1. In order to create an appropriate environment for my interaction with readers, the good doctors and I established The Five Rules which govern the way that I behave with people on the blog. I cannot tell you what those rules are as this would alter the dynamic between us and adversely affect our interactions. The simplest way to describe them is that they are for your benefit. There is no point asking me what they are. I will not tell you.
  2. I am polite, courteous and engaging with nearly everybody I meet (save the occasional tertiary source which I want to obtain negative fuel from). This is replicated in my dealings with my readers.
  3. I do not know anybody who comes to the blog in ‘real life’ therefore I have no need to devalue those that come to the blog. If you are expecting to see my ‘dark side’ in action you are going to be disappointed. You will have to engage with me in real life to witness that. I would not advise you do so.
  4. Personal attacks against me are just fuel. If you want to do it, go ahead, but you will become bored before I do.
  5. I encourage interesting and articulate debate. The nature of this blog is an emotive subject and strong views are to be expected. I allow people to disagree and to do so in a robust fashion for the purposes of debate. I enjoy debate. Ad hominem attacks against people do not further debate and those will be moderated and removed. Feel free to advance your opinions, arguments and views and to question other people, but do so in a respectful and constructive manner.
  6. Contrary to belief I have no interest in people falling out with one another. It is not involving me so therefore I am interested in it.
  7. You must not post personal information that will allow another person to contact you. I will edit out e-mail addresses, telephone numbers and similar material. If you sign in using your own blog, thus identifying yourself, that is a matter for you an understand you do so at your own risk of other commenters contacting you.
  8. The main purpose of this blog is for you to gain an understanding of the way I think, act and do and also of those like me. I do allow off topic conversations as well, so if you have a pressing need to comment on the latest Netflix drama or a particular pop star, that is entirely acceptable, just so long as you bring it round to me again soon enough.
  9. If you must post material produced by other people, ensure that it is appropriately credited to avoid any copyright issues.
  10. You are welcome to post my material elsewhere so long as it is properly credited.
  11. Do make full use of this resource to understand your own situation, to ask questions and further your own progress.
  12. If you have any concerns regarding a comment or the behaviour of another reader, e-mail me at and I will investigate your concerns.




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