The Narcissistic Icicles – No. 12
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However! This time I may not even have to use it, as I have the story recorded! 10 minutes of a Stanley/ policeman flirting and looking for a new friend.
And he said he wanted to meet me every day from now in the park, where I go to RELAX. I said, OK, look for me, I tend to go where the Sun is (a general direction).
I may add, the guy went well overboard with this and spoke badly about my separated husband, and this is where I say, “Oh no! We are not going into that.”
Then some people having a bbq on the other side of the lane, said, as I was making my way home: “It’s obvious what you did during your whole university life.”
[Me: “Aha, had to study A LOT.”]
“Or she is some kind of empath!”
[Me: Now, you speak with sense.]
Oh, land of laughs I’ve got myself here!
And my neighboors may get a fine for unlawful use of resources of the whole A Team, which I myself pay for as well, in taxes, every year.
I’m really glad they sent John ‘Hannibal’ Smith, not B.A. And he was a very bad man, but didn’t have the right intent in his heart, so I hope I was able to correct that.
I may even chat, why not – they come for nothing, anyway.
Ah, I wanted to write “he was a very nice man” – depends on perspective, I guess.
I request the possibility of pasting pictures in the comments. Otherwise, I have to use email. Please excuse.
Vice versa.
But I never ever wish what I am going through on anybody else.
This would be the ultimate form of douchbaggery (empaths included – sorry, if this is a new, they also do that in their oh-so-‘beautiful’-minds)
Like juggling 3 other women, while telling me how much you loved me? Imagine the stress of the multiple lives that had to be kept straight.
H.
maybe there is another perspective to look into: the person may not have known what is going on around them initially either.
For example, had lingering feelings from the past, and couldn’t know at once which way to go and why.
Just an idea.
Well, I would agree to looking at different angles, but it makes it difficult when at his funeral 2 fiances popped up. It was like a dark Indie film. However, I do get solace in thinking I was one of his favorites 🙂
Victim narcissist altho every narcissist has a bit of victim in them.
NA, have you tried telling those stories of how you coincidentally got out of a cosmic situation and they would tell you these were only your delusions.
“Yeah, you might be right” – will be my answer from now on!
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I agree. They all have an attitude of being hard done by a cruel world. Maybe comes from that lack of empathy. They assume no one really has any empathy for them, since they don’t have any for others.
Hi windstorm…welcome back and its eerie bc youve been on my mind alot lol its great seeing you post again ive really missed your feedback!
I really believe they feel this to be true. They see themselves as being the victims in life and maybe they were at one time but they remain in that victim mode oblivious to repeating the very same pattern onto others. They victimize others in the process of their own victimization that loops in their minds. They lack empathy bc they werent given any or very little as children. I go back in forth on if its purely not learning empathy from lack of it or being born that way. Scans do show an area thats different in psychopaths so maybe its the same for other narcissists on the spectrum. Possibly it never developed as a result of their environment. Whatever it may be i do think these types of narcissists believe 100% they are victims bc theyre still stuck in that state. Many people victimized grow and obtain skills to better who they are despite how they might of been victimized in the past but narcissists stay huddled in a fetal position stuck in the victim state.
My mother is a victim narc and coming to understand this has allowed me to let go and forgive her. I even feel compassion for her. Its a shitty existence and the worst part is they dont see it.
HG, do you agree that your existence is shitty? I wouldn’t You have the same right to it, as any other person in the world.
What makes it more bearable are the choices we make for ourselves in every waking moment.
Regardless of the fact if someone is an em or a narc (I believe normals are made, not born) or whatever religion they choose to believe or not, the Bible is a source of good quote for the rule, namely the gradation of sin: thoughts, words, deeds and negligence.
Everything starts in our heads, and ends when we do little or nothing about it.
I am a rebel on this blog, and I hope HG can excuse that!
Btw, 1 person among 4 is said (by studies) to be a psychopath, so it begs to ask: what do we actually expect from the world?;)
My existence is far from shitty.
High-five then!
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However! This time I may not eben have to use it, as I have the story recorded! 10 minutes of a policeman flirting and looking for a new friend.
Oh, land of laughs I’ve got myself here!
And if anybody wanted to know my name it may be Gabrielle for them! I didn’t get to the part when I became SN;)