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Dr E explained that he wanted to discuss with me the issue of regret. “Have you ever regretted anything?” he asked. “No,” I answered promptly. “I see. What do you understand by regret?” “It is a feeling of sadness or perhaps disappointment over something that you have done or failed to do.” “When have […]
That lightbulb moment has arrived. You know what you are dealing with. At last. You’ve known that what is happening or has happened to you is wrong. You didn’t know why it was happening and you certainly had no idea that you were ensnared by a narcissist but now you do know. You know […]
You will never secure revenge over a narcissist unless you understand how the narcissist thinks and behaves. You will never secure revenge over a narcissist when you are blinded by emotional thinking. When victims believe they have obtained revenge, they will invariably have fallen onto The Devil´s Pitchfork and failed. Avoid that fate, by reading the work of […]
One of my ex girlfriends, Kate, was a big animal lover. She was always sponsoring some rare monkey in Africa or baking cakes to raise funds to save the gay whale or such like. People often remarked how fortunate I was to have someone so caring. I would tell them if she spent less time […]
There are many different hoovers but the ones which attract the most attention are those which take place post disengagement or post escape, namely the Initial Grand Hoover which is the bombardment which follows you escape in order to drag you back into our world or the Follow-Up Hoovers (either Benign of Malign) […]