The Trio of Infatuation
Sharpen your Logic Defences and recognise how infatuation manifests in the mind of the narcissist with these intriguing portrayals.
Understand how infatuation manifests, how it is the preserve of the narcissist and so you recognise it, should it be used against you or have been used against you.
Understand how it is different from love which is founded on emotional empathy.
Use your acquired knowledge and narc craft to ascertain who the narcissist is infatuated with and what school of narcissist is infatuated.
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AV,
I was messing with the settings on Skype and it tried to put me in a meeting. I was like, oh sh#@ no!! I quickly closed the app and hyperventilated for a minute lol
Z,
It was my bad. I haven’t used Skype in a while and I foolishly thought if his camera was off he couldn’t see my camera. I had my camera facing away from me, as I wasn’t trying to look in the camera….and I was pacing,while talking. I’m sure he got a good view of me walking from my kitchen to the living room, back and forth, back and forth…..how embarrassing is that? Pretty embarrassing 😳 Sorry HG, for the merry go round camera feed, it wasn’t done on purpose.
I noticed you pacing back and forth and ten ignored it.
HG,
Knowing my history with tech systems I don’t use much, I would most likely try to turn off the camera and the whole call would disconnect. It’s not the system,it’s the operator….me, until I get the ends and outs, I blunder through it, sorta like a bull in a China shop. Oh, geezu
Awww Rebecca thats so hilariously cute x
Alexissmith2016,
I didn’t know he could see my camera feed,while his was off, at least I wasn’t using the camera as a mirror and picking my nose or something,not that I would, of course not….lol kidding…I’m the person I know who can trip over a speed bump in the day time too. Klutz me 🙃
Is this new HG?
No.
HG,
Which books would you recommend to me?
Thanks
All of my books will help you, perhaps if you provide me with a degree of detail as to what you need help with and I can provide you with a more specific response.
HG,
I just read your article about Humour and the narcissist, now I understand my narcissist behavior when someone else was making me laugh. He was right across from me going between looking at the other person and staring at the floor and he had his arms crossed in front of him. I kept getting this annoyed, angry feeling coming from him. Now it makes sense and I thought he was just jealous. Lol Thanks again for the education.
And to answer your question, I want to know more how the void works to drive the need for fuel, is the void past trauma becoming too overwhelming? Could you explain more? Thanks
The uncomfortable feelings that emanate from the void, including the presence of the creature, are diminished and silenced through the provision of fuel, hence it is a significant driver for it to be obtained.
HG,
I’m sorry you go through that, the creature must feel like an addiction you can’t ignore. The pain you must have gone through for this to happen. I sincerely feel for your daily pain and I myself have been a victim multiple times,but yet I still have empathy for you and what you deal with. I have a deeper understanding of things between the narcissist and the empath, we both hurt. Thanks for the clarity and the knowledge. Wish I could help you as much as you’ve helped me.
😔❤
In essense, what is the “creature”
Anne, see the link to purchase & obtain the information via The Knowledge Vault – https://tudorhg.gumroad.com/l/tudnw
HG,
Can we go over this during consultation? If we have time….after the narc detector?
Yes.
Is a live consult part of the narc detector package?
No.
HG,
Thanks and I hope I can have better control of my pacing this time around. Hopefully my camera feed didn’t make you dizzy…I tend to pace when nervous, angry or thinking…yeah, I was nervous. I should be better this time.🙃
Ow… are we supposed to have our camera on during the audio consultation?
I fear I misinterpreted the rules, I understood it was audio only?
Was I being rude by not turning on the camera?
My apologies, I was unaware and completely misunderstood the courtesy rules.
Now I feel stupid again…🤦🏼♀️
No, Z, there is no need to turn the camera on. Some people do, that is a matter for them, but it is intended to be audio only.
Oh, haha, I panicked a couple of times when I thought I’d inadvertantly turned it on!! I’d wake up to take the calls! 😂
Ok thank you for the clarification Mr Tudor!