Understanding The Malice Campaign
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The Malice Campaign is feared by many who have entangled with a narcissist. It is however misunderstood, both in terms of what it looks like, why it is used and what you can do about it. Rather than be paralysed by fear and mired in confusion, you need to understand what the Malice Campaign looks like, you need to be able to recognise when it is happening and just as importantly, when it is not actually happening so that you can gain reassurance and peace of mind. You also need to know what you can do to avoid them and what you can do when they are being used against you so you can gain control and freedom.
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- What caused the Malice Campaign?
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Hg
Any campaigns on a no fault divorce?
Potentially. A campaign will be for the reasons explained in the Understanding the Malice Campaign Bulletin.
Hi HG,
The unfortunate circumstances or higher gods or enlightened ones or arse***** who prompted to you to create this blog… thank you!
I have gained more knowledge through you and your followers comments than I would have ever received through a therapist.
Thank you to all of you empaths responding to HGs stories for expanding my understanding!!!
I am grateful to have a chance to pay for some of the material. I sometimes feel guilty for being able to attain so much information for free that actually benefits me.
When I was still with my narcissist husband we were paying for THREE therapists all at once (let me say that again THREE THERAPISTS!!!)We each had our own personal therapist and a marriage therapist and we saw each of them twice a week. It’s rhetorical, but guess how much I was paying them, plus I was also seeing the nurse practitioner and paying for meds for anxiety and depression!
Never once was narcissism brought up and while I was truly working on behaviors/defense mechanisms I could change he was just blame shifting. I truly was made to feel like it was me that was the problem!
Thank you HG for all that you offer here!
You are welcome.
Bloody hell Gypsy, thats mental!
I’m not a counsellor but personally, I wouldn’t entertain a client who had two therapists plus a third shoving it in the mix via husband. It’s literally amazing how a narc will regurgitate quite sound principles back in your face. And twist them to suit his narrative.
You’ve rightly highlighted why couples counselling largely does not work. That’s a lot of money been taken for a service which is utterly useless.
I have a lot to say about Counsellors. Compared to others, I’ve not spent thousands but still. I feel that with two of the counsellors I was just talking in into thin air. That’s wrong. I didnt get my monies worth.
Surely, the role of Counsellor is that you are an EXPERT in spotting patterns in human behaviour?
Renarde,
Thank you for validating how I see the mental health care field. I still see my nurse practitioner for meds. She keeps encouraging me to see one of their therapists. I just look at her and say I’ve got HG and getting closure for the first time. At one of my intakes the counselor looked at my chart and said I hadn’t received the right kind of therapy. She said I should have been treated for trauma. My diagnosis never changed. It was always PTSD!!!!!! Never went back again! Still like the cussing priest psychologist I saw 27 years ago though! That’s the closest any professional has came to GOSO. I heeded his advice and became estranged from my father.
Gypsy
No worries on validation. Any time in this area. You like me have PTSD. Like me you are being offered trauma therapy. You are also like me, not taking it.
I find that interesting. It’s a shame Twilight isnt posting more because I find her fascinating. She is like me a witch and she is working on something.
The problem I have is that I have c-PTSD. Formed when very young at the hands of both my parents. I’m not sure that the full impact of the trauma bond can ever be healed.
Now this is only MY opinion but because of these circumstances, I actually do not want to undo the damage. I dibt want the natural protections that have formed as a consequence of that abuse being undone. I really do not want to have a psychosis. I need to be careful as dear Ma has had quite a,few.
I’ve have the magic mushrooms are beneficial but again and like LSD I just wont do it. I wont fuck around with my brain. Others may find it beneficial so this is why I mention it.
Can I ask what meds you are on? Prozac helped me enormously.
Hi Renarde,
I also have c-PTSD from childhood. My nurse practitioner is treating me for PTSD due to trauma from a natural disaster that I went through. I have layers of trauma.
When I was a critical care nurse, I was working the night an EF-5 mile wide rainwrapped tornado ripped through the heart of our town taking out our hospital and all emergency services. I am no longer a nurse because of this as is the case for many professionals working that fateful night.
The medications I’m on now are Paxil and she added Rexulti for a synergistic effect. Also for anxiety I refuse to take benzodiazepines due to issues with tolerance and addiction. For anxiety she prescribes hydroxyzine a prescription antihistamine to help me sleep. I rarely take it. She is also arranging to get some free samples for prazosin, a blood pressure medication. In small doses it is used off lable to treat flashbacks and nightmares.
That being said I would much rather use wholistic medicine. I prefer my high grade CBD oil products. But I am currently looking for a new job and there is a problem with THC levels showing up in a drug screen. So I don’t take that.
Also for the migraines that have plagued me since the tornado, I have looked into cartilage ear piercings. Since I have had both daith and tragus piercings my migraines are completely gone.
Also looking into Battlefield accupuncture. The military is doing studies on permanent accupuncture (ear darts) for treating PTSD in war veterans.
Gypsy
Wow! Lots of detailed medical stuff. Thankyou! I will research all of this.
Intrigued on acupuncture in ears. I had it once before. Just before I conceived for the third time. (Two miscarriages then two live births).
I’ll look into that too.
Again. Thank you
BTW its utterly offensive that you feel you need to stop taking CBD. It’s a miracle worker.
Quick question—what is the difference between a smear campaign and malice?
Malice is directed AT the victim, smear is ABOUT the victim.
Thanks for asking Lorelei. Helpful to understand the difference.
There was much more information contained in this piece than a normal blog entry.
Correct MB. Not only is there more information but the quality of this information is beyond compare.
Alright. Alright. We know you’re a genious x
Argb, HG is right, he gives away so much of his time and advice for free. There is no advice better than you will get here. Not ever. I feel more at peace than I have ever done in my entire life. Something I thought was unachievable.
The blogs the incredibly reasonably priced books and consultations.
He is a business and yet gives so much of himself.
Thank you HG
I agree, Alexis. I really don’t understand why some people complain or try to shame HG for charging for consults or other products (his books). He’s supplying plenty of his expert knowledge as a narcissist on this site, as is, and he does answer a very fair amount of questions for free. It’s true that his work has benefited countless people.
If someone doesn’t wish to partake of what he charges beyond the site’s articles, then simply don’t. But I find it wrong to disparage him for charging for such. He invests time & resources. It’s unfair to say he has no right to earn money.
Thank you CIF
You’re most welcome, HG.
Everything you said Caroline. Exactly that x I can’t ‘like’ from my phone
Everyone likes something for free, but HG has given us so much already.
You can give a man a fish…
I’d much rather have a net (in this case knowledge)
Thanks, Alexis.❤I can’t “Like” on my device either. And yes, to the “World Wide Net of HG Knowledge”! 🤸♀️
He absolutly does, Alexis
‘Like’ Renarde
Soon we will just be receiving the beginnings of an article and to read more you just have to send $25 US to gain the necessary information that you so desperately need. I think we are on a short path to watching a narci-vangelist in the making.
So the hundreds of free articles and answers have escaped your notice have they? Does your lawyer, therapist or dentist give you so much free information?
No HG they dont. I am lucky If a get a new toothbrush,floss and a 5ml mouthwash after spending thousands of dollars to keep my families teeth in top shape . You pay for quality! And for you we pay for quality and quantity!
Well then slap my ass and call me Tammy Faye, because we were getting no information or the wrong information before arriving here, and with wallets well emptied by professionals in some cases. Most of us pay more to sit in the hairdressers chair for an hour and no one blinks an eye at that, not to mention most hairdressers have never been credited with changing a life or improving one’s mental health.
There goes a logic blast.
NA,
You crack my ass up, sometimes when I need it the most! I spewed my coffee twice when I read this!
Correct NA. My hair is a few hundred bucks every 6-8 weeks. Never would I think to complain. Mental health is priceless.
Absolutely, Lorelei. And for me, it’s also bad form…
It’s like coming into someone else’s house who’s daily giving out a variety of free samples of (for instance) baked goods – but when they put out brochures, stating their prices if you need them for a special function, someone goes, “What? How dare you!”
#EmpathsHaveAHundredWaysToExplainRudeness🤸♀️
Agree Caroline. The harsh reality is that people who produce a product also have an education (often) or a labor of sorts that requires time to be able to produce the product. For my job—my master’s program wasn’t free. HG is not only a product of education, but an environment growing up that caused an enormous personal cost. (Which he may debate that he prefers his narcissism but we tend to abhor it..)
He also is a person somewhere that wants to remain anonymous. There is a risk his identity will be revealed before he chooses. Period.
Thank you Lorelei.
HG—what is your piece called on hope for me to search? Funny it just came up and is being requested!
You will have to give me more information to go on, as hope pops up in a few pieces.
Oops just saw this—the piece about not relying on hope?
It was Little acons 19. You Must not Tell.
Search bar is now found. The grey disguised it in my phone.
Lorelei
Do you mean the article: This time it will work?
No it’s almost poetic if I recall. You know, I have a new copy of The Handmaid’s Tale and in Margaret Atwood’s intro she states, “ If I was to create an imaginary garden, I wanted the roads to be real.”
It made my mind connect to a piece written on hope basically being a bitch—-not to rely on it. A loose connection but a pensive moment. Help me out!
Lorelei,
Was HG telling a childhood story about being in the woods, do you recall? Or was it a piece where he was with a girlfriend, at a cabin (standing out in the rain)? A few things spring to my mind, but I’m likely not thinking what you are.
It’s been found! Little Acons—19..
Jolly good.
Good deal, Lorelei💚
Good point, Lorelei, on HG’s anonymity.🎭
NA~
Tammy Faye! (But I’m not slapping your ass…I’m not that kind of girl)🤭
Your mascara is running! 😂
Very distasteful comment.
I agree. If you don’t want to purchase it or can’t, don’t blame the author. I don’t have any interest in purchasing the package for parenting with the narcissist or divorcing the narcissist. I simply don’t pay for it, period. I must say that, for reasons that I will not disclose, the information here does not really affect me and my situation. Fortunately for me, I’m not close to being the recipient of a malice campaign. But I don’t care. I paid because I thought it was an affordable price that I could afford to be able to help others. It’s called SAVOIR FAIRE, and it has nothing to do with business, but with class.
SP
You have class! 💛
I’m glad you are not the recipient of a malice campaign. It’s good to know there is help available if needed.
Thank you, njfilly. I actually found the information very thorough and useful, it’s just that precisely because of what is explained in a certain part of that document, I know I am not. Which provides a great relief, to be honest.
Indeed, it is often as important to know what you cannot do, or what does not apply, as what you can do and what does not apply. It all equates to education, empowerment and assurance.
HG, I agree with you very educating and knowing where you stand is very important so you can handle any situation that comes at you now and in the future .
Thank you Pati.
I’m sure it was thorough! I’m glad I don’t need the information.
Argb,
Actually most of us on here are grateful for finally receiving information that can not only help us understand what we have been dealing with, but also it helps us heal and move on! HG offers so much information for free, he deserves to be paid for his services! Fortunately for someone like myself who would not be able to afford this type of knowledge if I would have to pay for it, this man does not charge a dime! His books and also his consultations are very affordable, it is not right to think he should not charge for his time and knowledge! That is just very selfish, he is not the narcissist that hurt any of us and he should not have to pay the price as if he is! Try to find this type of information anywhere else and see how much it would cost you? Actually there is no one else who offers the knowledge and understanding that HG does out there in the world today. He is the best and deserves to be paid as such!
Thank you FM1T
No HG, Thank you for everything that you do. It seems there is always someone coming on here thinking you should not receive any type of payment for all the hard work that you do, I am sorry you constantly have to defend yourself. I absolutely can’t stand it!!
It was $10 US early bird special,you missed out! It was worth reading.
HG has so many articles you can access for free. He has dedicated his time to write them for us and he has his own private life and job to deal with.. If it wasnt for him I wouldn’t know what is wrong with my relationship. No therapist would be able to help and you would pay hundreds of dollars on top for nothing.
Correct
Arab
Love. I know its difficult. Try though. Try.
Remove your right hand from your peen. I’d say clit bit I’m just not feeling it?
Argb,
if the terms of the blog do not suit you anymore, you could have simply stopped visiting, why be desagreable?
please, understand that, him or anyone else being a narcissist, does not make them a public punshing ball.
i hop you will reconnsider your opinion.
ARGB: I am so glad I read your comment late in the day because everyone has done such an exceptional job setting the matter straight my opinion is virtually unnecessary. But of course, I will chime in due to my gratitude for the unparalleled insight and wisdom HG delivers for free.
I have been dealing with Ns my entire life and only saw a therapist later as an adult. Net gain after very, very pricy therapy? Nada. Literally zero understanding of what I now know is common N behavior. Lesson learned. After finding HG, it was the first time in my life someone understood, and better still gave superb advice, no, even better, life-changing advice, and all for FREE. I believe genuine knowledge and expertise is deserving of pay/reward, so I purchased all of HG’s books as a form of gratuity for my gratitude. I may never read them all, but it was one way to give back. So please check your cynicism and ask yourself, “Do I value my well being more than I do a weeks worth of lattes?” Let your answer be your guide.
HG, your work is incomparable and you are very generous with your free time. Thank you.
Thank you FYC.
It dawned on me that his behavior patterns of late may be malign campaign of brief hoover that feels like a love bomb for a few hours or only half an hour then instant ghost for days. Ab lib repeat escalate hoover lengthen ghosted duration an methodically withdrawing from me positive fuel then negative punishing comment and ghost.