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Me and him were broke up and ended up at the police station. After that he left the country for 3 months vacation. İ learnt that he was back a few days ago. Do you think he will show up himself around me soon?
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We had a 2,5 year relationship and we broke up 3 months ago. Before we broke up, i was waiting him to go for abroad. And he did. So everything became more easy for me. On this meanwhile, we had a court from last year. He couldnt join the court because he was in Thailand. (We live in Turkey). But it was a big chance for me to break up with him. So, i took a restraining order. He came back to the city a few days ago after 3 months NC. Do you think he is done with me? Do you think he will come around me and show himself?
1. It is never over until either you die or he dies.
2. Whether you will be hoovered depends on whether there is a Hoover Trigger and if so, whether the Hoover Execution Criteria are met.
If you wish to understand this with regard to your specific situation then you should organise a consultation with me as I need more information.
Do you have friends that you do certain things with, while with others you engage in totally different activities? For example, you might have a football game and drinking night with one group of friends, and go camping with a different group. One group doesn’t meet or have contact with the other. The only thing they would have in common is you. Did you have that growing up?
Yes. Still do.
HG, Do you still see any of your childhood friends? Did you consider them as friends or were they always fuel sources to you? I imagine you didn’t understand the fuel concept until you were at University and learned that you were a narcissist is that correct? If you do still see any of them now in adulthood, do you consider them as still friends or fuel sources? I’ll reword this if I didn’t write in a way in which you understand what I’m asking. Thank you.
1. Yes.
2. They are appliances.
3. In essence, yes.