The Rules of Ex Club – No. 9

ONCE YOUR DEVALUATION HAS COMMENCED IT IS ALWAYS THE CASE THAT WE SUDDENLY REMEMBER HOW MUCH LOVE AN.jpg

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12 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 9”

  1. Sorry if i was not clear.
    I mean: imagine that everybody in the world would start to recognise you as a great NARC. And decide to heal themeselves and stop providing you the fuel you need.
    What would happen to you?
    You once told you can’t find any valueble reason to change yourself. But maybe the world around you could suddenly change the rules of the game.
    I know it’s only an hypothetical scenario.
    But i’d like to know what you would do to survive…
    I know it could sound as a completely useless question.
    But sometimes i like to think about extreme situations in order to understand what you gut would suggest you to do.
    I also think about what i would do in this kind of situations!

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  2. Awww, back to black. Ms. Winehouse knew her place with her narc, huh? I am still white. I was hoovered again yesterday. But he told me he has a girlfriend so couldn’t have sex with me. All the while I’m trying to ignore him. Small town. Somehow he sees my car or somehow he knows where I am. I discarded him. I wonder, is that why he’s stalking me? I actually don’t believe he has a girlfriend. If he dies, I pray she catches on quick and saves herself. Poor thing.

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  3. HG- So if I am an ex and he hoovers me and I ignore it do I go back to black? I am trying to figure out how to stay black as much as possible.

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    1. You may be black already and thus remain so.
      If you are white, ignoring the hoover does not mean you become black, but repeatedly ignoring them will cause this.

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  4. Hg If the world all around you would utopistically heal, what would happen to you?
    Use your fantasy! I know you have! 😊

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  5. Black and white thinking. Good and bad. In devaluation were bad so you need someone to fill in the good position to fall back on and use as a source of triangulation in your devaluing instead of self reflecting on your part in the equation.

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