Ten Seductive Sentences Used by The Narcissist



The Perfect Ten Sentences of Seduction

What is really meant when we say these words.

1. I love you and I always have

My need to seduce you is considerable and therefore I will use language which will appeal to you and be so outlandish that it will blow you away. I do not actually love you. I do not love in the way that you do. I understand that the closest I come to it is infatuation. I am not in fact infatuated with you but more precisely with what you can do for me. My needs are paramount. Yours are largely irrelevant. I write irrelevant because I do take them into account during the seduction but after that they are thrown to one side. I love the fact you fuel me, allow me to steal traits of your for my own use and you give me shelter, meals and money.

2. We are soulmates

I know you are a big believer in emotional concepts such as love, spirituality and the soul. I need to tap into that and I need to do so quickly. I want to suggest that our love goes beyond this earthly plane on which we stand and it is something all the more ethereal and noble. That ought to impress you and cause you to become bound to me. I am not your soul mate, I am here to steal your soul because I do not have one.

3. I have not loved anyone like this before

There will be half a dozen willing witnesses who will testify to the contrary. In my world however I have deleted them from my mind (except when I fancy hoovering them and triangulating them with you for some extra fuel) and there was nothing like what I feel for you now. They are defunct and redundant, an unfortunate reminder of an abuser who trapped me. They do not matter now, you are all that matters to me now, your fuel, to be accurate, is all that matters to me now.

4. I want us to be together forever

There is no want about it. We are already locked together forever. You may not think this and indeed somewhere along the line you will want to escape me, although quite why that is when you are the problem, is beyond me. Anyway, that is for later. Right now you have agreed (although you will never recall having said such words to that effect) to remain my property for the rest of your life. This means that everything you own, have and are now belongs to me and I will deal with it in whatever fashion I see fit. I will use and abuse you over and over again as this is my right. Just when you think I have disappeared I will be back more. This is a life-long covenant.

5. We have so much in common

What a wonderful occurrence, such serendipity that everything you like I like as well. Even better, all the things that you do not like, I do not like either. It as if we are two halves of one perfect person. That is exactly what I see because all I will do is mirror you. I have spent time watching you, observing you, finding out about you from friends and scouring your internet footprint in order to learn as much as I can about you so that I can present myself as mirror image. I actually cannot stand listening to Coldplay but that isn’t going to stand in the way of my replication so I seduce you with incredible speed and ease.

6. I hate it when we are apart

A rare nugget of truth here. I do hate it when we are apart but for the reasons I have made you think. You think it is because I miss the wonderful, kind, humorous and delightful you. I actually miss all that positive fuel you supply me with when we are together as you are taken in by this illusion that I have created. Moreover I hate the fact that when I am not with you I cannot control your environment and I am concerned that with space to think and breathe you may just see through what I am doing or even worse, you may listen to one of your so-called friends who will be whispering in your ear and briefing against me. I don’t want your head turned elsewhere. I want it looking at me. Always.

7. Nobody can love you the way I do.

Amazingly another piece of truth. Nobody else can love you in this way because none of it is real. This is all made-up in order to attract you and bind you to me because if you saw what I was really like (not that I would ever allow that to happen) you would run screaming and never return. Accordingly, I will love you in a way that you are unlikely to have experienced before by deluging you with desire and then nearly destroying you through malice and vitriolic hatred. Told you I was special.

8. I can’t believe we have only just met. I feel like I’ve known you forever. Let’s live together.

It feels familiar to me because you are giving me positive fuel just like your predecessor and the one before her and the one before her as well. I do not distinguish between you, not really, because you are all appliances to me which I want to ensnare and then drain as you pump out delicious fuel for me to consume. I say this though to make you feel special and because I am obviously so wonderful and brilliant you will be thrilled that someone like me wants to live with you. This will make you grab this marvellous opportunity before you lose it and then I have ensnared you.

9. I need you. I want you. I love you.

Sounds dramatic and romantic doesn’t it? Makes you feel as if everything is focussed on you and I could not live without you. Notice how many times I used the word “I”? That’s because this is all about me and nothing to do with you save for what you can do for me. I really mean that I need your fuel, I want your fuel and I love your fuel.

10. You have saved me.

Yet more drama straight from the romantic handbook. I know your type. That is why I chose you. You like to fix, heal and save. You will have plenty to do in that regard, believe me, but that will come later. For now what I really mean is that you have saved me having to look anywhere else for fuel. Time to feed.

13 thoughts on “Ten Seductive Sentences Used by The Narcissist

  1. Jane hall says:

    As I read – it was as if my X was reading them to me.
    I am free now – 6 months.
    I read on here to keep me free.
    No contact is the way.

    1. analise13 says:

      Congratulations Jane. Keep reading and stay out.

    2. Caroline says:

      Welcome to Narcoholics Anonymous Jane. Here’s your glass of wine. Settle yourself in.

  2. /iroll says:

    This might be more relevant on the sex posts, but Narcy straight-up told me I’m his property-slave and he is my Master. He also told me that I would spend an eternity locked in a cage – sporadically fed drops of his spunk.

    Any time we had a good time together he’d tell me that I should enjoy these moments of bliss, because it was going to be an eternity of hell without him, also I’m worthless and nothing, blablabla.

    That’s the kind of romance I got. He also insisted on paying for everything and took care of me when I was with him. I even got spoon-fed and other men were body-checked when we walked down the street. Sex was obsessive.

    It was all very strange, yep —deluged with desire and then treated to vitriolic hatred.

  3. Presque Vu says:

    We said all of these nearly – to each other!
    I swear I think I’m a Narc, he said i was more than once (It’s so embedded in me and said so often I believe it) – and I am guilty of saying nearly all of these at one point.
    I have never loved the way I loved him – it was all consuming. I was besotted – so everything I said I 100% meant and could feel with intensity.

    HG how far after meeting someone do you let rip with all of this?
    At the point you say these things, are they the (recruitment IPSS), or the already (established IPPS) or the (IPSS on the shelf)… I’m confusing myself here lol.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Please see Sitting Target.

  4. Luna says:

    I’ve heard all of them. And I met another one two weeks ago. He already said he loves me, cannot think anything else but me and he wants to marry me! LOL!!! He send me a message on instagram, where I only have two photos of me, everything else is about my cats, nature, quotes. I have many reasons to suspect it’s my ex under a fake account, but I am not sure. HG, is there an article that could help me understand more? I searched but did not find.
    Please excuse any errors, english is not my mother language.
    Thank you for the valuable information and space you give us.

  5. Perfectly imperfect says:

    I was do screwed

  6. smarinucci1970 says:

    Hi HG. I have been reading all of. Your. wonderful posts ,haven’t neglected my studies. NOT AT. ALL. . Had a little eye surgery. Went well. I really missed everyone,Came back fromHospital . Last week did some shopping in Cambridge here in the Good Old U. S. A . Looking for great. 1950,s. 1960,s vintage furniture ,artwork,and dishes . But Back To The Topic (THE PERFECT TEN OF SEDUCTION) H.G. IT’S BEEN A ROUGH WEEK WITH MY NARCISSIST. I won’t go into any details ,I KNOW. your probably saying THANK GOD ! But I have to say this ,my lesser male narcissist friend never ever said any of those 10 sentences to me ,Why not ?? I almost wish he did . Now Hg . What does this mean??? SINCERELY Sharon.🔥👠👙.

    1. smarinucci1970 says:


      1. HG Tudor says:

        1. I answer hundreds of question. every day

        2. I do not answer all because
        a. I do not have time
        b. I may have answered the questioned many times beforehand
        c. The answer can be found in existing books or articles ; and/or
        d. It is of a bespoke nature and therefore should be asked through a consultation

        1. smarinucci1970 says:

          Thank You H.G. I’m Sorry If I Was A. Little Rude. I Didn’t Mean To Be. . I Know I’m Still Feeling The Effect’s Of So Much , And Learning About Myself And The PEOPLE In My Life (Past & Present ) ! Please Accept My Apology But After Reading So Many Posts That Were Nonsensical And Teasing & You Answering Back Promptly In The Same Fashion , I Started To Wonder Why You Couldn’t Answer My Heartfelt Questions (Many Times ) But Now You Have Answered Me You Gave Me A ,B, C, D,. But You Forgot E , (THE. ONE I ALREADY KNEW CHOICE ) Your Teaching Me Still Being Who You Are A NARCISSIST , You Made A Concise Choice To Do What You Do. And Cover Your Self. With The Followers , 😎❤ It Does Come Down To CHOICE !🐺🐏 Your Still Teaching Me Right To The End Trust Myself Only & GOD , Get Out Before It’s Too Late , Don’t Look Back ,My Own Feelings Were Right Along ,

        2. smarinucci1970 says:

          Thanks hg But It Really Does Come Down To CHOICE And You Are Still Teaching That ! You Will Answer Nonsensical BS Quickly .After All I Was So Wounded When I First Started Here With You , Now I Spot This Baloney From Anyone ! Aren’t You A NARCISSIST? A Con, A Non Truth Speaker? CHOICE!!!!

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