The Narcissist Has Stopped Giving
Whether you recognise you are ensnared with a narcissist, suspect you may be or doubt it, understanding that person’s behaviours with regard to the giving of gifts is useful. Not only will it enable you to identify a key indicator of the behaviour of the narcissist, but it will enable you to understand why the individual is behaving in this way. You will make sense of the nonsense and with that comes relief from confusion and anxiety.
This material explains
- What is behind the gift buying pattern of the narcissist
- Why this is a indicator exclusive to narcissists
- Explains the contrast with the gift buying behaviour of non-narcissists so you can make a comparison
- What factors impact on the behaviour in terms of the school of narcissist, cadre of narcissist and position in the fuel matrix of the victim
- What the narcissist is seeking to achieve through this and what you can learn from it
- Examples of what to expect from Greater, Mid Range and Lesser Narcissists
- Examples of what to expect from the Elite, Somatic, Cerebral and Victim Narcissists
- Even if you are not specifically interested in gift buying, if you want to learn more about the school and cadre of narcissists generally, then make use of this material as part of building your library knowledge.
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I would buy myself flowers but I have no where to put them right now! HG—are you sure you are a narcissist or did you make all of this up?
Your knowledge of the different schools and cadres is honestly amazing HG. Have you self-taught yourself all this purely with the power of observation? It’s really astonishingly impressive.
Yes.
You deserve your title of being the number one expert in your field. Psychologists who have studied this stuff for years and years in university and beyond couldn’t even match your level of knowledge.
I sound like I’m sucking up now, but I’m not, I’m genuinely impressed with your dedication to your chosen subject matter.
Thank you. More people should recognise this.
You seem to have a lot of people on here who recognise it.
Others will just criticise you for your own narcissism without taking into consideration the fact that it is this very element which enables you to do what you do. Your unique perspective is required for this level of expertise.
But their reaction is to be expected as not everybody can see the bigger picture.
Correct
HG there is a lot of false information on Narcissism out there . You know your stuff and I am so grateful that you are helping a lot of people. I thank God I found your blog I know you will help me get away and stay away from Narcissist
Correct.
It’s a bit silly but I miss the gifts.
They weren’t expensive, they were always so thoughtful and therefore priceless to me.
If I mentioned that I l appreciated the dying art of wood carving, then the gift was just that!
If I mentioned I adored the thought of old coins and the unfathomable history of the hands that might have held them or the pockets they may have graced, then a coin would be presented!
Never anything extravagant or meaningless.
Every gift was straight to my heart! The best kind of gift! The kind that were considered!
I loved that. I miss that! Flooding with tears that a simple comment made in small talk was heard, remembered and acted upon. Having to tilt my head to the sky, to try to stop the tears from escaping! How satisfied he looked when he would do that for me. How I would become so choked up that I would just throw my arms around him when words failed me. How he would slowly release me from those cuddles and how I would hold him even tighter and refuse to let go until he laughed so sweetly and held me back again. There was real love in those hugs. They were magic.
No one ever affected me in the way that my narc did. He was the perfect fraud.
You always forget to mention the DLS! We get gifts to ahem… use with the narcissist. I did get a cheap candle though too.
My narc never brought me flowers or gifts at all, infact I was on the shelf.
That explains it!!!!! I learn something new that makes sense evert day!
HG, your a GENUIS, my Somatic Narcissist used to have flowers delivered to my workplace!
So that everyone at work will say how beautiful they are and how lucky I am.
Now I dont even get a card for special occasions.
Indeed