What the Hell Just Happened?

  –         One minute I was serving lunch and everyone was talking away, the next he flung the plate at the wall and called me a fucking selfish bitch – –         I only asked how his day was and he just turned around and walked back out; that was yesterday evening and I haven’t heard […]

What Goes On Below

“Do that again and you will regret it.” Those are the words which I will speak in about five minutes, but I am getting ahead of myself. Welcome to my court. Here I am, sat at my rightful place at the head of the table. Prominent, elevated and overseer of those that have been magnanimously […]

How the Narcissist Devalues Different Victims

  Devaluation. This period of the narcissistic dynamic is regarded as always being part of the dynamic and understandably the worst part of it. Those who consider it as an ever present part of the dynamic however are over-stating its presence because whether devaluation appears at all and if it does, how it will manifest, […]

How the Narcissist Turns a Trait Against You

  The chime of my ‘phone alerted me to the arrival of a text. There was nothing unusual in that. Scores arrive daily and this rises to beyond a hundred and more when the glorious seduction has commenced of a fresh, prime target. I looked over with half-interest to my ‘phone and see a name […]