Early Warning Detector
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If it’s too good to be true, then it’s probably Lucifer. But there can be a fine line as normal men have male egos and naturally boast.
If I had heard of narcissism before, I wouldn’t have wasted eight years enslaved by the mystery. I noticed all the bells and whistles the first year, I just didn’t realize people aren’t all normals.
Im all for having an overly informed conversation with the local police department if my narcissist boyfriend does another disappearing act. Thats how much I wont be putting up with his disrespect since I dont tolerate it in any shape form or fashion and Im all for showing the shapeshifting, formaldehyde loving narcissists just how fashionably late I can be to putting them back in their place.
I have to say it’s not easy to weave all of these into conversation naturally (these and part 2). Doing my best though!
Great article. Thank you for sharing. I recognize so much of it. Just wish I had known then what I am learning now.
Hi HG,
My name is Mike and I am new on this site-recommended by a friend. I have been married to a narcissist, divorced and then 9 more years of living together. I ended the relationship last January and now we share a dog every two weeks. After listening to some of your youtube videos and reading a couple of your articles, what do you recommend that I do regarding shared custody of our dog. Thus far it is creating opportunities for unpleasant discussions and I don’t see it ending. What do you advice?
Thank you.
Welcome Mike, I would need to know more about the narcissist you are dealing with in terms of school and cadre so I can advise you properly, to that end you should arrange a consultation.
I would like to read more of your material before a consultation. I’ve also spoken to Victoria A. Who thinks you’re the best thing since sliced bread. She thinks my ex is a mid range/victim but of course that determination will ultimately come from you. I have joined your blog and receiving your articles daily. By the way I think you’re an excellent writer. Thank you so much for responding so quickly I will have a lot more questions for you when visiting a blog. I will let you know when I’m ready for a consultation thanks again. Mike
No problem, Victoria has e-mailed me also and thank you for your kind words about my work.
HG,
“I don’t like people, maybe I am a little bit sociopathic, but just a little bit and I know how to manage it” – this is something a narcissist told me in the early stages of our relationship. I didn’t take it seriously, I thought it was a joke or a part of seduction designed to intrigue me. At the same time he used to portray himself as “a giver, someone who is good to people, often too good and that’s why they let him down eaisily”. So these were two opossing statements.
What kind of narcissist could tell something like this?
I’ll add that in my opinion he is a mid ranger (sulky, pity plays, portraying himself as a victim, silent treatments). But his confession about being sociopathic makes me curious – is it possible for mid ranger to make this kind of statement since mid rangers really think they are good people and don’t know what they are and don’t see themselves as predators?
Ps. Of course, when he started to devalue me, it was me who was sociopathic and he was acting like his “maybe I am a little bit sociopathic” never happened.
HG, although a Greater may feel jealousy, due to his ability to have more control and restraint, he is able to disguise his jealousy and play it off? Also due to their high intellect, are Greaters able to mimic “normal” behaviours, making it more difficult to recognize them? Thank you!!!
Yes and yes.
Xx
HG…would you say that a narc who bounces between many of these characteristics would ultimately be a mid-range narc, or would there still ne dominant traits in behavior that would label them distinctly as one or the other? And…a narc who injects steroids on a daily basis, how much would that contribute to the characteristics of a lesser narc’s inability to control anger and rage?
Hello Amanda, as you see the article breaks down the responses between each school. As for steroid use/abuse that impacts on anger, but not fury. I recommend you read the book Fury to understand the distinction and also more about how this fury manifests.
I was speaking to someone, have not met. Was asked what made my day that day. My response was speaking to an old friend, he says then I am trying his jealousy.
An old friend I have not seen sense High School and lives 1800 miles from me. She just happen to find me on FB.
I understand yet do not understand how someone that has not met me can feel jealousy.
Twilight
You don’t have to understand it for your narc alarms to go off. That certainly would have set off mine.
Windstorm
I knew before this. He wasn’t part of my life so it didn’t affect me. I actually except to be asked for money. That happened once a while back. A “corporal” tried to convince me he needed 3000 to be able to come home. He didn’t like it when I told him military takes you military brings you home. That was my introduction to those that scam women. I have always learned by observing behavior now I am learning it on line.
People fascinate me, we are so complex and the way we interact is/has changed. So many have the phone strapped to their face instead of actually experiencing the life around them. Technology is amazing yet addictive.
Ha, ha! I agree about technology. I’m rarely more than 3 feet from my phone. Lol!
I am bad I will leave my phone in my car, in the bed room everywhere. It doesn’t make a sound, my iPad on the other hand from phone calls to messages that thing has come very close to being thrown out the window (when I am trying to sleep).
If i am at work thou it is usually in my pocket.
Yes I would have the skills to know another one of your kind I feel. You all do similar things, you all are fake, and you all are relatively easy to read.
Someone like myself who was brought up by a narc parent, it kinda gets ingrained into you. I would see another narc coming a mile off! Having trust issues too kinda helps I think.
Not all normals had happy childhoods but they won’t be full of hate and wish for revenge, they’ll choose to see the half full glass (instead of the half empty one) that at least they are alive now, educated and able (as adults) to express their true personality and raise normal families. For normals/empaths keeping their distance from narcissists parents at their inheritance (you see, no hypocrisy attached!) cost is enough! Hate is not required and not sustained on long-term (at least not to those they have something to thank for, as small as that something might be) because they are too busy to build something better than destroying what’s already in the past!