the narc is just one big giant CHILD.
Im glad the n I was seeing at the time finally had a glass of shut the helll up.Talked about himself for 3 days straight once with no silence in between.If it walks like a duck and talks like a swan its a narcissist.He was covert but I figured it out quick.No contact no fuel from me I flipped it on him checkmate..So glad he is not in my life.Dumped his ass quickly.As Oprah would say if you allow low life chicken coop people like narcissists or other toxic relationships in your life you will get hen pecked to death.Stay out of traps and chicken coops and get rid of them and give to yourself what you wanted from them.Self partner and mindfully date and choose your friends wisely.I called him a toad to his face.I said I am done kissing frogs like you and your kind .lol.Gave him a couple narcissistic injuries then no fuel and waved bye bye.Your silent treatments are not torture we dont want you in our life anyway.Good riddance to all you toads ribbit ribbit croak.lol
Such a shame to keep those lips zipped.. a bit of rough look in the morning.. I like it.
He would grow Hagrid’s beard before he would even talk to me again..if ever.
HG, I was thinking of an acronym for when you decide to show the world the real you. An acronym like the one you use, FREE. The only one that I could come up with was ALBUM. Since an album is a blank book where you can start with new memories/ ideas/ pictures.
A-absolutely(which also means unconditionally and completely)
L-loved
B-by
U-us and (empaths)
M-many others
What do you think HG?
Ladies I challenge you to come up with more acronyms like the one above
You can see it very clearly for what it is post informing them that it’s all over and done with.
Childs play
I now have my narc alert added to my tool box. So just pass and move on as there is NO FUEL here.
Only real people welcome
My ex narc had no idea that there were times when he went on and on and on about his near-NBA draft *rolls eyes* and his brushes with famous people, I would be praying for a damn silent treatment! That was the thing about his silent treatments — he never got the timing right!
It gets very boring listening to their same old verbal self-flagellation. It’s NOT all about them. It’s sometimes about what I want from them. (“Shut up and get naked!”) ha!
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True so true that’s what happened to me that’s what killed me but now it’s different, I’m coming back to life shhhh secret hahhaha
My first narc did not use silent treatments so when I experienced it with my second narc it was very startling to me. Along with silent treatments came cold void blank stares, and rejection. It wasn’t until I broke the relationship off and the sudden interest in me again, was I convinced I had yet again found myself in the arms of another narc. It only took me 3 years to my last one that took 14 years to figure it out, so I am hopeful. Silent treatments are extremely childish. Then again, the narc is just one big giant CHILD.
Im glad the n I was seeing at the time finally had a glass of shut the helll up.Talked about himself for 3 days straight once with no silence in between.If it walks like a duck and talks like a swan its a narcissist.He was covert but I figured it out quick.No contact no fuel from me I flipped it on him checkmate..So glad he is not in my life.Dumped his ass quickly.As Oprah would say if you allow low life chicken coop people like narcissists or other toxic relationships in your life you will get hen pecked to death.Stay out of traps and chicken coops and get rid of them and give to yourself what you wanted from them.Self partner and mindfully date and choose your friends wisely.I called him a toad to his face.I said I am done kissing frogs like you and your kind .lol.Gave him a couple narcissistic injuries then no fuel and waved bye bye.Your silent treatments are not torture we dont want you in our life anyway.Good riddance to all you toads ribbit ribbit croak.lol
Such a shame to keep those lips zipped.. a bit of rough look in the morning.. I like it.
He would grow Hagrid’s beard before he would even talk to me again..if ever.
HG, I was thinking of an acronym for when you decide to show the world the real you. An acronym like the one you use, FREE. The only one that I could come up with was ALBUM. Since an album is a blank book where you can start with new memories/ ideas/ pictures.
A-absolutely(which also means unconditionally and completely)
L-loved
B-by
U-us and (empaths)
M-many others
What do you think HG?
Ladies I challenge you to come up with more acronyms like the one above
My old name was Hurt, incase you wonder who KT is
I know, but thank you.
You can see it very clearly for what it is post informing them that it’s all over and done with.
Childs play
I now have my narc alert added to my tool box. So just pass and move on as there is NO FUEL here.
Only real people welcome
My ex narc had no idea that there were times when he went on and on and on about his near-NBA draft *rolls eyes* and his brushes with famous people, I would be praying for a damn silent treatment! That was the thing about his silent treatments — he never got the timing right!
I love it!
It gets very boring listening to their same old verbal self-flagellation. It’s NOT all about them. It’s sometimes about what I want from them. (“Shut up and get naked!”) ha!
Brilliant 🙂