Mirror means to mimic you. In other words to become the person you are. My ex dated a 53 year old cowgirl, so to mirror her and her wealthy friends he became a cowboy. Weirdo
HG, where the appliance has been compliant, pretty much always did what the narc wanted, remained a reliable provider of plentiful and high quality positive fuel, loyal to the narc, no wounding, challenging occurred, electronic means of communication are open, high likely is the narc to take this appliance off the shelf at some point in time via a hoover? The narc is a middle mid-ranger. Thank you!
My narc also has a multitude of different social media accounts , all under various alter ego type names .
Im only aware of ” seven or eight ” of these accounts , myself .
Im certain there’s more .
I believe he does this to attain & continue contact with other narc supply & appliance’s.
Its not always possessive.
For the most part people just use that term generically instead of saying my boyfriend, husband, or the gigantic asshole I was involved with, and separating it from the non-intimate narcs they may have in their lives such as family members. Its also less keystrokes than: the narcissist I was involved with and it is not always the ex-narc.
My narc has somehow rigged things , so that he has access to even the
” basic texts ” I send to my childhood friends , from my cell phone .
He knows who Im talking to , & he knows exactly what was said by both parties .
He gets himself multiple different phone numbers & texts me , as if he is some stranger that has punched in my number by accident.
Then he proceeds to falsely ” come on ” to me .
I think hes doing things he shouldn’t , & hes trying to see if Im just as bad as he is ~ so he does this to find out if Ill take the bait .
The thing is , that I know its him doing it .
He also knows the very second that Im up and my phone is turned on .
Other things to ……..
It was starting to creep me out .
I have some of those same issues. Its freaky, when you roll over, grab your phone and right away you get a good morning message. I told him I thought he hacked me..his response was “I wouldn’t know where to begin”
Starting to creep you out? In his mind you are the rat on the wheel he continues to spin. He is having a blast at your expense and frankly you are allowing it.
I suggest you take control of the reins quickly or buckle up and enjoy the most epic ride of your life.
HG, I admit you have a superior sense of humor. The narc I was entangled with (a mid ranger) would brag about his but I found it to be lame. Yours truly shines.
Yesterday I was shopping on Amazon to restock some necessaries and I go to my cart and my cart is defaulting to my exnarc’s address!!!!!!
I’m like wtf? I couldda “1-clicked” – shit- so i logoff/logon and it still is. 1) my address is set as default. 2) i just bought a pair of shoes a week ago of so and returned them used my address. 3) i last sent her something to her house 2 years ago!
How does this occur? Is the universe fucking with my head? I dont see how this has occured.
And yes it is possible she knows my password but I would like to ask amazon about it before I change anything. Like can they run a report on logins.
It is ! This is why I finally decided yesterday I had to just deactivate my account.
Seems like I’m the one being punished 🙁
Ultimately I had too bc I was obessessing over his and his new girls profile.
Then I started to worry about all the fake accts he had or might have now.
Or innocent “mutual” friends unknowingly giving him information about me.
I’m too weak right now, I just don’t feel like I can risk anymore at the moment.
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HG Tudor’s #1 fan,
I am Dave Gahan’s #1 fan 🙂
Mmm my kind of human.
JAKthenarc,
Yes, I am HG Tudor’s #1 fan. Many have fought to take this title from me and failed miserably.
Monet,
Mirror means to mimic you. In other words to become the person you are. My ex dated a 53 year old cowgirl, so to mirror her and her wealthy friends he became a cowboy. Weirdo
HG Tudor’s #1 fan,
That is hilarious. narc’s are so scary funny! If only they could see what fools they make of themselves.
Thank you for the laugh.
HG, where the appliance has been compliant, pretty much always did what the narc wanted, remained a reliable provider of plentiful and high quality positive fuel, loyal to the narc, no wounding, challenging occurred, electronic means of communication are open, high likely is the narc to take this appliance off the shelf at some point in time via a hoover? The narc is a middle mid-ranger. Thank you!
There is a high chance, but as ever it depends on the HT and the HEC being met, other factors in the fuel matrix impact on this.
Does it bother them that they have nothing to mirror?
There is always something to mirror.
What exactly do you mean ?
What could they possibly have to mirror ???
Im not sure I understand …….
There is always something to mirror.
You are absolutely right. I’ve been one of your readers for over a year now with frequent consultations, and I am still learning.
Lesser loser. Good one, HG.
Lessers are losers.
Thank you.
My narc also has a multitude of different social media accounts , all under various alter ego type names .
Im only aware of ” seven or eight ” of these accounts , myself .
Im certain there’s more .
I believe he does this to attain & continue contact with other narc supply & appliance’s.
It makes me heartsick , that had do this to me .
It’s diabolical for sure. You must stop owning this being as “Your Narc”.
Kathrine
Its not always possessive.
For the most part people just use that term generically instead of saying my boyfriend, husband, or the gigantic asshole I was involved with, and separating it from the non-intimate narcs they may have in their lives such as family members. Its also less keystrokes than: the narcissist I was involved with and it is not always the ex-narc.
My narc has somehow rigged things , so that he has access to even the
” basic texts ” I send to my childhood friends , from my cell phone .
He knows who Im talking to , & he knows exactly what was said by both parties .
He gets himself multiple different phone numbers & texts me , as if he is some stranger that has punched in my number by accident.
Then he proceeds to falsely ” come on ” to me .
I think hes doing things he shouldn’t , & hes trying to see if Im just as bad as he is ~ so he does this to find out if Ill take the bait .
The thing is , that I know its him doing it .
He also knows the very second that Im up and my phone is turned on .
Other things to ……..
It was starting to creep me out .
Monet McIntyre,
Look up KidGuard.
He would be using that or something similar.
Perse
Thank you . 👍😁
Your suggestion is very much appreciated 💕✌
Ill definitely look into that . 👀
{ He’s so devious & sneaky } 👽
I have some of those same issues. Its freaky, when you roll over, grab your phone and right away you get a good morning message. I told him I thought he hacked me..his response was “I wouldn’t know where to begin”
Starting to creep you out? In his mind you are the rat on the wheel he continues to spin. He is having a blast at your expense and frankly you are allowing it.
I suggest you take control of the reins quickly or buckle up and enjoy the most epic ride of your life.
Too easy!
how do i read the articles?? i click on them but they do not lead to the article only to the comments section
Hello Carolyn,
Walk three times wither shins about a lightning struck oak tree chanting the mantra “It’s a meme.”
Lol I only laugh bc I did the same thing yesterday ! Horrible
HG Tudor,
You are horrible….LMBO!
I have my moments.
HG, I admit you have a superior sense of humor. The narc I was entangled with (a mid ranger) would brag about his but I found it to be lame. Yours truly shines.
Thank you. It is a useful weapon.
What if you don’t have either social media, HG and we just met.
If you do not have social media then this cannot be used with regard to the seduction and alternative methods will be used.
Lol HG!
Altho I can’t imagine you as a Wiccan.
“Harm none” isn’t really something I can imagine a narc living by….
Oh I don’t harm anybody Bobbie, you harm yourselves, after all, it is never my fault is it?
That answer was just like you, HG: all brain, no heart (emphatic feelings or thoughts).
I ask myself if you have the same humor when talking about your shortcomings.
Oh, sorry, I forgot you’re the perfect man (outside this blog, of course)! 😉
Shortcomings? No, that means nothing to me.
I can’t keep my fingers away from some letters: w i n d o w (n).
You’re brilliant, you’ll understand what I’m talking about.
We all have our moments…🙂😉
Yesterday I was shopping on Amazon to restock some necessaries and I go to my cart and my cart is defaulting to my exnarc’s address!!!!!!
I’m like wtf? I couldda “1-clicked” – shit- so i logoff/logon and it still is. 1) my address is set as default. 2) i just bought a pair of shoes a week ago of so and returned them used my address. 3) i last sent her something to her house 2 years ago!
How does this occur? Is the universe fucking with my head? I dont see how this has occured.
And yes it is possible she knows my password but I would like to ask amazon about it before I change anything. Like can they run a report on logins.
If coincidence… the universe is really funny.
Hmmm…unless I block you…which sets you into a frenzy!
It is ! This is why I finally decided yesterday I had to just deactivate my account.
Seems like I’m the one being punished 🙁
Ultimately I had too bc I was obessessing over his and his new girls profile.
Then I started to worry about all the fake accts he had or might have now.
Or innocent “mutual” friends unknowingly giving him information about me.
I’m too weak right now, I just don’t feel like I can risk anymore at the moment.