Welcome to Knowing the Narcissist.

I am H G Tudor. I am a narcissistic sociopath (some state psychopath – this remains a matter of debate by the profession concerning the current application of sociopath or psychopath).

By my terminology I am a Greater Elite Narcissist. You will learn here what that means along with all about the other types of narcissists and empaths too.

I convey this is an effective manner based on my perspective. I know what I am and I know the best way to communicate this to you. I am a very effective communicator.

I write extensively about what this means and what I am. I have practised this dark art for many years, I have honed and crafted my abilities. I am aware of what I am and I am engaged in understanding why I am this way and why I act as I do. I am sharing these ongoing revelations.

I know my kind in considerable detail. I have several family members who are narcissists and have engaged with numerous in my life. I know the way my kind think, why we act as we do, say what we say and so much more. I understand why we target our victims and how we go about it. I comprehend why our victims think and act as they do. I have had many, watched many and listened to many. This allows me to build a formidable body of knowledge about not only my kind, but the people we engage with.

I am currently engaged in treatment which has been forced upon me. As part of this treatment and because I enjoy writing, I have been encouraged to share my knowledge. This is to engender a greater awareness of what I am on my part and also to allow the world an unrivalled view of the mind and actions of a narcissistic sociopath.

I do this because I like to write. I like to interact with people. I want to be the number one source for the reality of how my kind think and behave. I also find the weaponising of empaths and having them go into battle with my kind entirely in accordance with my worldview.

I do not do this for fuel. I do gain some fuel from the comments but since those who comment are tertiary sources (see the book Fuel for more) it is not significant. I gain far more fuel in my interactions in my private life.

I am direct. I do not speak in scientific terms. I welcome enquiring minds and those who want answers. I will give them to you. You will not gain understanding like this from anywhere else. I encourage you to read my articles and extensive collection of books which can be found on Amazon. I encourage you to contribute, ask questions and offer your own views. I read everything that is submitted to me and answer all questions, thus if your post does not appear straight away, please understand that it is in moderation and is either receiving or awaiting my attention.

The number of comments and hits are testament to the need for my knowledge and the huge usefulness many people have found from it. You will too.

Welcome on board. You will now Know the Narcissist.

HG Tudor




565 thoughts on “About”

  1. Hi, just discovered and learned about you today, HG, I’m so amazed and excited as I’ve had an outstanding career of being victim of narcissists and never come across one who’s actually helpful in making me a less succesful victim.

    I intend to devour all that you’ve written within an unhealthy short timeframe and hope so much it will help me to defeat the one narc I cannot get rid off: the father of my child.
    Escaping strategically, surviving, healing a bit I can do and I did but even 10 years after breaking up and him having another girlfriend since then, he just won’t let me go.
    As totally ignoring’s not an option I need a multi level solution – also for my daughter who’s being played by him just to destroy me.

    About your intro, I’m curious: what is your treatment? As narcissism is not curable, is it?
    Do you pursue being healed, getting out of the prison?
    Well, the answers to that are probably in your books but I’m too damn impatient… 😬
    Respect and thanks for what you do! 🤘👹

    1. Hello RHA and welcome on board. I you require a bespoke solution do organise a consultation with me. Narcissism is not curable no, although there are those who think it is.Re my treatment, see the books etc for more detail. I am not in prison.

      1. Thanks! And will do so later on @consult.
        In which book can I find details about your treatment?
        Btw, by prison I meant mental prison, is that not how you experience being a narcissist?

  2. Dear HG,
    first of all I would like to thank you for the insight you provide us with; your style of writing is really clear and direct and this renders the process a lot easier.
    I have been reading your blog during the last weeks and I still have a lot of reading to do; however, I am impatient to know about the different kinds of narcissists you keep mentioning. Unfortunately, it seems I cannot find the right entry (I started reading the blog in chronological order, but it didn’t help). Could you please suggest me which book of yours adresses this topic?
    Have a nice day,


  3. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. We are lucky in that you possess not only a comprehensive understanding of this disorder, from within and without, but also the means to communicate it to us in all of its nuances. It is fascinating and eye opening. I’m curious – you say you want to weaponise empaths because it accords with your worldview. Would you please elaborate on that? I would like to understand your motivation in the apparent paradox of your weaponising us against yourself. I look forward to your continued posts. It’s quite marvellous what you are doing here.

  4. Hi HG,
    I’m new to your site and have enjoyed all of your articles thus far. I’m in the middle of a battle with a Narcissist. My husband filed for divorce in October and immediately started spending time with other women, explaining that he has “moved on” and is “farther along in the process” than me. It’s as if the 15 years we were together didn’t happen, and he keeps saying our young children will be “fine.” I look forward to learning more from you… Thanks for all that you do, you’ve already been extremely helpful.

  5. Hi HG,
    I hope you’re fine.
    I have some confusions in my mind. You may be a tourch in my foggy way.
    I had a 1 year relationship with him. We were living together. We have been sepetared for 3 weeks, but still i have confusions if he is a real narcissist or not. He is not diagnosed by a psychologist, but when i searched it internet there are enough matches ( i guess)
    What do you think? Could be it was me who was wrong and caused problems?
    1- Everything was so good that i had struggle to believe it at the beginning.
    2- Later on, I didnt have any hesitation about him. Then i totaly gave myself to him.
    3- when i completely got into this relationship, he slowly changed.
    4- He sometimes became cold, agressive, anxious man. I remember those time when i sleep lonely with him on the bad. I remember how many times i begged him to hug and kissed me. He didn’t.
    5- Then he started to be nice to me.
    6- Then he started to be agressive with very very simple thing that i barely could remember.
    7- He was so negative with everything that i couldn’t bare.
    8- The blames! I was only the one who was all the time guilty. I dont remember how many times i questioned myself if i was really guilty.
    9- whenever i wanted to do something by myself, he didn’t let me to do it.
    10- He isolated me from everyone and everything.
    11- He took slowly by slowly my positiveness, happiness, nice thoughts about life with his negativeness.
    12- I don’t remember how many time he left home with tears on my face after stupid argumants.
    13- Now we are seperate. He is telling me that he can not do without me. He is saying that he loves me.
    ***Do you think he is a narcissist?

    1. There are significant indicators in what you have written. In order to give you a definitive answer however you will need to organise a consultation.

      1. I have already a consultant, but he is not saying definate things for him because he is not the consultant of him.
        He is dealing with my situation instead of if he is a narcissist or not.
        Nowadays, i have terrible confusions about him. He is really trying to get this relationship again and being accepted to the house.
        Now i am confused if he is really sincere with his thoughts and words or not.
        Yes, i still love him, but i am afraid of all the words of him are totally for hoovering. What do you think? Do you think he is hoovering me by saying he loves me , he wants marry me, live with me and wants to change..etc?

      2. Sorry, i guess i missunderstood you.
        Do i need to organise a consultation with you?
        If it is so, i really would like to.


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