The Narcissist and U-Turns

    Contradictions. About turns. Doing one thing and meaning another. Those are staple ingredients in becoming entangled with our type. Of course the Lesser and the Mid-Range of our kind do not see the contradictions. To them, their behaviour makes absolute sense even though when it is viewed from your perspective there is a […]

Minions of Darkness

We never act alone. All through your entanglement with us we will utilise the services and dedication of those who are loyal to us. Before we have even spoken to you we will be compiling a dossier of information about you by contacting those who know you. We will utilise our lieutenants to approach you […]


  How could you be so twisted? I gave you absolutely everything. I opened my heart to you and gave you a perfect love which is beyond compare. I let you in to my world and shared everything with you. Nothing was kept from you. I knew that you were the one, the one person […]


Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult? Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered? Why does he walk off and disappear? Here is the answer. By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic. US e-book here UK e-book […]

A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 66

  I don’t know what to say. Because, in all honesty, I don’t know who you are. I have spent the last year educating myself and healing myself from my experience with you. It has been both incredibly painful, yet equally rewarding to heal from abuse. At a certain point, my education into what you […]