The Narcissist and Marriage

  Marriage. Widely-regarded as one of the central events in a person’s life. Whether it is a traditional church affair with white wedding dress, a civil ceremony inside a football stadium, something unusual such as at the bottom of a swimming pool, a same sex union, a week long Indian wedding or getting spliced in […]

Is He Alone Now?

  You have been disengaged from or perhaps you have succeeded and escaped our grip. You cannot help still but wonder what we are doing, especially if we have discarded you. The thoughts run through your mind repeatedly. What is he doing? Is he thinking of me? Where has he been today? Why have I […]

The Lesser Narcissist

  Here comes a Lesser Narcissist. We shall call him Lee. “What did you call me?” Hello Lee. A Lesser Narcissist. “No I’m not, it’s you that’s the narcissist, I’m sick of you saying that there is something wrong with me, when it’s you that has the problem. You do it on purpose, always trying […]

The Final Battle : How To Stop Thinking About the Narcissist

  The hardest part of achieving freedom from the narcissist and the effects of the narcissist is stopping thinking about the narcissist. Whether it is the endless whirring mind of questions, the desire to plot revenge against the narcissist, worrying about being hoovered or contemplating the golden period over and over, there are a multitude […]