The Narcissistic Truths – No. 224
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You mean except for the debt-that belongs to us. Oh and the blame-ours also. Guilt……grief………
There are quite a few things that apparently dont belong to you.
The world class charlatan and Greater Narcissist Boris Berezovsky said (one of his last interviews) – “I got it finally. You can’t earn ALL money. And you can’t f*ck ALL women”… It is sad, that he realized it too late. He was an interesting personage.
I have children with my N ex. Our schedules are such that on our weekends with the kids we have 5 days with the kids — or five days apart. The kids are getting older now and express that they miss the other parent when they are with the custodial parent.
I have tried to send little postcards to the kids while they are with their dad but they don’t get them. I have discussed it with the children, asking them – my older child (almost 8) even goes so far as to assume they are throwing the cards away.
Is there a strategy that I can use to approach him about this that will result in me being able to send them little things like this or is it futile?
You need to consult with me concerning this issue as I require more information about the situation to then provide you with options.
Dont be greedy now theres plenty of fuel to go around lol narc humor 😄
It feels so terrible to see someone whom you love is so selfish for you.
“No, you cannot have yours either. That belongs to me, too. In fact, you cannot have ANY because IT ALL belongs to ME!”
OK Fine! It ALL belongs to YOU!! Got it!
Yes. Even when its actually mine.
HG, do you feel this way towards a new appliance if they have an ex harassing them? Do you make your presence known?
Absolutely Clarece, it presents an opportunity to be a white knight and see off the troublesome ex, gain fuel and use the gratitude to bind the appliance further.
Looks suspiciously like my burden of guilt there. Inherited from my mother, added to by my ex; still very heavy to carry. I’m not claiming it any more though; it’s not my responsibility; I’d just like to be rid of it.
I am very aware of this concept.
Narcissists are steadfast in the vein of:
“What’s mine is mine & what’s yours is mine too!”