Poll : Which Red Flags Did You Fail to Heed?
Red Flags. With the benefit of hindsight those flags were flying high but you failed to heed them. Did you think the now-known-narcissist was coming on strong by wanting to be with you all of the time, but you dismissed it as it felt good and exciting? Maybe the narcissist was already in a relationship when he or she targeted you citing those lies of “we are like brother and sister these days”, “we never have sex any more” or “he/she makes my life hell” ? Perhaps you noticed that the narcissist would be strangely unavailable for short periods of time, when usually he or she answered the phone within a nanosecond of you ringing them? Or was it the fact that you never got to meet any of his or her family or friends as you were only ever seen isolation?
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I didn’t receive a golden period. I was a ipss and married. He did give me excessive attention which I lapped up like a thirsty puppy. I saw a lot of red flags but didn’t care much since I’m married. I had no idea about narcissism. I just thought he was a total douche bag. He did bad mouth his ex wife quite a lot which I knew was BS because I grew to know her, she is wonderful. I understood what he was doing most of the time in regards to the games he would play. I played along. I’m not entirely sure when I lost my grip. I suppose it was salami slices like HG says. I had no idea the damage that was being done until it was too late. The whole boil a frog thing. I didn’t know I was being boiled until I was cooked.