Welcome to Knowing the Narcissist.

I am H G Tudor. I am a narcissistic sociopath (some state psychopath – this remains a matter of debate by the profession concerning the current application of sociopath or psychopath).

By my terminology I am a Greater Elite Narcissist. You will learn here what that means along with all about the other types of narcissists and empaths too.

I convey this is an effective manner based on my perspective. I know what I am and I know the best way to communicate this to you. I am a very effective communicator.

I write extensively about what this means and what I am. I have practised this dark art for many years, I have honed and crafted my abilities. I am aware of what I am and I am engaged in understanding why I am this way and why I act as I do. I am sharing these ongoing revelations.

I know my kind in considerable detail. I have several family members who are narcissists and have engaged with numerous in my life. I know the way my kind think, why we act as we do, say what we say and so much more. I understand why we target our victims and how we go about it. I comprehend why our victims think and act as they do. I have had many, watched many and listened to many. This allows me to build a formidable body of knowledge about not only my kind, but the people we engage with.

I am currently engaged in treatment which has been forced upon me. As part of this treatment and because I enjoy writing, I have been encouraged to share my knowledge. This is to engender a greater awareness of what I am on my part and also to allow the world an unrivalled view of the mind and actions of a narcissistic sociopath.

I do this because I like to write. I like to interact with people. I want to be the number one source for the reality of how my kind think and behave. I also find the weaponising of empaths and having them go into battle with my kind entirely in accordance with my worldview.

I do not do this for fuel. I do gain some fuel from the comments but since those who comment are tertiary sources (see the book Fuel for more) it is not significant. I gain far more fuel in my interactions in my private life.

I am direct. I do not speak in scientific terms. I welcome enquiring minds and those who want answers. I will give them to you. You will not gain understanding like this from anywhere else. I encourage you to read my articles and extensive collection of books which can be found on Amazon. I encourage you to contribute, ask questions and offer your own views. I read everything that is submitted to me and answer all questions, thus if your post does not appear straight away, please understand that it is in moderation and is either receiving or awaiting my attention.

The number of comments and hits are testament to the need for my knowledge and the huge usefulness many people have found from it. You will too.

Welcome on board. You will now Know the Narcissist.

HG Tudor




1,180 thoughts on “About”

  1. Isn’t the fact that you are a narcissistic sociopath tell a person you cannot possibly be trusted with anything you say here, as part of the very definition of your disorder is to lie manipulate and twist truth. Your kind can’t grlp themselves. Don’t you think it’s foolish for anyone to take what you say to heart gucennyour very diagnosis?

    1. I can’t figure out how to edit, I need to correct the word “grlp” I meant *help, and “gucennyour” I meant *given your.

    2. No.
      On the contrary, they must take to heart (and more importantly mind) what I write and explain because it is my work and only my work that will grant freedom.

      Read the work. Read the comments. Read the testimonials. Read the evidence. See how many people recognise the accuracy of my work. See how many people it has assisted. Do not make baseless assumptions.

  2. If all those of us on the empathic side of the spectrum have narcissistic traits, to varying degrees, do narcissists have varying degrees of empathic traits and simply choose not to use them?

    Do you have empathic traits, but use your considerable superiority as a narcissist to ignore those traits except when the construct requires them?

    If no, shouldn’t it follow that some of us empaths have no narcissistic traits?

    I recognize that I have many narcissistic traits and I completely reject them and (when possible) refuse to let them show.

      1. Hi, Lisa if Mr. Tudor doesn’t mind, I’d like to elaborate just a touch. From what I learned from, HG ( Thank You, Sir) Because Narcissist are Not wired to feel love, joy, etc. Because of their emotional abuse as a child has somehow someway, they grew up without the ability to feel empathy, love, joy, ect. So, in answer to your first question there you have it, they can’t. Literally . Ever. (I actually cried when I read that.) And no, A true Empath ( I knew I was one, but thanks to HG, I’ve learned I am a Supernova Empath. ( Thank You, Again, Sir.) .Empaths ARE JUST THAT in all manner, empathetic, etc, as you know since you are one. You may be born, (?) An Empath, but Narcissism is created during childhood . You cannot “become”a narcissist. On a personal note, my childhood was a 1000 times worse then what I have learned of Mr. Tudors, why did I not become a Narcissist? But, an SN Empath. I don’t know . More research is current.

          1. Hi Mr Tudor,

            I am aware if the nature’s of Astronomy. I was using it only in the same fashion as in your articles . Sorry for the misunderstanding .

      2. Okay thank you. I’ve been obsessively consuming the information you’ve shared with us and you do come across like you care, just enough to really want us to understand that you don’t. There could be any number of reasons why; regardless, thank you for letting us in.

    1. Lisa
      You say completely reject them. So you don’t believe in a healthy amount of narcissism? For example having pride? I don’t relate narcissistic traits to negativity (haha, I heard a lot of “of course you don’t muttered). Seriously though, don’t you think it is the narcissistic traits in part that are what allows us to disengage and keep us from being ensnared again? That allow self preservation?

      1. That’s possibly why I haven’t managed yet. I only escaped my ex husband by involving child protection and forcing myself into a position where I could not delude myself into thinking I could save him and them.

        I’m the proverbial runner with the broken leg. I have no sense of self preservation. I save myself by saving others and that is where my pride trips me up, actually. It’s the one thing I’m very narcissistic about. I stubbornly believe that I can save everyone, if I only understand them enough to know how.

      2. To elaborate on this… whenever I do keep myself from harm, it’s because I feel I owe it to the people who love me. Not out of a desire to protect the self.

  3. Imagine that the boss at work is a narcissist and he or she manipulates his employees. I have two questions.
    1. Does the boss gain fuel dismissing (fire) one of his employees?
    2. Does the boss is wounded when his employee left work due to the boss’s fault (for example)?

    1. 1. Depends on the response of the employee, but usually yes.
      2. Depends how the departure occurs.

  4. Hello HG, my Narc ex used his work at the office as a hunting ground. He met a lot of women that he engaged with intimitly. At this moment he has no job for some months now. Will this cause problems for him in his fuell matrix? He has a IPPS and she knows about the affairs he had. So she is on guard now. He is a Midranger. Can this cause a crises for him? And what will this do regarding the dynamcs towards the Narcissist and his IPPS?

    1. 1. It will adversely impact on his fuel matrix.
      2. His response might be to shift hunting ground – maybe go virtual to hunt there instead.
      3. He will also be forced to rely on different sources for fuel (if they exist).
      4. If the IPPS has remained she will still be fuelling him.
      5. I doubt he will have a fuel crisis.

  5. My ex is somewhere in the crosshairs of ULN & LGN. Very smart, very manipulative, lacking excessive charm and completely unmotivated to live a life greater than the LLN. Physically and sexually violent. But hella smart.

    I left him one day as he napped on the sofa. We share children.

    Because of these laws he broke, there will be 5 years of legally enforced no contact.

    My question for you is, will this be enough time for him to forget about me? Will he ever leave me alone?

    He’s the type to slink along the edge of his legal boundaries. He was stalking recently in ways that aren’t specifically illegal but seems to have stopped since his parole officer spoke to him.

    My noticing it and having his PO confront him was almost certainly the fuel he was seeking, but I didn’t feel safe saying nothing about it.

    1. There is always a risk of a hoover until the day the narcissist dies or you die, but there is much you can do to reduce that risk. I recommend you consult with me and I can assist you.

  6. I feel gross thanking a narcissist for anything, but it is what it is. So, thanks.

    I’ve known about narcissism for a long time, because I was married to one (lesser).

    My next rs was with someone seemingly completely opposite but your videos have helped me finally get past that (8 months after discard) by seeing that he is just a different brand of narcissist (MRN).

    I don’t particularly like you because of the things you’ve done, but I respect what you’re doing now.

  7. 1.When you go on a first date, do you ask your victim many questions? Like a copper – police questioning? Or you let your victim open up slowly?
    2. Do you think that all narcissists behave the same way?
    (sorry for my poor English skills) 😉

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