A Preventative Hoover

How many times have you declared that you have had enough? How many times have you vowed that you are no longer putting up with this behaviour and making a fresh start? How often have you put in place steps to depart and leave this confusing and twisted reality behind? We hear these assertive comments […]

Someone Is Calling……

    Paula stared at her phone, the screen glowing faintly in the dim light of her apartment. It was past midnight, and the city outside her window hummed with distant traffic, a soundtrack to her insomnia. She had just settled into bed when the first call came. An unknown number, no caller ID. She […]

6 Speciality Hoovers (And How To Unplug Them)

  The hoover. An instrument of cleaning and the instrument by which we endeavour to suck you back into our false reality so we can exert our hold over you once again. Hoovers come at various stages of your dance with us and also come in a variety of forms and guises so that you […]

Will the Narcissist Deploy A Follow-Up Hoover

The follow-up hoover. A staple method of gaining fuel from you either post disengagement (discard) or post escape, whether of a positive and/or negative nature. How though does the follow-up hoover come about, how do I decide whether to do it or not and what are the circumstances that can cause it? Here is an […]

A Preventative Hoover

How many times have you declared that you have had enough? How many times have you vowed that you are no longer putting up with this behaviour and making a fresh start? How often have you put in place steps to depart and leave this confusing and twisted reality behind? We hear these assertive comments […]