EXPOSURE DURING DEVALUATION

  That lightbulb moment has arrived. You know what you are dealing with. At last. You’ve known that what is happening or has happened to you is wrong. You didn’t know why it was happening and you certainly had no idea that you were ensnared by a narcissist but now you do know. You know […]

Why Has He Gone Back?

  Think back to that glorious time when you were courted by the narcissist who ensnared you. Amidst the delight and excitement of that powerful and dizzying seduction there is a good chance that mention was made of his or her ex. That person was the devil incarnate weren’t they? They were an abuser, a […]

DO NARCISSISTS KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING? – THE LESSER

Do narcissists know what they are doing? Most victims would answer a resounding ‘yes’ to this question. Comments such as these are common :- “He is so calculating in the way he manipulates me, he knows what he is doing alright.” “Oh she knows just how to wind me up, she knows she does because […]

Your Fault

      STOP PLAYING THE BLAME GAME Why is it always your fault? Why does the narcissist never accept that he or she is to blame? How are they so adept at blaming others and especially you? Why do they do that? How do they achieve this blame evasion? What is behind their need […]