Frequently asked questions

I have been asked tens of thousands of questions, on this blog. There are, of course, certain questions which are asked repeatedly and in order to save my fingers and to save you waiting for a response on the blog (and possibly not receiving one because I have answered the question so many times before) here are a number of questions which are frequently asked and my answers to them.

Q. Do you believe in God or a higher power?

R. No, but I do when it suits my purposes.

Q. Do you believe people have souls and, if so, where do you think your soul goes after death? Do you believe in the afterlife? Do you believe in heaven and hell?

R. No, but I do when it suits my purposes. When you die, that’s it. Game over. There is no afterlife. Unless, as I mentioned, it suits my purposes.

Q. Do you believe in psychic ability or demonic possession?

R. No.

Q. What is your worldview that makes you want to empower empaths? Why are you doing what you are doing and helping empaths?

R. Hegemonic domination and omnipotence. I do this because I enjoy writing and have been encouraged to share my knowledge as part of the treatment that has been forced upon me. I like to interact with people, too. I want to be the number one source for the reality of how my kind think and behave. I also find the weaponising of empaths and having them go into battle with my kind entirely in accordance with my worldview.

Q. Do you get fuel from the comments in your blog and elsewhere?

R. As stated in the About section (, I do not do this for fuel. I do gain some fuel from the comments but since those who comment are tertiary sources (see the book Fuel for more) it is not significant. I gain far more fuel in my interactions in my private life.

Q. Do narcissists ever get depressed and/or commit suicide?

R. Yes, albeit this is very rare.

Q. How is it you have so much self-awareness?

R. Intelligence, natural ability, discipline, drive, access to information.

Q. How do you have so much insight into people?

R. Intelligence, natural ability, discipline, drive, access to information, necessity.

Q. I would like to know more about your personal story. Which of your books speak about you?

R. The books Fuel, Fury and all of the Confessions series include passages of my life.

Q. How old are you?

R. Old enough to know, young enough to do.

Q. Can an empath change schools or cadre?

R. No.

Q. Can a narcissist change schools?

R. No

Q. Can a narcissist be a mix of two cadres? My narcissist seems to have traits of Victim and cerebral.

Q. HG, how do I seize the power? Which book of yours contains this knowledge?

R. All my books will help you to seize the power.

Q. Does the narcissist hoover if the IPPS left them, cheated on them and even called them out on their narcissism?

R. The narcissist will hoover if there is a Hoover Trigger (of which there is always a risk) and if the Hoover Execution Criteria (HEC) are met. To know more about Hoover Triggers and the HEC, please read Surely that is the End, Yes? (Will There be A Hoover?)
The factors you refer to :-

1. Leaving the narcissist – this wounds the narcissist. However, dependent on your position within the fuel matrix and the fuel needs of the narcissist, this is likely to cause the narcissist to apply an Initial Grand Hoover to get you back under control.
2. Cheating on the narcissist – this wounds the narcissist and pushes the hoover bar upwards.
3. Accusation of narcissism – this most likely will have been Challenge Fuel and therefore will lower the hoover bar.

There are many factors which are applicable in the HEC, not just the ones mentioned above, which impact on the prospects of being hoovered. I can tell you how one single factor will influence the hoover bar (moving it high or low) BUT that one factor cannot be viewed in splendid isolation. There will be other factors which could override that factor one way or the other.

Q. What is a Malign Hoover?

R. It is when The Malign Hoover seeks only to draw negative fuel

Q. Can you make a hoover happen?

R. Yes, you can. If you want it to happen, you are best designing a way to enter one of our spheres of influence but understand, for the reasons outlined above, it may not happen when you want it to, but it will at some point. After all, in accordance with our total desire for control, we want the hoover to be when we decide, not you.

Q. What would be the response of a Mid-Range Narcissist when reading your blogs?

R. They would believe the behaviours they read about apply to the true victim and they would likely label that person the narcissist.


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