Shoot You Down

A plaintive wail which I often hear is along the lines of, “Why do you always have to shoot me down? I give you everything you could ever want. Why can’t you just be happy with that?” As usual you delude yourself with such a statement. You do not give me everything I could ever […]

Sex and the Narcissist

No holds barred and no strings attached The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform Read about how the narcissist views and uses sex and how you are central in that US e-book here UK e-book here CAN e-book here AUS e-book here Also available in paperback on Amazon This is classified […]

The Silent Sextuplet

The use of and imposition of silence are two of the most powerful weapons in our abusive arsenal. Silence is easy to deploy and horrendously effective in securing our aims of compliance, control and fuel. 1. My silence is always meaningful You may sit quietly because you have no need to say anything. You may […]

What Happens When You Tell the Narcissist He Is An Abuser

  Next to nobody knows that they have been ensnared by a narcissist the first time that it happens. Indeed, in some cases the victim has no awareness until the second, third or even fourth occasion when this happens. The awakening moment usually occurs post-escape or more usually post-disengagement. This means that the opportunity to […]