One of the most fundamental questions that must be answered is
“Is he or she a narcissist?”
You need to detect the narcissist and who better to do so on your behalf than me, with my extensive and unrivalled expertise.
Whether it is your husband, girlfriend, boss, brother, neighbour or best friend, ascertaining whether this person is a narcissist (or not) is crucial with regard to putting your mind at ease, formulating a plan to deal with the manipulations of the narcissist and to enabling you to secure freedom.
Knowing if the relevant person is a narcissist is the foundation stone of achieving understanding and freedom.
Submit to me information about the individual as per the guidance sheet which is provided once the consultation is booked and engage my narcissist detection expertise to confirm whether the person is a narcissist and if so, their school and cadre.
The process
- Effect payment.
- You will be e-mailed a common sense protocol governing the terms of the consultation.
- You will be e-mailed a guidance sheet assisting you with the type of information you should provide to maximise the accuracy of my assessment.
- You then submit up to 1500 words.
- I will provide an audio file confirming whether the individual is a narcissist and if so, explaining why along with detail as to their school and cadre. This will be provided within 48-96 hours of submission of your information.
Image “Hire HG TUDOR as YOUR Narc Detector”. Hmmm. I think he’d be more in empath detector mode 😉
Hello HG. I’m such a luddite! Have been attempting to post on many of the recent blogs and did not know I had to log in or how to do so. I suffer from a condition called “pre-elderly”! And, I have become a narc video binging shut-in for over a year. Ain’t life grand! Seriously though, I took advantage of this generous offer. No therapist or attorney would ever commit to identifying my nemesis as personality disordered, Surely, I had asked to be lied to, smeared, shunned, and basically shit on (I am not John McAfee and I do not delight in this sort of sexual recreation; i.e. see the documentary “Gringo”! WOW!!!) This service provided me clarity and an expert analysis of the situation. The preliminary questions were cathartic and the audio you provided is invaluable.
Brilliant
Dear Mr Tudor,
Absolutely bloody brilliant idea .. our own Uber Tudor
Congrats and well done
Luv Bubbles xx
HG…for someone just becoming aware of self concentrated and pretty sure of super empathic patterns who started attracting narcissistic and sociopathic men at 15 years old, has a living narcissist mother who has had a serious affect on her in dealing with employment superiors (terrified and riddled with anxiety when I get called to their office in extreme fear that I am in baaaaad trouble), a narcissistic neighbor/friend, and has recently escaped from a textbook mid-range narc ensnarement, where does she even start with with your consulting? This is so overwhelming. I have kept journal since 1996. It saddens me that I have loved and loved hard only to be dragged by the saddle of a horse.
Perfect, if I ever need one I know where to find you.
Good.
Congratulations on your newest venture HG. I’m sure this as all you do will be very successful. For a lot of us it is very frightening when you see red flags and don’t know if this person is a narcissist or if being involved with narcissists in your past and now knowing ( thanks to you) what they are, have us seeing narcissists in every new person we meet. Again congratulations on growing your legacy!
Thank you.
Can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought about ways to get you to hear my story and hear from you what you thought on if my bf is a narcissist.
Very smart HG- this will be huge for you. Hoping this will help others. I’ll be in touch soon. Right now I’m getting the silent treatment from my possible narc but this happens every few weeks and I know the routine. Talk to you soon.
A Narc Verbal Mercenary…..Love it.
This is a very needed offering. Thanks to your videos and my observations I know I am dealing with a mid range covert narcissist Who has devalued me, discarded me, and disengaged from me. I purchased your book, “no contact“ on Kindle and have implemented. We have a minor child in common… Do you do consultations for specific situations having to do with I’m going Grey rock contact/ “Coparenting” with a narcissist?
Thank you HG-The work you are doing is necessary and important.
Indeed it is and thank you.
Angel G
Yes, HG does do consultations on specific situations regarding coparenting, divorce, court proceedings, etc. If you have a situation with a narcissist or dealing with the aftermath, he can help either through email consultation or the one hour audio Skype consultation. Look in the menu bar for more info. He’s made some changes recently.
Thanks MB❣️ I’ll take a closer look at the menu, although I’m not so sure HD can handle my case-lol. My ex is a very cunning, manipulative, vindictive man with high intellect. he’s extremely vengeful & perhaps too complex. No one would guess he’s what he is…plain evil. HD has a wonderful body of work though and I plan to purchase more of his titles on Kindle(love his writing style and straightforward approach ) But I’m pretty sure I won’t be able to outsmart my ex best to just tighten up my grey rock game;-) have you received a private consult? Do you share children with s narc? Sry if getting too personal here just curious…
Angel, I don’t have children with a narcissist. Nor have I ever been in position of IPPS in a fuel matrix. I have had numerous consultations with HG on various matters that do pertain to my situations and have no doubt that he CAN handle your case. I don’t think there’s a narc he can’t go toe to toe with. I don’t think he can be out “eviled”. Although you see pastor narc as too complex, HG has such awareness of his kind that he will be able to dissect him for you effortlessly. I would suggest consulting with him for a check up on your no contact regime if nothing else. There will have to be allowances made for co-parenting, but most of the time, people still get it wrong and he can help tighten that up for you. As far as books, I always recommended ‘Fuel’ and ‘Fury’ to understand the way they operate and confirm in your mind that you are, in fact, dealing with an abuser. It sounds like you already know for sure. Definitely read ‘No Contact’. All my best 😘
Thanks MB, I will take a closer look at the menu. Honestly though, I don’t think HD will be able to help me…my ex-husband is a very conniving, deceitful, mid-range covert narc with high intellect and a propensity for extreme mind games. I’m certain he is a psych or sociopath…he’s vindictive and vengeful with a complexity and tenacity that frightens me …I’ve seen the mask drop…he’s pure evil. He’s also a very charismatic pastor with high intellect and an army behind him (lots of lieutenants and minions). HD’s videos have been super helpful & I’ll be purchasing another one of his books on kindle tonight (any suggestions?) BUT I don’t think I will ever have the upper hand or be able to outmaneuver him….best to just tighten up my grey rock game & protect my little one while trying to stay out of his spheres of influence. then again, he “HATES” me so I may be screwed either way…lol MB have you received consultation? was it helpful to you and are you in a co-parenting sit with a narc? my apologies if this is too personal..just curious.
Hi HG….i have a question but not from a position of is an intimate partner a narcissist. I was wondering if youd have advice on how to deal with youth that are narcissistic? My daughter in particular has come across many highly narcissistic girls. Her age group 13 seems to be a narcissistic age group. With teens trying to figure out who they are and establishing themselves in the pecking order. Ive had her to a psychologist but she still struggles with asserting herself and dealing with narc types.
I wasnt sure if you solely deal with adults or you can give advice on how to deal with teen girls who are on the narc spectrum or highly narcissistic? Thx!
Yes I can, the detail required means this is a matter best suited to consultation.
“He has a powerful weapon
He charges a million a shot
An assassin that’s second to none
The man with the golden gun.
Lurking in some darkened doorway
Or crouched on a roof top somewhere
In the next room, or this very one
The man with the golden gun.
Love is required whenever he’s hired
It comes just before the kill.
No-one can catch him, no hit man can match him
For his million dollar skill.”
Move on Christopher Lee, Your Majesty Tudor the FIrst and Only has the Throne now. Plus, we can all afford US$50,00 on self care.
HG, do you still offer the opposite service of what type of empath we are?
I do, watch out for something further in that regard.
I shall look forward to it!
Waiting…patience is not a virtue I have.
FOTS
I have been following you since october last year. i would like to tell you one incident. My daughter recently asked me how would I react if she get entangled with a narc (just like I have been emotionally and am waiting for some crumbs everyday)? My narc seldom writes to me and do not reply when I wish for it. We have never met in real life. I live in illusion as he represents everything I dreamt of in my boy friend/love.
I answered her that I would do everything to dissuade her from having any contact With him and will be very worried about her.
Then she told me that she feels the same for me. She has been arguing With me to forget my narc as it is effecting her (because she cannot see me sad or worried). Now I feel guilty and hope that my narc never contacts me again and I will do the same.
Are Your kids aware of him?
Hi Mini Duck.
My older ones are aware of his existence however they only know of him as “a friend”. (I am long distance so they have not met him). My youngest does not know of him. I often wonder how all this would be going down if he was geographically closer to me. But he is not. He is a 13 hour car ride (or a 2 hour plane ride) away. I have only seen him 3-4 times over the last 2 1/2 years. He has not met my children.
FOTS
In many ways it is good that he lives far away. But this is making your step towards “no contact” to be difficult and long lasting. You will not get closure from him fast as things are going in a slow pace.
I hope one day you find your true friend in Your own area, who can give you love and respect. If possible join Dance Group. I will do the same for Health and Peace of mind.
This is a very clever concept, the provision of guidance sheet to steer the person as to information required, will save loads of time rather then deciphering a story line. The answers Being deleivered on an audio file will also be very efficient for time expenditure. I believe it will also increase use of the audio consultations, as a lead on for people wanting to expand further into understanding their situation. It will break the ice for them.
It’s fantastic that people will have this option, and I believe it will be great for your time efficiency and spreading your knowledge and understanding. A very creative and charismatic way to evolve the blog and the consultation service you offer…
What about custody court. I’m in hell. I’ve spent 120k. 5 lawyers, false child abuse accusations. 22 court visits. Fucks with child support. I’m now suing him in civil court, and attempting to gain more custody, my school district, and increase child support. My entire life has been stolen. I am fighting hard, but at the end of my rope. My dear girl is your years old.
Arrange an audio consultation with me and I will have you on the path to victory.
Yikes
What an excellent idea, HG.
To assist new readers who are not familiar with your work.
I do read numerous comments of readers asking if a co worker, acquaintance, partner is a narcissist.
This should be of great assistance to those who are unsure.
Absolutely.
Great news. Long overdue.
Thank you.
That’s what I get for sleeping in dammit. The early bird gets the worm!
Happy Independence Day to all my fellow misbehaving peeps in the US!
Happy 4th to u too!!
Happy belated 4th, MB & WS!
Happy belated 4th to all! (We *are* rather misbehavin’ empaths, which I personally love). There were BBQs, swimming, parades and fireworks to celebrate~~very fun.
(There are fireworks that will still be going off nightly in my neighborhood~my neighbor friends say they have enough to go thru Sunday. :-))
You’re right. If you ain’t misbehavin’, it ain’t no fun Caroline. At least they’re shooting fireworks and not guns like some of the red necks ‘round here!
Yikes, MB — hope they’re not drinkin’ and shootin’!*_*
I guess my pretty leftover sparklers wouldn’t do it for them. 😉
Caroline, There’s no shootin’ without drinking in the red neck covenant! Especially on the 4th. You ought to hear them on New Years Eve!
LOL
Well, make sure your sweet self stays a little lower to the ground then.;-)
Thank you Caroline. They’re harmless. Just a bunch of good ol country boys. They’re the ones you can call on day or night and they’ll be there no questions asked.
Ah, “Dukes of Hazzard” type~ok then! 🙂
MB
You bring back pleasant memories from my youth. I used to love to go outside in the dark on New Years Eve and listen to all the shotguns going off. Made me feel connected to other people.
I thought it was funny a couple years ago I was visiting my daughter in Kansas right before New Years. The Kansas City newscast reminded people each night that it was illegal to shoot their guns off within city limits!
Can I be your first customer? Or am I too late?
Only one way to find out MB!!
I already tried to make payment and had trouble on the phone. I’ll try on the desktop. I hope the minions set it up right! I can make a consult payment in 1.2 seconds usually. Dangerously fast.
Do it, MB!
I did! Blazing the trail, K.
MB
You crack me up, ha ha ha….you really are an intrepid empath.
K, I am! And combined with my curiosity, it is recipe for trouble! I usually just jump in with both feet and figure it out as I go along. But that’s my favorite way to learn.
MB
That is my favorite way to learn, too; jump in and figure it out as you make your way through the maze.
K and MB
Ha, ha! You all are waaaay more adventurous than I am! I can’t stand to just jump in and learn as I go. I like to sit back in a corner, read, listen and observe until I’m sure first! You all must have a lot of self-confidence.
WS
Ha ha ha…if you hung out with us, we would pull you into the fray. It would be an adventure, just think of all the fun we could have. I read that self-confidence is a healthy narcissistic trait so, once in a while, put the book down and jump right in. Life is short; have fun!
I’m coming to think that I have very few narc traits, not even the healthy ones. But as Popeyes says, “I yam what I yam.”
You’re marvelous just the way you are, WS!
XO!
She most certainly is, Caroline!
One of my favorite sayings is “fake it til you make it” Windstorm! I have a lot of self confidence in my abilities, so I look strong and put together on the outside. People who know me would never guess how low my self esteem is. They are not one and the same. There’s a disconnect between what I know I can do and what I think I deserve.
hello HG
Can you also spot a psychopath?
Can you also help me in the cadre of your consultation if the psychopath happens to be my father (not my partner)?
Since English is not my native language excuse me for mistakes or misspelled Words.
All the information I find on this blog is between partners, which is not the reason for me being here.
I need more information specific about psychopathic fathers. Do you think your consultation can help me with that?
Yes.
Yes.
Yes I can help.
Congrats on this new venture! Cheers to you on your travels!
Thank you Clarece.
SO KIND OF YOU HG…..I don’t know if you saw my long ass post and all of my death threat e-mails. HG what do you want for yourself, of doing all this work to help us. I know you get fuel, BUT you are working really hard to get fuel in this manor.WHAT are you getting out of this? What made you decided to try to help victims?? Kind Regards S. W.
No, please read my work, the rules section and the about section and that explains the situation with regard to fuel. I have explained previously why I do this – it is to create a legacy, be the number one resource for narcissism and it appeals to me to weaponise empaths. When I win if you happen to do so as well, it’s good all round.
And he makes $$$. Someone’s got to pay for those hand massages to keep his typing fingers nimble…!
Actually, looks like less typing for HG on this one. You get an audiofile answer (brilliant time saver for you HG).
Yes it is and it means I can speed up turnaround and pack more information in for people.
HG, excellent service. I think many people will benefit from this. I hope next step will be “Hire HG to deal with the narcissist to kick his/her arse”.
Thank you. Hitman HG coming soon!
Excellent! I have a Hit List.
I would totally pay for Hitman HG to kick some mid range piano recital ass/arse/whatever verbiage you prefer.
LOLOL
Hitman HG
Oh maaaaan, you’d demolish them. Just fuck their lives right up. I sooooo wish you were for hire for revenge hits lol
Think about it! You’d make enough millions lol
YESSSS!!!!!
Eye-catching + snappy + clear. Like it.
Thank you Caroline.
It would be fun to borrow your brain for 48-96 hrs. Hey HG. Hope you are well.
Ha ha, I am excellent well thank you.
Bibi and HG, I saw a recent post where HG stated that he likes himself just the way he is and wouldn’t change a thing because he is effective. I’ve been thinking a lot about that since then. And, since you brought it up I’m sharing said thoughts.
What I’d give to be able to say I like myself just the way I am. (And truly mean it). I want to know what that kind of confidence feels like for once in my life. I wouldn’t trade places with you permanently, but would you trade with me for just a few hours, HG?
Maybe there would be some residual effects from the trade within each of us. I can hear you now…I’ve been violated! Be gone with that icky weakness of empathy! Or would you, like me, be thankful for the experience?
Love it.
Guidance sheet! Good idea