A Preventative Hoover

How many times have you declared that you have had enough? How many times have you vowed that you are no longer putting up with this behaviour and making a fresh start? How often have you put in place steps to depart and leave this confusing and twisted reality behind? We hear these assertive comments […]

The Blast From the Past Hoover Part 2

    (If you have not read Part I – you may do so here ) Part I explained the dynamic that is applicable (nearly always) to the healthy dynamic between those operating with emotional empathy with regard to friendships, past romantic relationships, colleagues and family members. This enabled you to discern the difference between that […]

The Blast From the Past Hoover : Part One

    Why does a narcissist seemingly appear out of nowhere to hoover you? Why does a narcissist from the past re-appear, often years later? What causes a narcissist to hoover you after a prolonged period of absence?   Many of you will be familiar with The Blast from the Past Hoover. Somebody from your […]

One More Chance

  What harm could it do to give us one more chance? Like the gambler placing another bet in the hope of winning big, there is everything to gain and not much more to lose really is there? You are down amongst the dead so what could possibly go wrong? Besides, imagine if you did […]