I am a seething bundle of conflict and vitriol. I have my fury churning away ready to be ignited at a moment’s criticism. The song once asked, “War, what is it good for?” My answer would be. Absolutely everything. War is the tool by which I reign and by which you are kept doing […]

    Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult? Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered? Why does he walk off and disappear? Here is the answer. By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic. US e-book here […]

    Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult? Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered? Why does he walk off and disappear? Here is the answer. By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic. US e-book here […]

  –         One minute I was serving lunch and everyone was talking away, the next he flung the plate at the wall and called me a fucking selfish bitch – –         I only asked how his day was and he just turned around and walked back out; that was yesterday evening and I haven’t heard […]

Fury is the instrument of the narcissist. It is a tool that we deploy in furtherance of our aims. The narcissist’s toolbox is a thing to behold. It contains many devices, objects and instruments that we deploy in order to secure our objectives. Other people may use these devices in a similar if diminished form but […]