Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult?

Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered?

Why does he walk off and disappear?

Here is the answer.

By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic.

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  1. HG, I was just looking at some of the previous posted memes about Ignitors of Fury and had a few questions if possible. Do these only apply to IPPS? Do they only apply during the Golden Period and devaluation? Or can they apply after the narcissist has chosen to disengage?

    Basically I committed a few of those “offenses” after he decided to disengage, again after another successful hoover, with rushing it to meet up with friends; not letting him talk by me going on about a point that contradicted something he said; and not responding to a text. Would the timing of those actions matter in the matter of igniting fury?

  2. HG Tudor’s ‘Fury’ is a gift to domestic violence counsellors, and survivors of family violence who are searching for answers as they work towards healing hearts and minds.
    Tudor’s ground breaking work as a whole is a great gift to society, to those who have found themselves caught up in the confusion and deep pain of relationships with overt and covert abusers, whether romantic, familial or professional.
    Tudor is the much needed Rosetta Stone to bring clear, accurate, and unwavering understanding of the mindset and behaviours of those with NPD, to those traumatised by those behaviours.
    Adult Children of Narcissists will find ‘Fury’ an essential tool to aid the healing process, to help articulate their feelings, and to help unburden them of the shame and responsibility they have been weighed down with as they tried in vain to manage their Narcissistic parent’s volatile emotions. ACONs will readily avail themselves of all of Tudor’s work, as his writing grows into a body of work that not only brings understanding, but also equips the reader with the necessary skills to respond to NPD in the future.
    Understanding the concepts presented in ‘Fury’ is key to that.
    Read ‘Fury’ and be empowered.
    ‘Fury’ has my highest recommendation.

  3. I’m liking the green background colour much better HG! Black looks very effective but makes it difficult to read.

    This ‘softy’ colour contrasts perfectly with your nefarious ways x

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