The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 25
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My former narc is on Facebook every free moment of the day-I had never seen anything like it! FB bores me so I go on every so often but not much. It was something out of this world. Like HG says, their hunting ground!
So, none are friends, even people know to the narc for a very long time? He has his regular ‘group’ of long term admirers.
Why would a narc be upset when you say, go and love all them, they are clearly who you want, and not me and it never was me. Why would this cause rage?
Thanks a lot HG
After reading your blog for the last 5 months, i no longer feel unhappy that i am the only one miserable. I have become less emotional as i tell myself. Don’t feel the need of physical closeness and love to that extent that i would wet my pillow, something that i was doing for the last 6 years.
Now i see love as illusion, sense the risk in intimate relationships.
Previously i used to think that everybody (i know) is happy but now i feel that they are hiding behind the facades of their perfection.
Thanks for the blog and Your wisdom
You are welcome Mini Duck and thank you for reading.
LOL… HG… the great thing is I am now finding so much of your writing now hilarious rather than entirely heartbreaking. My mind is shifted a lot and is settled with who my ex is inside her world. I now imagine the motivations and words not being so much malevolent and vitriolic but almost desperate instead… the conrol of it all.
I do believe looking back now it all makes sense to see it this way because her reactions to things I would say to her seem to fit 100% with your core motivations are on target. My angry or mean reactions i occasionally was pushed to – would seem to just bounce right off of her and it would shock me -first of all that I was saying such mean things like “you are a fuck up”- and secondly that she would just not seem affected by it at all, her reaction would be underwhelming. As if she wanted more. And I was not a very good fuel source because I became very passive. Im a lover not a fighter. Empath motto #12 🤣
Once we realize this the narcissists are in big trouble. Good luck triangulating me. None of us mean anything so what’s the point?? Your next target is my future best friend. GOSO