The Rules of Ex Club – No. 16
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HG
Excellent news. Thanks to you, I was able to help a 20-year old university student identify her dormmate as a narcissist and escape (last night). Today is her first day of freedom and NC. I feel very happy about it!
Jolly good. I shall send you my invoice.
Ha ha ha…let me practice my future faking; once I get the invoice, the (rubber) check will be posted straight away.
Hi HG I was discarded after a peaceful 20 year marriage to a female Narc. My father is one and for twenty years I shared a bed with one. I went through devalue/discard 9 months ago and am getting better by the day, is it possible for a Narc to hide their true selves for all this time? I now know looking back it was obvious I just did not know what the true meaning of Narc was, I thought it someone who was a bit selfish. My Narc showed me her true side at break up and it was truly the most disturbing thing I have ever experienced. I said to her at the time (when ignorant of Narc) I look at you now and I don’t even recognise you. Scary.
I suspect that you will find over time and as you learn more about this subject Mikey that there was actually a lot more you experienced which was her showing her true colours but you did not actually realise at the time.
Your Majesty, last night I attended to a Depeche Mode concent in my home town and when they played the song “It’s no good” I immediatly was transported to the Tudor Court:
“Don’t say you want me
Don’t say you need me
Don’t say you love me
It’s understood
Don’t say you’re happy
Out there without me
I know you can’t be
‘Cause it’s no good.”
Then I Tudor the First And Only, bless you and your issue with the generous bounty for which I am known, for your most excellent choice of concert attendance. May you ever feel that you Just Can’t Get Enough, swim through a Sea of Sin and enjoy this Black Celebration.
Carol M
First you get him “all night long” in the mambo series, and now he has blessed you. Carol, Carol, Carol (to the tune of Marcia, Marcia, Marcia ala Brady Bunch).
It had to be a great time!
Hello NarcAngel, yes, one would think luck is on my side this time! Lol. However, as it always is with the ones of their kind, I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop. As I mentioned previously, much safer here and I’m glad I’m in South America and the Boss lives in the UK.
Truer words have never been spoken. A very simple, yet effective manipulation.
Hello HG-
As a man, can I take the knowledge I gain from you and this site and apply it to a female narc (my soon to be ex-wife)? Do you mainly write for women to see it from a male narcissist’s POV or is the info interchangeable for both sexes? Should I go to a different site to understand female narcs?
Thanks so much for what you do,
Brad
Hello Brad, it is largely interchangeable. I write from a male narcissist’s POV because I am male, the majority of readers are female and it is easier than keep putting he or she.
Thanks! I was hoping you’d say that.
Brad
This is the best place to be to understand your ex-wife. I deal with female narcissists in family/social settings.
Yes Brad, use these tactics of manipulation against another person. Cool idea. Everyone look at how cool psychopathy is.
Silly Robert Hare… it looks like it’s for everyone.
How pathetic
I’m guessing Brad can’t kiss.
Dear HG
If the new supply is stupid enough to stay with ya, I’ll be glad to help her…right?
Sincerely,
Pamb