Understanding the Fuel Matrix
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All narcissists have fuel matrices and you need to understand where you fit into that fuel matrix and how that particular matrix functions as part of protecting yourself.
This Logic Bulletin takes you through :-
1. The Fuel Matrices of all sub schools of narcissist. This includes updated and expanded information about the Upper Lesser Type A and Upper Lesser Type B Narcissists, plus the Middle Mid Range Type A and Type B Narcissists.
2. What the Fuel Matrices look like, their size, the nature of the matrices and who sits in them.
3. How the relevant narcissist of each sub school relies on the individuals in the Fuel Matrix
4. What the Virtual Fuel Matrix is and how it operates.
5. How a Long Distance Appliance fits into it the narcissist fuel matrix and how that functions.
6. Detailed descriptions of each sub-school of narcissist, their behaviours and actions to increase your understanding of the different types of narcissist. This is a comprehensive expansion which will help you understand a lot more about the way different sub schools of narcissist operate.
A fascinating and educational exploration of the fuel matrix and the interaction between you and the narcissist, this is essential to know how the narcissist behaves so you can ensure your No Contact Regime is as effective as possible. It is also advanced reading for those who feel they are well-acquainted with the narcissistic dynamic from their existing reading and consultations.
This extensive Logic Bulletin is available at just US $ 10 and is a bulletin you will read several times and refer to often and can be obtained here
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I had a #5 relationship.. but then when I went to end the relationship, he moved down here in record time. Is that scenario covered in the LD empath?
Thanks. I know I ask a lot of questions..
The IPSS and DLS in the virtual matrix will never have a formal relationship with a greater, correct?
Yet may have physical interactions at times?
They have a Formal Relationship as booty call, sidepiece, The Other Woman or The Other Man, mistress etc. They do not have the FR as wife, girlfriend, partner.
I don’t see that as a formal relationship….
I have never dealt with a situation like that
Thank you HG.
Indeed, there is the Narcissistic Relationship – you belong to us until death of either you or me and there is the Formal Relationship – marriage, co-habs, bf and gf, mistress, sidepiece etc.
You have given me somethings to think about
I was never my ex’s side piece or mistress. We were “friends” it took a very long time before anything sexual happened and the relationship changed to bf/gf.
Brilliant, relevant and answers so many questions HG! Thank you!!!
I think I helped end his technology use. He used to put alot of personal stuf on IG and FB. He mostly stopped doing both publicly. The only place he may hide stuff is FB set to private, but I am not sure, we are not FB friends. But I decided I was going to help ruin one of his ‘relationships’ and anonymously reached out to one of his last victims. I don’t know all that happened, but within about 4 months, their little thing was over. They no longer are IG friends. I could tell by her posts, she was hurt pretty good by him. My goal was to ruin a relationship of his like he ruined some of mine. And to perhaps show him that he no longer had free rein on social media to work people. SOMEONE was watching and was going to ruin it for him. I succeeded in controling his world. A mutual friend 9 months ago mentioned he no longer put things online anymore so maybe he created groups, maybe tables were turned.
I look forward to this one, “The Loneliness of the Long Distance Empath.”
This made me think of an episode of a series i watched this morning before work.
Interesting…..
I have a question can a midrange somatic or elite or a greater somatic or elite get fuel online simply from liking or commenting on attractive woman’s photograph and her thanking him and her accepting friends request from him even if it goes no further and they don’t message sext or Skype each other they he only likes and comments on her pics
Yes, but it is a very small amount and is usually from a tertiary source so the potency is low.
So spot on, how you describe my ex MRCN!! Looking forward to section 5. I guess that’ll be very recognizable for me too. I’ve had the weirdest virtual experience. No one would believe if I told about it.
Shucks! Got my hopes up when I started reading this article that it was the long awaited one on scenario 5. I’m very anxious to read your thoughts on that one, since it seems to be closest to what my Moron in Munich wanted.
Seemed sick and perverted to me. I mean, what’s the point of being in a relationship that’s all pretend? where the other person doesn’t even want to ever actually be with you and touch you? But then that was my feelings and needs so obviously of no importance.
Would have never worked out for so many reasons – particularly that I am incapable of not questioning practically everything and he views all questions as horribly wounding criticism. Which makes him a cowardly wuss, in my opinion, then prompting me to bring out the REAL criticism….you can see where this was headed.
This all sounds eerily familiar, Windstorm2.
HG, are you still planning to release the “long distance empath” article? Or have I missed it?
You haven’t missed it.