The Rules of Ex Club – No. 1

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A series of memes explaining the rules that the narcissist applies to ex intimate partners

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11 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 1”

  1. HG does this concept also apply to the more involved the ex was the crazier she is like for example will an ex fiancé or ex wife be deemed crazier than ex girlfriends? I would think the wounding from ex fiancés/wives would be greater so naturally they would be smeared more but maybe I am wrong. Do you describe your ex wife as crazier than your most immediate ex or is your most immediate ex described as most crazy?

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  2. “Crazy” ex seems to be one of the first lies they tell. Funny how “we” become the crazy ones.

    HG don’t the narcissist long time friends ever wonder why everyone around the Narc is “crazy”?

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      1. Thank you HG I was thinking of how reactions provide a “show” of why we are the “crazy” and/or “abusive” one.

        Split thinking reminds me of when I walk into work I literally have to shut off a part of me and slip into a different mindset or so they are still trying to beat this into me with little success. I feel like they are trying to kill a part of me that makes me me.

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  3. If they are crazy chances are the narc made them that way. Narcissists paint us black and white and a recent ex is pitch black.

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  4. My current ex-narc was very patronizing about his ex-wife: he was sorry for her, as she was so “flawed”.

    My ex-narc before that was friends with all of his exes though: with his ex-wife, his ex-girl before that and the one after that. And even with me for a while.

    I’m not sure how he managed to do that, because he was just as abusive with women as my current ex-narc was.

    He was very funny though and fun to be around, once you were out off the war zone, maybe that was his trick.

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