A Very Royal Narcissist : Weaponise
How hard did you find it to convince other people of your entanglement with narcissism? They did not accept it straight away or at all, is the likely response. The fundamental reason why you found yourself coming up against this wall was because people either do not know about narcissism at all or if they do, they misunderstand it.
You can change that!
If you know somebody who is caught in ensnarement but just cannot see it or they are going down the wrong path with regard to grasping just what is happening, you somehow need to get the reality in front of them and allow them to start reading logic so they reduce their emotional thinking.
This means heightening awareness, demonstrating just how pervasive narcissism is, what it looks like, how it operates and most of all how it affects people and their lives. People need to recognise it exists in paupers and princes, olive pickers and oligarchs, teachers and toffs, miners and moneymen, dole scroungers and well, duchesses.
By showing people that narcissism operates at all levels and especially so with regard to prominent and well-known individuals you are increasing awareness and breaking through the wall of ignorance.
These narcissists gain fuel off the interest, adoration and revulsion of the masses, isn’t time you harnessed them for your good instead? Use these links and share them, send them to friends, circulate them on social media, link them on articles on news and entertainment platforms, bring them to the attention of the world through the reach of the internet.
Start weaponizing the world!
A Very Murderous Narcissist (1)
A Very Murderous Narcissist (2)
Watch out for A Very Flightless Narcissist and A Very Pop(ular) Narcissist!
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As RMM requested, I posted on sussexroyal Instagram my choice for her “Force for Change” campaign. I nominated H.G.Tudor. Being curious, I attempted to revisit the site to see if any replies,etc, hoping some others who knew of your expertise would join in. I had been blocked!!! I’m so happy and overjoyed that the Duchess of Narcissism knows quite well who you are. I guess she won’t be highlighting you as “one who can shine light in a world filled with seemingly daily darkness”- HRH The Duchess of Sussex. Lovely word salad. You’ve taught me so much. Thank you.
Thank you for doing that and sharing the outcome, rather interesting and entertaining
I have started the ball rolling:
Published link on LinkedIn – The Economist.
Here is a link: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/the-economist_boris-johnson-is-set-to-be-britains-new-activity-6559409810104729600-Y85h
Hg approves
Yes. All of this. Narcissism awareness is one of my biggest passions in life right now. These really help the cause. MJ is gonna make ripples. The public really pushes back and defends him even after Finding Neverland. I felt like I needed a shower after that documentary. Made my skin crawl.
Jess, I suppose fans have a hard time with the dissonance. It’s a difficult concept to grasp that an idol can do bad things. Acknowledging that he did those bad things makes them feel like they must reject anything good about him. They don’t want to let go of the achievements and the philanthropy so they reject the negative wholesale. I understand their confusion, but death threats to the abused? That’s a little much. Did you watch the Oprah interview afterwards?
I sure did. As always it plays out that the victims are accused. We have always known something was wrong with MJ. Apparently pedophilia is more common than any of us realize. Makes sense… most men are intimidated and threatened by a strong women and need to abuse a weaker target.
Jess, the whole thing was heartbreaking and hard to watch. In the Oprah interview I felt especially bad for Jimmy. He is destroyed. If only he could find his way to HG and narcsite. I don’t know if it’s his personality or the fact that he was IPPS and not IPSS like Wade was, but Wade has seemed to fare a little better with his recovery.
Those little boys loved him… They still seem to struggle with being attached to him. It sickens me to imagine the deep rejection they felt when they became older, entered devaluation and were replaced. Watching the documentary caused a visceral reaction in me that took a couple weeks to go away.
We need to teach society not to emulate famous people the way we do. How many red flags need to be on fire before society speaks up. Everyone knew what he was doing.
Jess, it caused the same reaction in me. I think the rejection was worse than the abuse as far as the cruelty. They did love him. They were bound to him just like any other N/E bond except they were children with no life skills to even begin to comprehend that treatment of them.
Hg what separates the narcissist like MM and those like BTK
Is sadism different , do they have this on top of narcissistic pd and psychopathy
Are all narcissistic people sadistic or is this another realm again
What makes a narc turn into a very dangerous murder of strangers ,as these are not crimes of passion
Are you familiar with the Irish murderer and sadist Graham ODwyer a very frightening case .
Kiki
See Sadistic Streak.
No, I don’t know that case, Kiki.
Hg it was only about 5 years ago in Ireland
Horrific high profile case ,
Prob the most monstrous creature Ireland has known
An upper middle class man doting father etc I won’t discuss what he did here as I would hate to give the evil bastard air time .
Kiki
Kiki, Don’t know if this is the whole story, but from what I have read, what separates the NPD from APD designation is that APD (umbrella term for psychopaths, sociopaths and antisocials) is they take pleasure from others pain. According to psychologists, most sociopaths are impulsive and violent to varying degrees; psychopaths are less impulsive than the sociopath, more intelligent and can either derive pleasure from non-violent or violent pain. In fMRI studies, literally different parts of the brain are activated in those with APD. I have yet to find a study that denotes the cut off between NPD and APD and there seems to be great overlap in behaviors. The only key difference is the pleasure of pain portion and varied brain activity.
HG, BTK was a famed serial murderer, Denis Radar, from Kansas, who gave himself the name BTK because he liked to Bind, Torture, then Kill all of his victims.
Thank you
What I can’t get my head around is just how normal and loving BTK was with his wife and kids
Yet his alter ego was a sexual sadist
It’s mind boggling that this went on for three decades and his poor family had no idea.There was no past abuse to make him this way.
I just want to separate in my mind the greater narcissist such as Hg whom I totally admire from the evil that this type of man was .Is it a different thing that makes these monsters such as a more severe form of depravity .
Kiki
FYC
BTK enjoyed binding, posing, and photographing himself as well. He needs his own label. Fascinating stuff though. Strangely, I got this interest from my mother for whom reading about serial killers was (and still is) an obsession. I used to tease her that she was either trying to understand StepN or find the perfect way to get rid of him. Maybe I wasn’t far off with the understanding lol.
I can’t wait!
HG
Wonderful idea!
Thank you!
You’re a treasure.
Go forth!
HG—after reading (finally reading) Manipulated I could see how to maybe be of more assistance to those close to me. It’s okay if the word narcissist is too hard to digest. The illustrations provided display the dysfunction and the effect on the victim—narcissist doesn’t even need highlighted really. The term is a turn off for many, it’s so misunderstood that penetrating one’s understanding is less about the word and more about the behaviors. I wish I had read it before now, although I’ve been saturated plenty along this path as is and my take-away is probably different now anyway. I would even venture to say I can use passages from the book to help my kids/those close to me better understand tolerable/intolerable behaviors in the future because it’s really baffling and creating excuses is so second nature to so many of us. You are absolutely gifted:)
Thank you.
You’re doing an article on MJ?!
I think it may be r.kelly
Sounds like he’s Tudorscoping the King of Pop as well CJ.
I am waiting for MJ a long time… I asked HG several times to do it! Fingers crossed!