Getting Out!
Realisation has finally arrived that you have been sucked into the nightmare world of the narcissist. No contact is the way forward but have you got what it takes to resist the machinations of the Narcissist as she or he does their utmost to derail your campaign? You need to prepare for no contact and who better than to tell you how to do it than the dark-hearted master narcissist. Invaluable techniques are delivered so you can prepare and maximise your chances of attaining no contact and beating the narcissist.
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My first encounter was with a midrange narcissistic sociopath…took me a while to break out but my supernova was born.
My second encounter was a narcissistic grand sociopath….I realized how powerful my supernova was and the first time in my life I felt empowered.
I know now that men with ASPD are attracted to me, I’m a “super empath” and a great source of fuel.
But once my supernova is egnited I get great pleasure of starving the person of fuel. Once your discarded…I never look back.
After 4 months of love bombing…I thought something seemed off. I laughed off some of the behaviors. I thought I found forever. Because I have some narcissistic traits…my gut was screaming. I decided to start listening. I found your blog and writings. Everything that was happening was in black and white, right in front of me. I did some investigating, and found out things that I wish I never knew…but know that I needed to. I was able to orchestrate his discard of me. I thought it less likely that he would Hoover if he thought it was his doing. I immediately went no contact. I am now dealing with the withdrawal. BUT I WILL BE OKAY!! Thank you…
EXCELLENT, excellent read. If you’re doubting, don’t. Just buy it.
I came across this book a month post-escape. After reading it though, I realized how fortunate I was that the Mid-Ranger is not as clever as so many other narcs out there—I could have suffered greatly. (BTW, I don’t call him “my” Mid-Ranger. He’s not “my” anything.)
For me, this book was not a “how to” manual as is its intent but rather it served as validation that: 1. Leaving was the best thing I could’ve done for my son & me, and 2. The narc (he doesn’t get capitalized either) could’ve put me through a living hell but I got out virtually unscathed.
And *EXACTLY* as HG predicted, the Hoover’s started. Suffice it to say, I read HG’s warnings about Hoover’s & took his advice, and I’ve been NC for 10-months.
#GOSO
I have a like/dislike relationship with HG. Today, I really like him.
Thank you.
I freaking love your writing. So helpful!
True and thank you.