A direct message from Sara seeking your help.
Dear fund givers.
My story (I’ll keep it brief)
I help people in work keep their employment when they make mistakes and/or when they are treated badly by others in the workplace. The irony is that I work for a trade union in the UK and yet the “organisation” has ignored the treatment towards me by a person that has displayed every single type of behaviour that I have read about in this resource. (to individuals like we were on a conveyor belt)
I suffer with disabilities which I kept hidden, unbeknown to me the day I reported what I saw as disturbing internal behaviours towards someone else I was done for and because I think it reflected badly upon him as the leader it has been a never ending vicious cycle of abuse so he can gag me and disregard me.
I have purchased some materials but the three I need I think are to know if he is a narcaccist – to known that I’m not because this question crossed my mind in a full on battle I had (before I found this site) and how to handle this workplace problem. But it will cost hundreds of pounds and I genuinely do not have that to be able to find out.
The reason is that I am taking my employer to court to prove what he did (not just to me, but others) was so cruel and I am suffering with PTSD amongst other things like depression, anxiety list goes on – but to continue the work I do to help others I need to tell me story (legal costs and not working equals reduced salary) but I can’t walk away but I hope to give back to funds like this so it continues to help others if I can prove this person was so abusive and callous it caused personal injury.
I am sure you hear this all the time but I am honest and did not deserve to watch people including myself want to end their life because this person decided they wanted to have fun with people – hurting each other and he pretended to be there to help, yet all the time fuelling the problem, smearing, gaslighting on and on….
I think I need to know who he is (and his supporters) also who I am because I have lost myself and then how to deal with it all. I have signed out of work to go no contact despite this pulling at me because I am having to stop helping others which is not in my nature but I have to take the advice (head over heart) if I am to get through this turbulent and life changing time.
Thank you for taking the time to read, regardless of the request outcome (I understand there is probably others who you may feel need it more than I). I will continue to support your work and quest because it truly is invaluable. If only I knew then what I know now I think I could have saved myself a least a year or so of pain and suffering and probably saved a person who I tried my hardest to protect but couldn’t as he isolated and destroyed her – although
I cannot thank you enough – during my journey I chose two people (yourself – which took me a long time to get through the first podcast when I knew you were a narcissist- that was incredibly difficult, now I am probably addicted to it like a sponge & a clinical psychologist. I think both have complimented the other, one got me base level understanding when i was disorientated but your work got me deeper insight and I think it helped me survive longer.
Regards Sara.