The Rules of Ex Club – No. 2
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Vent Your Spleen! (Please see the Rules in Formal Info)
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How long is an ex painted white for?
For as long as it serves our purposes (usually for as long as you are being devalued).
I want to become an angel too. So far it has not happened.
Does her really believe she is an angel again or is this just a triangulation tactic?
She is painted white, so it is a real belief.
How can you say you don’t feel attachment when the entire personality keeps reacting to over-attachment to the family?
Also you didn’t answer my earlier question – did you ever sexually abuse your sister or think or act towards her as a partner?
Very easily because I do not bond or attach to my victims, I attach them to me.
No I did not.
And hoovering begins
I would agree with this. I couldn’t figure out how they instantly became best friends and he was corresponding with her via social media, especially when she did him so wrong, in his words.
Remember … not angel but suddenly he said a few nice things about her. Now the new supply is getting the same thing about me for sure… I was the crazy bitch … now I had many good traits and loooooooooved his child etc. Just waiting for her or one of her friends to reach out .. to get more information on why he is refusing to speak with her. Not there quite yet but I can feel it. Trying to hoover and not giving up. Have a strong feeling he will either show up at my house or try to reach me… Im going to stay at my new ‘friends’ house tonite just in case.
Dear HG
I keep love n affection for my narc. Hope he knows.
Nite, Sincerely,
Pam B
these are good memes
This is why I don’t fear, but constantly pray for my Ex Narcissist to have an abundant “love life” . The sooner they turn their focus on to a new prospect for abuse, you are in the clear for at least a while
Indeed. And a sympathetic confidant to vent all of his frustrations about your malfunctioning..
Sometimes sounds like every narcissist should be in P.R. work for all the spinning of info narcissists can accomplish