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The sudden silences. The periods of no communication when before the airwaves crackled with the send and return exchange of text messages. The repeated calls throughout the day to talk of something and to talk of nothing, now gone and empty. The absence of a morning greeting. The absence of any greeting. Just […]
Hush. I don’t want you to make any sound. None at all. If you do you will spoil this moment. This is not a time for noise, of any kind. Yes, I admit I normally like you to be making some sound. Whether it is your words of admiration, your scream of terror, your […]
Fury is present in all narcissists. Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult? Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered? Why does he walk off and disappear? Here is the answer. By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the […]
Life on the shelf. The position of the Intimate Partner Secondary Source Other commentators talk about the standard cycle of the narcissist being idealisation, then devaluation, then dis-engagement (or discard) and then hoovering. This is just one dynamic of many. None realise that there are many other dynamics and one in particular which is […]
Life on the shelf is often difficult. Knowing The Narcissist is the only place which explains this dynamic with accuracy. You often find yourself isolated, unable to talk to others about the affair you are engaged with and if there are others you can speak to, they do not understand you are dealing […]