Narc affair,
Yes, because we are forgiving souls, we just assume they will change but it’s lies. I’m wondering it these are people on the autism spectrum, my son has AS (Aspergers). I totally see some parallels in the behavior. But I’m try to work on those things. My EX does not visit with him, and has totally wrote him off. I see so much rage building in my son. :(.
Hi slc…i feel very strongly about this as my son has aspergers( high functioning autism). The two imo are polar opposites and the main reason being cognitive level socially. Someone with npd cognitively knows people and psycholigy of people very well and they use that to manipulate. They know how to play mind games to get what they want deliberately. They are masters of the mind.
A person on the autism spectrum struggles socially to understand how people relate and interact. My son is very bright but he struggles at times to let go of things people have said or done even if he misinterpretted it. People with asd struggle with body language and nuances and would have a hard time manipulating someone let alone in the insidious ways an npd person would.
Autism is a disability whereas npd is a disorder. The two imo are very different.
Where confusion of similarity may come up is being focused on oneself or coming off selfish which people with autism are prone to appear but for very different reasons. Ive not met many with autism that are jealous or envious like a npd person is. Another misconception is people with autism cant express love which is false. Its the reverse many ive met with asd are so very loving its just they struggle to express it.
This isnt to paint people with npd as being less of a person despite how evil these people can be theres usually an underlying core reason why they have the disorder. The two are just very different and how they were created. Alot we still dont know about both.
I believe aspies and narcs share a lowered oxytocin level, so we ‘get’ each other quickly upon meeting.
That’s where the similarities end as aspies don’t troll except in good humour. They are the opposite of the streetsmart narcs in many ways.
aspies are easy to troll because the whole idea that someone is purposely doing this stuff is alien to them.
HG have you dated a woman with asperger’s?
-poor social skills
-spends hours on special interests
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Narc affair,
Yes, because we are forgiving souls, we just assume they will change but it’s lies. I’m wondering it these are people on the autism spectrum, my son has AS (Aspergers). I totally see some parallels in the behavior. But I’m try to work on those things. My EX does not visit with him, and has totally wrote him off. I see so much rage building in my son. :(.
Hi slc…i feel very strongly about this as my son has aspergers( high functioning autism). The two imo are polar opposites and the main reason being cognitive level socially. Someone with npd cognitively knows people and psycholigy of people very well and they use that to manipulate. They know how to play mind games to get what they want deliberately. They are masters of the mind.
A person on the autism spectrum struggles socially to understand how people relate and interact. My son is very bright but he struggles at times to let go of things people have said or done even if he misinterpretted it. People with asd struggle with body language and nuances and would have a hard time manipulating someone let alone in the insidious ways an npd person would.
Autism is a disability whereas npd is a disorder. The two imo are very different.
Where confusion of similarity may come up is being focused on oneself or coming off selfish which people with autism are prone to appear but for very different reasons. Ive not met many with autism that are jealous or envious like a npd person is. Another misconception is people with autism cant express love which is false. Its the reverse many ive met with asd are so very loving its just they struggle to express it.
This isnt to paint people with npd as being less of a person despite how evil these people can be theres usually an underlying core reason why they have the disorder. The two are just very different and how they were created. Alot we still dont know about both.
I meant to add if indy, snow white or anyone with experience with autism would like to join in feel free. Im curious to see your viewpoints.
I believe aspies and narcs share a lowered oxytocin level, so we ‘get’ each other quickly upon meeting.
That’s where the similarities end as aspies don’t troll except in good humour. They are the opposite of the streetsmart narcs in many ways.
aspies are easy to troll because the whole idea that someone is purposely doing this stuff is alien to them.
HG have you dated a woman with asperger’s?
-poor social skills
-spends hours on special interests
No I haven’t Brian.
The illusion not only the narc themselves buy into but that we also buy into and more times than not knowingly.
They use everybody. 👿👺. For the faults self or the other self. Nothing will ever be real to them because they are protecting, the damage child inside.
~Sorry~ 🙁
Hello Jody Allen!
If you feel like sharing: why do you feel “sorry” when you see this picture and the text? How do you interpret it?