Little Acons – No. 56
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Sometimes I actually understand, why you have a hate on love.
I read in a book about psychopathic relationships, that your kind connect through destruction. There is something true in it. Relationships function for your kind through disconnection and selfishness. That is what you learnt by your mother (and father) to be the normal way of a relationship. A normal and good relationship is when one of them tries to destroy the other one and gets control.
In one way you hate your mother and at the same time you adore her, because she has been the winner all the time. And it seems you have a hate on her (and now on all females), because at a young age you did the same what we did, you loved her in a quite normal way. And she abused this unconditional love for her own purposes.
Of course she was very attractive for you and surely for others too, who were blinded by that physical attractiveness. And you saw that.
It is as always only an interpretation, not a “I know you better than you know yourself.”. I am not a narc.
There is force in what you have written Mona.
My mother was never a somatic but my mother in law was. Now in her 70s her looks have faded so she knit picks on others looks but still focuses on peoples outward appearances. Shes constantly after my sister in law about her weight yet she needs to lose a good 20 pounds. Very shallow.
Dear Mr Tudor,
My mother actually said this to me today.
“I used to look in the mirror at the end of the day and didn’t want to take my make up off ….. because I looked so beautiful” 😱
Your meme could not be any truer
My mother said this same line as well.
Mama, I was proud . . . too bad for us, ur children, 2 out of 4 of us fell short of your beauty.