Will The Narcissist Use Sensitive Material Against You?
You had no idea what you were dealing with.
You thought you could trust them.
You only did it to please them.
You thought they were being kind and understanding.
So many people creates videos containing sexual content involving themselves (and others), send nudes and/or disclose other sensitive information to the narcissist. The list is extensive and includes
Admitting to behaviour which could compromise your relationship with friends
Disclosing information which could affect your work, reputation and standing
Providing information to a narcissist which could jeopardise your licences or fitness to serve
Giving the narcissist sensitive financial information
Telling the narcissist about abuse you have suffered
Sending the narcissist a sex video or pictures of a sexual or embarrassing nature
Admitting to behaviour which could compromise your relationship with family
Providing information to the narcissist which could be used against you with regard to an existing romantic relationship.
Evidence of illegal behaviour, such as drug usage.
In those circumstances whether it is a sex tape or some other individual YOU need to know whether the narcissist will use this against you and if so in what way?
Using his unrivalled knowledge of the behaviour of narcissists, HG Tudor details clearly and extensively how this material is used by the narcissist so you can know what to expect so you can make informed decisions AND gain reassurance.
The Logic Bulletin includes
What is the mindset of the Lesser, Mid Range or Greater Narcissist when acquiring this information at the outset
Why do narcissists gather such material
How each school of narcissist will use the material in the following scenarious
IPPS in Golden Period
IPPS in Respite Period
IPPS in Devaluation
Former IPPS who escaped
Former IPPS who has been disengaged from
Candidate IPSS
Shelf IPSS
Dirty Little Secret
Non Intimate Secondary Sources (friends, family, colleagues)
Will it be used and if so, when?
Detailed scenarios with regard to Lesser, Mid Range and Greater for each of the situations detailed above, referencing hoovers and Malice Campaigns
If you fear that a narcissist may make use of sensitive material against you from the past, a current ensnarement or to guard against such disclosure in future relationships, you need this material so you can understand what to expect rather than continue to be anxious and worry.
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A very intriguing image, a pair of knickers with someone’s head in them…..
I’ve obviously missed the memo ‘No Knickers Day’…….I’ll say no more (laughing).
Hahaha, I had not noticed what the image was, thank you! Very funny!
Never sent any nudes to anyone. Guess I´m a bit too “prudish” of that. I have never felt comfortable with sending nude pics to anyone! None of my narcs asked me to do that even though I had two Somatics. Sending nudes or anything such sensitive is just “too private” for me. I hate pics of myself anyway 😂
I sent a few slightly racy texts and one racy email once. My ex took a few photos of me that were kind of racy, before cell phones were common. Pretty sure he left all the copies of those. I have been very thankful for this and also told the summer narc straight up when he hinted at photos that there would not be anything ever coming that could be used as blackmail. At least I had that much sense. The young people now don’t think about these things, I know at least two of my kids have either sent or received stuff that I would never do. It can affect their futures but they don’t seem to get it, probably because it is so common now.
That´s why I never ever send such stuff to anyone! Who knows what they do with your stuff. 😱
I accidentally ran into a few pictures I sent you the somatic. Nothing extreme, but one tit here… some panties there… I had forgotten about those. I was relieved to confirm I looked good. HAHAHA. Seriously though, I was mortified to think what he would do with that but thanks to HG’s material above 👆🏼 I survived my panic attacks.
Hahaha, I have the same thought when I come across the racy stuff! Gotta get rid of that somehow, so my kids don’t find it when I’m gone, but there’s no good way to dispose of it!
Interestingly, my somatic didn´t ask for such pics. Never. My first Somatic just asked for a normal pic (face). He collected pics of pretty women, but normal ones. Back then, there was no internet yet and I was only shelf appliance. I wounded him several times by not admiring him for his bed stories and his experience. He was a young budding narcissist but already into threesomes and orgies, already knew how to triangulate, give Silent Treatmens and hoover. 😉 Many years later I found out that he has wife and children now. His wife looks exactly like his mother 🤦♀️😂
Invaluable insight.