Outnumbered Not Outgunned
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Wow! That explains a lot. Thank you.
Quick question. I think I read somewhere that 1 in 6 people are narcissists. Of that 17% is it a roughly equal split between the schools HG ? I’m thinking no. 50% middle Range, 35% Lesser, 15% Greater. One Ultra obviously. The thinking here is that if you know the group of narcissist you are most susceptible to, then you can calculate risk. ( roughly)
99.9 %. are either Lesser or Mid Range
HG. Dare I ask how many other elites?
That’s a different consideration as it appertains to cadre.
Ok. Asking the same elite question again in regards to cadre. How many fall into it?
Truthseeker—excellent thought. We each have an area of risk. So learning behaviors associated with these sub-types is a strength. For me it is MMR totally & occasionally Upper mid, although less exposure to upper mids because of my current work. So it’s really knowing the nuances of these A/B split on the mids.. I am “dating” one person and talking to another—I see both as being long term in possibly as I won’t date in an exclusive capacity right now. I’ve been a little stressed about one more than the other. It occurred to me that it doesn’t really matter right now. One thing valuable is to know that we have absolute control of our legs walking away. We know what behavioral nuances are unacceptable moving forward. So, does it really matter if there are a few red flags? Somewhat yes—but one foul word or silent treatment equals no more.. It’s not rocket science anymore. It was—but no longer. Normals teach people what they can get away with. We can do the same. None of us are idiots. Also, I can’t be in a relationship at this point and cry I’m a victim on here because I’ve assimilated too much information. Even with a friendship—if someone makes my ET rise it’s pathetic to slate them as crazy or the problem. It’s me. It’s all on me now. No more victim here. I’m a willing participant in all my relationships now. Boundaries (for myself) are mine from the get go, period. To be honest—my ex is the one who missed out from all his silent treatments. He could have enhanced him mind a little because I’m much more interesting than he will ever be.
*his mind..