HG Tudor and Queen Adventures
Listen to my recent interview with Tracy of Queen Adventures which addresses a number of matters including the approach to sex of the four cadres and why certain of our kind are so effective when it comes to activity between the sheets. An excellent listen.
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Great interview!! Would have loved to hear more questions from people however. I was surprised there werent more…
HG, who decides when your time with the good Doctors is over?? You? Your family? The Doctors?
Thanks…
Well I could walk away at any time if I chose, but of course that would have ramifications. It is down to the doctors.
Thank you HG. But in that case, I fear you shall be ensnared by them forever….or at least they shall try. Im sure you are a fascinating case study. One of which they will not be glad to let go of??
HG knows their game Lisa.
HG,
My apologies if this question is out of place here but I’m curious how long the golden period usually lasts with your victims? Like the average amount of time usually? Thank you!
It varies.
I agree with Lisa. If the doctors have the last decision *and* there are still implications if you decided to leave after two years therapy, then you are not as free to walk away as it seems. There seems to be a big power imbalance between you and them and they may keep you their hostage for several years. It may look as if you gave your consent to enter therapy, however, there would be repercussions if you did not. This does not look like an agreement to me. Besides, if your family is paying for your therapy, the doctors may not be acting in your best interest.
Aren’t the doctors also Acons with some C-PTSD symptoms needing a life-time therapy? I do not believe they come from a healthy functional family, especially if they are willing to take advantage of the fact that it was your narcissistic family who coerced you into doing therapy.
If I were a therapist and a Matrinarc and her Lieutenants would come to me to ask me to treat their supposedly horrible, crazy son, I would not do it.
I just got done listening to the interview. And wow!!!!!!
HG, you said something that really struck me in terms of how my narc used to talk to me about his “friendships”. When the caller asked you if you had any friends and how you felt towards them and you replied “I attach people to me, but I do not get attached to them”.
Mind blown, good sir. Mind blown!
Few more questions HG ,
You were brilliant in that interview , do you feel any pride in what you are doing with this work ? Try not to answer in terms of fuel ha ha
Has this work become more satisfying than you thought since it was forced upon you or at least suggested rather than your own choice completely ?
I think it was the last caller that had been married for 30 years , tried to leave many times and had felt to blame for a lot of things , when you told her
It is not your fault , that is very powerful coming from a narcissist rather than a family member or friend . I understand this person is not relevant enough to you to give you much fuel if any but that could have changed that woman’s life in some way.
Does this not make you feel that your narcissism could be channelled much more positively moving forward ?
Changing people’s lives and making a difference in the understanding of mental health problems , is that not more satisfying in the bigger picture than making your current girlfriend cry ?
You should be very proud of what your doing.
Although you love to torment and manipulate the good doctors as much as possible during every session , you have gained insight from them, you have gained insight from your followers of your work , are you finding any of it satisfying?
Would you not like to stop the endless cycles of narcissism with the women in your life ? Even a lesser can do that , are you not better than that ?
You may be nomadic in your approach to relationships , marriage and settling down with one woman may not be for you it’s not for everyone in the modern world .
However the deliberate abuse could be channeled differently?
Your story of defending your male friend in a bar – yes you got fuel but neverless it’s the right thing to do.
So you do naturally Chanell your narcissism to help others whether you realise it or not.
You could start to do that more and more and still have all your fuel needs met .
The story of your father and your exam results is moving, he loved you , but it doesn’t excuse his weakness in terms of your mother, I don’t understand that dynamic ? Was your father an empath or a narcissist?
HG
I enjoyed the interview, and this may seem a little weird given that we have no connection in real life-I felt very proud of you.
Your laugh HG( I have mentioned before ,yes) so distinct, still makes hair on the back of neck stand up 😂Great interview.
One of THE best interviews I’ve heard in a long time!!! Extremely informative. Kudos HG!!!
I am pushing the replay button, over & over & over again.
Your voice on that inteview was just tantalizing.
Another great interview HG! I love listening to your interviews.
Thank you Khaleesi.
H.G., this interview was one of your best to date! The impact you will have on so many people exposed to your work is immeasurable! And you did have that late night, low tone to your voice which did make it oh so appealing to listen to. lol
I have two questions from listening to your answers to Tracy, if you don’t mind.
1) As you explained how you begin to feel more dominant and can conquer the world (or destroy it) as your fuel level rises, do you find that happens quicker if it is with positive fuel if you are low or with negative fuel? Which one works best in that situation?
2) You gave a much more in depth explanation on when your family “intervened” and demanded you needed to seek treatment due to the impact your behaviors were having on the family, business, family friends, colleagues, etc. They described you as frantically out of control and risking getting yourself jailed if you were to continue on the path you did. As someone who prides himself on the amount of control you have on your actions and in maintaining the facade, what on earth kind of behavior hit that saturation level? In just reading your article a few days ago on having the narcissistic neighbor who could go so far as damage property, kill flowers, poison pets, that’s what I think when i hear out of control behavior. Is your family pacified for now with your behavior since you’ve been in treatment?
To hear the words in conversation, I found that to be the scariest part of your interview. It really jarred me. That is why I am curious.
Again, though, fantastic interview. I did forward it to a friend to listen to also.
Thank you. It was 3am where I was when the interview started and nearly 4-30 am when it finished.
1. It depends on potency, quantity and frequency. If all those are equal, then it will be negative as that outranks positive, however an infrequent does of negative fuel in a small quantity from a tertiary source is easily outweighed by sustained provision of a large amount of positive fuel from a primary source.
So negative fuel means more as validation that you can still have power over someone vs positive fuel filled with adoration that you crave which also validates you?
If you were in a low fuel spot, which would replenish you more – a negative fuel fix with the ex predecessor, Andrea? Or a positive fuel fix with current IP or a new IP candidate?
Depends on the quantity and frequency as stated in the previous answer.
Hi Clarece, I personally think when they are in the golden period with the IPPS or persuing a new IPPS the positive fuel is what they like as they feel like they are winning they are getting the result they want at the time. But when an IPPS is imbedded they want the negative fuel because they want constant proof that this person cares enough Still to get upset , cling , show fear of losing the narc . This is what they are looking for in my opinion so they don’t need to worry your going to leave as they always worry we are going to leave and that has to be on their terms . I also think they see IPPS ‘s being nice to lots of people but those people would not have the power to necessarily hurt the IPPS in the way the narc would . So the narc has to keep proving they have more power over you than anyone else you care about. They don’t want to be cared about equally alongside others they have to be the one that can bring you to your knees. Otherwise they are not satisfied you loved them enough . That’s why indifference is our greatest weapon and the narcs biggest fear .
This is another captivating interview with clear answers. I liked it very much!
Hearing a narcissist tell you “It’s not your fault” after decades of feeling guilty in some way or another is not only validating but it can also be healing and it is a way of getting closure too.
If you consider the following questions are too personal, please feel free to delete this part of my comment.
Who said you would be subjected to a criminal and regulatory investigation? Was it your own family?
Apart from Matrinarc, are there other people with Cluster B disorders or highly narcissistic people who will profit from you being left out of the inheritance?
Yes the complaints came from within the family. Liars, the lot of them.
Yes.
Wonderful insight, HG. I couldn’t be comforted by the seemingly acceptable explanations my friends and family had for my broken heart over the “loss” of this person in my life. “He’s selfish, he’s a loser, a piece of shit, he’s abusive, he’ll regret losing you and pushing you away”, and not until I googled his behavior and way of “discarding” me, did I discover NPD and how clearly this affliction was what I was encountering. And yes, the thing I find myself missing most is the sex. Without knowing he has NPD, I would have likely stayed quiet and would respond if one day he reaches out again. Now I know that is a terrible idea, and will be completely fruitless.
As an aside, to take attention off him and put it into my healing, I’m addressing not only my magnetic Empath tendencies, but also my own issue of codependency, and how this made me a perfect match for a Narcissist. It IS a very oft misdiagnosed maladaptive disease. And more rampant than we’d like to think.
You are welcome Meredith.
Awesome interview! It’s unfortunate that narcissistic abuse has become the norm. As your work continues to grow in popularity, hopefully more victims will identify the problem and empower themselves. Your delivery and articulation is excellent!
Thank you Natalie.
Wow, amazing. It’s one thing to read your work but to hear you speak makes it so real. #TeamAwareness I actually shared on FB. I will leave active for a few days.
Great job..as always you delivered.
Thank you Yolo, I appreciate you sharing it.
HG♕ You nailed it! I only hope listeners & readers grasp and understand that this is the BRUTAL TRUTH (as you say)!!! That the “best medicine tastes the worst”. It is not empathetic but that is exactly the truth. It’s hard core and the quicker narc victims realize this, the sooner they will not only understand, but also be aware and stay away. Should certain individuals choose not to understand and not be aware, thus engage once again with former or new narc, you WILL be abused and victimized again. You have been informed and warned……Seize the Power or don’t…. THANK YOU AGAIN
You are welcome. Yes people ought to pay attention and heed the content of my work as it will provide them with what is necessary to achieve understanding and acquire freedom. Of course, you, my readers, play a hugely important part in the delivery of that message by spreading it to others and making recommendations about my work, for which I am appreciative.
The sex was phenomenal and he was a terrible student. I never saw him read a book ever! I think my ex MMRN was a Somatic! Hot Damn!
Awesome interview BTW! The Sex and the City and Sex and the Narcissist excerpts were cool because I had read both and it was nice to hear you discuss it.
Thank you K, thanks for listening.
Hot damn indeed!
When I listened to you talking about sexual fluidity, I was like holy shit! That explains everything. I was so excited I commented during the interview! Hence the second comment.
Let’s talk about sex baby😊😊 you describing part of the details was better than reading the book. The f**** me harder, bend you over in the alley. Lol, I am sure most callers felt bashful to ask the sex questions.
I found it interesting that you kept saying the simple fact is ??? I was like there’s nothing simple about this😊I assume because you’re highly intelligent it’s an natural response. However, your delivery makes it easy for us to comprehend without all the complexity therapist cite from the DSM.
Thank you Yolo, I am pleased you find my communication effective.
Going to have a listen tonight 🤗
I had a difficult time with this link on my phone i couldnt pause and play. Ill have to try it out on my ipad.
HG, just listened to your interview , Wow , Wow !! I still feel that this is not mainstream enough . I will not be satisfied until it’s on the 10 o Clock News . You on a Panarma Episode . A weekend National / International telethon .
I still don’t get how your voice is not recognised by people you know . Your voice is distinctive and I can hear a very slight accent every time I hear you . I don’t know you , if I did I would know it was you . Will there be a time you will actually come out and do these interviews more mainstream ? It would put all these ridiculous love coaches out of business in a flash . Cashing in on all the commitment phobic men and women out there , which is just the tip of the ice berg . Anyway loved your interview . I don’t love you but I love what your doing . Your doing it for your own gain but it does not matter , what you are doing is probably more worth wile than you will ever know . People working in the mental health professions need to completely relook at education and training . Rant Over
Thank you Lisa and I agree, there needs to be wider awareness and much of that lies in the hands of you and the other good readers. Thank you for your kind comments.
Great interview HG. This is the first time I heard your voice, very sexy by the way. The information and perspective you give in every form of communication has helped me a great deal. Almost makes me believe you really give a shit. My sincere thanks to you. Keep it coming.
I am pleased you enjoyed it Cindy and thank you for listening.
Now I have something to do tonight, first thing when i get home. I look forward to your interview tonight, HG.
Hi HG Tudors #1 Fan, your posts are always so sweet about your gratitude for HG’s help. I’m sure you loved his interview I did too. I don’t know your story but I hope your doing ok