The Narcissistic Truths – No. 115

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35 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 115

  1. jenna says:

    Haha! Clarece wud make sure cake gets on ur shirt! What do u have to say to that tudor?!

    Windstorm, i liked ur joke! It was not lame!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I would say it wouldn’t happen and believe me, it would not happen.

      1. jenna says:

        Yikes!!! B careful clarece!!

      2. MLA - Clarece says:

        I can be a stealthy one… as I head on down to the naughty step in the dungeon. lol

  2. windstorm2 says:

    I understand how this can wound, but my narcissists laugh at each other fairly often. Especially when 3 or more get together. They tease and make cutting comments to each other and it is a big loss of face if you can’t take the teasing and make some witty comeback.

    Is this type of criticism just seen differently? Maybe it’s a cultural thing here? And it’s not just when a narc says something critical. It’s any critical thing said in front of others, by anyone that you know. If you can’t laugh it off and make a witty comeback, then you’re a loser. It’s not what anybody says to you, it’s your response that determines how people think of you.

  3. K says:

    My ex MMRN told me how he always wanted a pinata when he was a child, so he asked his parents for one and they bought him a pinata and he beat on it till it broke apart, while his (narc) mom and (CoD empath) dad watched. Well, the pinata was empty and he was really upset about it. I started LMAO; I couldn’t help it. It was hysterical! As I was laughing, I said, “Who the fuck buys their kid a pinata and doesn’t fill it with candy?! Your mother is a fucking idiot! And why didn’t your dad say anything?” My ex looked so hurt, while I laughed. On his next B-day, my daughter bought him a pinata and filled it with his favorite candy. I still laugh when I think of that story today.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It amused me, I did something similar but it was not idiocy but deliberate.

      1. K says:

        Many narcissistic antics are amusing, Your calculation doesn’t surprise me at all. My father was like that. He planned out many of his deeds.

      2. narc affair says:

        The empty pinata is just plain nasty HG! You did that to a child? πŸ˜„ Do you know how important candy is to children!?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Cool your jets NA, I did however I did it to make an adult look bad and then HG rode to the rescue with the sweets (candy) thereafter. Thus no children were harmed in this HG Manipulation Production.

      3. narc affair says:

        I hope you included kit kats and reeses pieces πŸ˜‹

        1. HG Tudor says:

          The very occasional Kit Kat is acceptable. I have never eaten Reese’s Pieces, what type of confection are they?

      4. narc affair says:

        HG….youve not had reese pieces!??? Do they not have that in the UK? Omg you need to try it. Its chocolate patties with peanut butter centers. The universe revolves around reeses pieces πŸ˜‚ kit kats are a must too. I have a bad habit of snapping them in stores πŸ˜„tasty!

        1. MLA - Clarece says:

          Agreed! Chocolate and peanut butter, two great tastes that go great together! lol

      5. As a Reese’s peanut butter cup aficionado (It is my FAVORITE of all) I am compelled πŸ™‚ to point out that Reese’s pieces are more like M&Ms but Reese’s peanut butter cups are these:

        https://www.hersheys.com/reeses/en_us/products/reeses-peanut-butter-cups/reeses-peanut-butter-cups.html

        SO yummy. But in moderation… πŸ˜‰

      6. narc affair says:

        Strongerwendy…yes the peanut butter cups is what id meant. The pieces km not as crazy about. I could live off those cups lol i did find a freezer chocolate vegan version of them i like as much! Coconut oil, cashew butter, carob powder, cocoa powder, maple syrup and peanut butter for the centers yummmm!! These babies are more like truffles.

        1. Narc Affair, if it was only possible to live off of them… but…then they’d become like the strawberry ice cream in one of HG’s posts and I wouldn’t savor them as much πŸ˜‰

      7. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        Stop it everyone ! We all know mounds is superior lmao!

        Come on now!!!

      8. narc affair says:

        Strongerwendy…i would never get tired of peanut butter cups πŸ˜„ bring them on!

        1. πŸ™‚

  4. Bliss says:

    I’m not very good with these one and probably getting this all wrong. (Yeah, guess I’m thick)

    Is it that narcs get wounded if people laugh at them? I used to laugh affectionately at my LGN (loved him to bits) and he used to be extremely offended, I could feel his fury! Oddly the MN was the one who always had a good come back which would hurt me, when I laughed at him (not so affectionately).

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Yes, if you laugh AT us, it wounds us considerably.

      1. jenna says:

        No cake wud reach ur shirt?! Gulp…

        I think u may hold my hands tightly to stop me. I love a man who does that! I’m borderline and love such attention (not hitting obviously but a tight hand grip is welcome!) βœ‹βœ‹πŸ‘πŸ˜Š

        O
        R

        other option:

        RUN for ur lives!! πŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒπŸƒ

      2. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        Explains why my ex was often so mad at me πŸ˜‚

      3. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD. says:

        It probably didn’t help that I would start laughing and poking at him when he would try and gaslight me lmao

        Narc: that never happened

        Me: hahahahah! OooooOooOoooOoo ::imagine spirit fingers:: I guess cause you say it didn’t happen… it never happened….

  5. jenna says:

    Ok maybe if u poke a hole in my cake as u did w ur ex gf’s, i might just burst out laughingπŸ˜„

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Well, perhaps you might Jenna, but that action was done to convey something far more malevolent than mere Cake Violation.

      1. jenna says:

        Fineeee!
        But u know what i wud do? I wud take ur hand, and rub that cake smothered finger onto ur shirt. How about that?! πŸ˜€
        (I’m a little scared of ur answer πŸ˜…)

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I will not write anything other than no cake would reach my shirt.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            Haha! Maybe not with Jenna. If frosting needs to get on your shirt, I’ll make sure it happens. Doesn’t have to be the one you’re wearing. Could be your favorite football shirt you want to wear to the next game.

          2. windstorm2 says:

            You mean soccer don’t you? 😝😝

          3. MLA - Clarece says:

            In U.S.A. lingo, yes.

          4. windstorm2 says:

            Sorry, Clarece! I was just being facetious, since HG always corrects us and insists it be called football. My lame idea of a joke! Doesnt take much for me on a Friday night! Hope you have a great weekend!

  6. narc affair says:

    This is something i find hard to do intentionally. I like to laugh with people not at them as i find it highly disrespectful if they arent laughing or find it funny too. Its definitely a way to wound the narcissist and dent their ego.

  7. jenna says:

    I wud never laugh at u HG. You’ve been hurt enuf in ur childhoodπŸ˜”
    And i miss the support on the blog. I am waiting eagerly for ur return, as i always do every time u travel. #attachmentsyndrome
    #fearofabandonment

    And for some reason, i’m missing my ex narc. So pls come back so that i can replace him with ur support!! 😫😫😫

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