Knowing the Narcissist : Half Price Empath Detector :
Understanding the relevant school and cadre of empath that you belong to is an integral part of arming yourself so that you effect a GOSO Campaign (Get Out, Stay Out) with the maximum effectiveness.
Recognising where you belong with regard to one of the four schools of empath and then the relevant cadre not only aids you in learning more about yourself and how your school and cadre attracts particular narcissists, it will weaponise you in your quest to GOSO and also assist you in evading narcissists in the future.
This consultation is conducted through the provision of a protocol which is straightforward and provides confidentiality between the parties. A questionnaire is provided which elicits a broad range of information about you and your behaviours to enable me to then analyse your responses and provide you with an accurate and easy to understand response through an audio sound file.
Ensuring you know what you are means you will avoid the mistakes that occur with self-analysis through lacking objectivity. It will ensure you do not embark on courses of action which are suited to different schools and it also enables you to plug the gaps in your own defences and achieve GOSO sooner and with less effort.
Click the link below to learn more about the process and what you will learn.
To get your half price empath detector use code iadorehg50 at the checkout in the Knowledge Vault
I found the ED to be very thought provoking. I was amazed by you getting me the results within three hours. (I had walked away from the computer to avoid obsessively waiting.) The ED prompted introspection in a good way, and I can see why people would write in answers (much as it makes results trickier for you). I’ve been trying to sit with my results (not think about it too much)–then go back and think about it again without.
I was very surprised. I think I understand one part that surprised me a little better now.
1. Can someone with a minority school of co-dependent or super consciously choose that behavior? (I don’t see how someone could choose to be more sensitive to the emotions of others consciously–contagion, and someone can’t be a minority school of standard.) Say the narc is giving an absent silent treatment (for the hundredth time), and they have a month to think about what to say before he/she emerges from the vapors of NarcLand like ghoul…
2. What are ways that you’ve seen empaths using their results to help themselves? I feel that when an individual understands their behaviour and what drives it, it’s easier to spot and easier to change course. Change your behaviour, get different outcomes.
Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated.
1. You do not choose to be codependent or super, you just are.
2. There are various different ways that people have used the results, the largest one is the realisation of the presence of the addiction, what that means and what must then be done to manage that addictions.
Your ED results were very helpful as knowledge is power and to spot someone who could be destructive in your life is invaluable. You have an uncanny ability to get in other people’s heads and explain behavioral patterns that most psychologists ( not psychiatrists as they cure with meds….) would love but could never achieve your ability to practically explain it..
But I must add that you also put a fire in my belly for the importance of empathy in the world. While narcs and psychopaths have the ability to lie, cheat, steal, kill, etc… to get on top and keep the wheels of capitalism and dictatorships and fascism humming, empaths have an important role in society and can reach the top too. They create communities, cohesion, social justice so that society is improved, conflict resolution and a civilization of morality that does not go to the ending of Lord of the Rings, or Armageddon maybe the balance is more like John’s vision in the end of Revelation? Time will tell. And it is a balance outside of any addiction. And it seems predestined. Fate up against your will. (Killing Moon by Echo and the Bunnyman playing….) For empaths, narcs are a drama like the French Revolution with the best of times and worst of times and a bitter pill to swallow at the end of the ride. To me, narcs are half man, half broken child and the empath senses their brokenness and seeks to heal with love. Thinking kindness and understanding and compassion will fill the void but all evidence even neuroscience today say it’s “ too late.” But maybe there’s a meaning in the madness as Bo g BALANCED can serve a purpose. Maybe there’s is a great design. Rome isn’t running the world anymore. Great dictators like Pol Pot and Hitler are long gone and often taught in schools as how not to be or evil. Yet their very actions live on in others and others take them down. The pendulum swings. So in inter personal relations “ to know is to go” is great advice. In looking upon the needs of humanity. Swords up empaths! I think we need more of us. Normals won’t dare to go where we have gone in history ( think Tubman, MLK Jr., Catrini, Jesus, Dolly etc…) or dare to go today! And all it takes is one small act of kindness like a butterflies wing, it matters. But HG with his sage advice allows us to live a better personal life so that we better contribute to society.
Hi Dani,
I have some super in my makeup so I hope its ok to put my two thoughts in. My super needs to be triggered by some event. Although I also think that with this new knowledge, I can draw a line much quicker now. With your example about an absent silent treatment, I wouldn’t even react to that anymore because I know why its being done. I just let them walk away. With knowledge, we gain clarity. With that clarity, it gives us the ability to think about our responses instead of just reacting. That’s what I love so much about having this knowledge. Having this clarity makes a world of difference.
I totally agree with you, the awareness and knowledge of our own reactions helps me lower my reactions most of the time now, though ocassionally my Geyser still wins. 😄xx
Hello, Leigh. of course it’s ok. Mr. Tudor, the glorious moderator, posted it. And I enjoy reading your thoughts.
I used the silent treatment because it is a sustained manipulation and devaluation that doesn’t rapidly cycle…and to my thinking would allow the time to consider the situation as a whole without the same level of interacting that a word salad speech once per day with some triangulating with a child, etc becomes. And it gives the time to consider…I wanted the hypothetical empath to have that time to select a different response, to think about the pattern, to think about what they want, etc.
Hi Dani,
Oh yes, if I have time to consider my response, its very likely that I’ll choose a different response altogether. Sometimes even in the moment, I choose a different response then I would’ve in the past.
A couple of years back, WhoCares made a comment about having the ability to choose who she gives her empathy too. I’m including the link here because reading her comment really helped me a lot. I think it could be beneficial for you as well.
I’ve found that reacting differently to the manipulations and being able to choose who I give my empathy to, has just naturally happened due to having this knowledge.
You’ll see Dani. It’ll start happening with you as well.
Recently I observed that having a highly anxious person with me is not so healthy for me. I have a friend who I love but over the years I have noticed that I absorb her anxiety. Oddly I feel the same way with my dogs. I thought as a contagion it was simply knowing what a person feels or thinks. And I discounted that I absorbed others “ energies.” But not true. If I had not done the ED, I don’t think I would have recognized it. Or thought about it. How does that help me? Well knowledge is power. I have to limit time with my friend or walk outside as her anxiety affects me. I learn to stop myself and take a deep breath. To release her anxiety from my body. Maybe everyone feels this way. I don’t know. I only know my reality and for a long time I felt everyone was wrong he same. Some of my tiny subcategories like super, I don’t relate too. Small but I think they must come up in a specific situation. I do believe in free will. We can choose to be a certain way but I think it’s an improvement based on knowledge and conscious choice and never a 360. I mean can people change? I think they can make alterations but become entirely new. I don’t see that as possible or authentic. ????
Thank you, Contagious. I was more thinking of it as something of an experiment. I don’t think it’s inauthentic to practice different behaviors or strategies.
I totally agree. I think the word is “ growth.” Lol we are never to old to learn something new, change our perspective. Oddly, I often have felt life is a matter of perspective….
I apologize if this question comes through multiple times. I’ve seen the nonce verification error message twice when trying to send it.
1. Is there a correlation between psychological stress/conflict response and the schools of an empath? Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze
2. Would these be good matches?
Fight – Super – standing up for themself/others
Flight – Contagion – withdrawn when things are too intense
Fawn – Codependent – actively trying to please and appease
Freeze – Standard – go along to get along; remain in place and not reacting
No one is 100% one school just as individuals don’t react to every stressor in the same way.
Super looking forward to what’s coming up about empaths based on the thumbnails in yesterday’s important announcement video.
Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated!
Super empaths are likely to see the problem before other schools. They are more likely to leave the relationship.
1. Is a contagion more likely to stay gone or get their emotional thinking under control more quickly? They want the distance. The distance is problematic to a narcissist in terms of fuel and control, and possibly character traits and residual benefits.
The Nonce is a problem…I may spam with questions…but I like to make them different questions…as opposed to thrice sending the same ones in several minutes.
Thank you so much for your time! Much appreciated. Loving the new channel!
I sometimes get an error message, when I try to send a WordPress blog comment at work, during my lunch break. I usually end up retyping it and sending it when I get home. Xx
Thank you, Z. You as well. Your appearance has reminded me to check the Knowing HG forum for any recent developments. I have always enjoyed your contributions there.
Thank you again for the detailed analysis and prompt responses in regard to the Empath detector I recently completed. The whole process could not have been more straightforward from start to finish.
May I ask if you’ll consider doing the same discount or similar for the trait detector please?
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Mr. Tudor,
I found the ED to be very thought provoking. I was amazed by you getting me the results within three hours. (I had walked away from the computer to avoid obsessively waiting.) The ED prompted introspection in a good way, and I can see why people would write in answers (much as it makes results trickier for you). I’ve been trying to sit with my results (not think about it too much)–then go back and think about it again without.
I was very surprised. I think I understand one part that surprised me a little better now.
1. Can someone with a minority school of co-dependent or super consciously choose that behavior? (I don’t see how someone could choose to be more sensitive to the emotions of others consciously–contagion, and someone can’t be a minority school of standard.) Say the narc is giving an absent silent treatment (for the hundredth time), and they have a month to think about what to say before he/she emerges from the vapors of NarcLand like ghoul…
2. What are ways that you’ve seen empaths using their results to help themselves? I feel that when an individual understands their behaviour and what drives it, it’s easier to spot and easier to change course. Change your behaviour, get different outcomes.
Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated.
1. You do not choose to be codependent or super, you just are.
2. There are various different ways that people have used the results, the largest one is the realisation of the presence of the addiction, what that means and what must then be done to manage that addictions.
Thank you, sir. Much appreciation for your time.
Hello HG:
Your ED results were very helpful as knowledge is power and to spot someone who could be destructive in your life is invaluable. You have an uncanny ability to get in other people’s heads and explain behavioral patterns that most psychologists ( not psychiatrists as they cure with meds….) would love but could never achieve your ability to practically explain it..
But I must add that you also put a fire in my belly for the importance of empathy in the world. While narcs and psychopaths have the ability to lie, cheat, steal, kill, etc… to get on top and keep the wheels of capitalism and dictatorships and fascism humming, empaths have an important role in society and can reach the top too. They create communities, cohesion, social justice so that society is improved, conflict resolution and a civilization of morality that does not go to the ending of Lord of the Rings, or Armageddon maybe the balance is more like John’s vision in the end of Revelation? Time will tell. And it is a balance outside of any addiction. And it seems predestined. Fate up against your will. (Killing Moon by Echo and the Bunnyman playing….) For empaths, narcs are a drama like the French Revolution with the best of times and worst of times and a bitter pill to swallow at the end of the ride. To me, narcs are half man, half broken child and the empath senses their brokenness and seeks to heal with love. Thinking kindness and understanding and compassion will fill the void but all evidence even neuroscience today say it’s “ too late.” But maybe there’s a meaning in the madness as Bo g BALANCED can serve a purpose. Maybe there’s is a great design. Rome isn’t running the world anymore. Great dictators like Pol Pot and Hitler are long gone and often taught in schools as how not to be or evil. Yet their very actions live on in others and others take them down. The pendulum swings. So in inter personal relations “ to know is to go” is great advice. In looking upon the needs of humanity. Swords up empaths! I think we need more of us. Normals won’t dare to go where we have gone in history ( think Tubman, MLK Jr., Catrini, Jesus, Dolly etc…) or dare to go today! And all it takes is one small act of kindness like a butterflies wing, it matters. But HG with his sage advice allows us to live a better personal life so that we better contribute to society.
Hi Dani,
I have some super in my makeup so I hope its ok to put my two thoughts in. My super needs to be triggered by some event. Although I also think that with this new knowledge, I can draw a line much quicker now. With your example about an absent silent treatment, I wouldn’t even react to that anymore because I know why its being done. I just let them walk away. With knowledge, we gain clarity. With that clarity, it gives us the ability to think about our responses instead of just reacting. That’s what I love so much about having this knowledge. Having this clarity makes a world of difference.
Hi Leigh,
I totally agree with you, the awareness and knowledge of our own reactions helps me lower my reactions most of the time now, though ocassionally my Geyser still wins. 😄xx
Hi Rebecca!
Its so great to see you!
LOL! Yes, sometimes my Geyser still wins too!
Hello, Leigh. of course it’s ok. Mr. Tudor, the glorious moderator, posted it. And I enjoy reading your thoughts.
I used the silent treatment because it is a sustained manipulation and devaluation that doesn’t rapidly cycle…and to my thinking would allow the time to consider the situation as a whole without the same level of interacting that a word salad speech once per day with some triangulating with a child, etc becomes. And it gives the time to consider…I wanted the hypothetical empath to have that time to select a different response, to think about the pattern, to think about what they want, etc.
Hi Dani,
Oh yes, if I have time to consider my response, its very likely that I’ll choose a different response altogether. Sometimes even in the moment, I choose a different response then I would’ve in the past.
A couple of years back, WhoCares made a comment about having the ability to choose who she gives her empathy too. I’m including the link here because reading her comment really helped me a lot. I think it could be beneficial for you as well.
https://narcsite.com/2023/08/09/psychopath-compassion/#comment-447543
I’ve found that reacting differently to the manipulations and being able to choose who I give my empathy to, has just naturally happened due to having this knowledge.
You’ll see Dani. It’ll start happening with you as well.
Hi Dani:
Recently I observed that having a highly anxious person with me is not so healthy for me. I have a friend who I love but over the years I have noticed that I absorb her anxiety. Oddly I feel the same way with my dogs. I thought as a contagion it was simply knowing what a person feels or thinks. And I discounted that I absorbed others “ energies.” But not true. If I had not done the ED, I don’t think I would have recognized it. Or thought about it. How does that help me? Well knowledge is power. I have to limit time with my friend or walk outside as her anxiety affects me. I learn to stop myself and take a deep breath. To release her anxiety from my body. Maybe everyone feels this way. I don’t know. I only know my reality and for a long time I felt everyone was wrong he same. Some of my tiny subcategories like super, I don’t relate too. Small but I think they must come up in a specific situation. I do believe in free will. We can choose to be a certain way but I think it’s an improvement based on knowledge and conscious choice and never a 360. I mean can people change? I think they can make alterations but become entirely new. I don’t see that as possible or authentic. ????
Thank you, Contagious. I was more thinking of it as something of an experiment. I don’t think it’s inauthentic to practice different behaviors or strategies.
Hi Dani:
I totally agree. I think the word is “ growth.” Lol we are never to old to learn something new, change our perspective. Oddly, I often have felt life is a matter of perspective….
Mr. Tudor–
I apologize if this question comes through multiple times. I’ve seen the nonce verification error message twice when trying to send it.
1. Is there a correlation between psychological stress/conflict response and the schools of an empath? Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze
2. Would these be good matches?
Fight – Super – standing up for themself/others
Flight – Contagion – withdrawn when things are too intense
Fawn – Codependent – actively trying to please and appease
Freeze – Standard – go along to get along; remain in place and not reacting
No one is 100% one school just as individuals don’t react to every stressor in the same way.
Super looking forward to what’s coming up about empaths based on the thumbnails in yesterday’s important announcement video.
Thank you so much for your time. Much appreciated!
1. No.
2. If you had to select a category for each school, those would be the closest.
A nonce verification error message seems like a cause for concern!
Thank you so much, sir.
Super empaths are likely to see the problem before other schools. They are more likely to leave the relationship.
1. Is a contagion more likely to stay gone or get their emotional thinking under control more quickly? They want the distance. The distance is problematic to a narcissist in terms of fuel and control, and possibly character traits and residual benefits.
The Nonce is a problem…I may spam with questions…but I like to make them different questions…as opposed to thrice sending the same ones in several minutes.
Thank you so much for your time! Much appreciated. Loving the new channel!
Is it a minor problem?
Is the second meaning of nonce exclusively British then?
HG and Dani,
I sometimes get an error message, when I try to send a WordPress blog comment at work, during my lunch break. I usually end up retyping it and sending it when I get home. Xx
Fantastic opportunity.
Nice to see you are still here NA!!
Missed you 💛✨
Thank you, Z. You as well. Your appearance has reminded me to check the Knowing HG forum for any recent developments. I have always enjoyed your contributions there.
Good Evening H.G,
Thank you again for the detailed analysis and prompt responses in regard to the Empath detector I recently completed. The whole process could not have been more straightforward from start to finish.
May I ask if you’ll consider doing the same discount or similar for the trait detector please?
There are no immediate plans to do so.
It was worth a try. I appreciate you taking the time to respond.
Thank you.
You’re welcome
Bear on Hulu won lots of Emmys. The mother played by Jamie Lee Curtis is a classic narc.