Getting Out!


Realisation has finally arrived that you have been sucked into the nightmare world of the narcissist. No contact is the way forward but have you got what it takes to resist the machinations of the Narcissist as she or he does their utmost to derail your campaign? You need to prepare for no contact and who better than to tell you how to do it than the dark-hearted master narcissist. Invaluable techniques are delivered so you can prepare and maximise your chances of attaining no contact and beating the narcissist.

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29 thoughts on “Getting Out!

  1. E&L says:

    Windstorm, I was trying to understand the terms of ensnarement with a narcissist, even if very remotely. Holding the most powerful office in our country, his policies and daily decisions affect billions of people. Just wanted to better understand the ensnarement concept. I can be very literal and get caught up with words and interpretation.

  2. 69Revolver says:

    NarcA, he’s a stiff-upper-lip-Brit, he can take it.

  3. NarcAngel says:

    Hey everybody!

    Remember 69Revolver? She was fun.

    1. 69Revolver says:


      1. NarcAngel says:

        I was making a joke about the possibility of you being banned after insulting HG by putting him in the 70s-80s.
        Apologies. Apparently my humour is not being well received today.

        1. MB says:

          I got it, NA. I couldn’t believe HG let the 70-80’s comment slide. Ha ha. That was 69R’s lucky day haha.

          1. 69Revolver says:

            HG saves the notorious wicked tongue for his proximate primary fuel sources—you & I remember those times, no?

            I used to tell the narc, “Put that sharp tongue back in your damn mouth.” That went over like a led balloon.


          2. MB says:

            69R, I’ve never been ensnared as a primary source. I consider myself lucky for that! Secondary was confusing enough.

          3. 69Revolver says:

            By the grace of God, you are not a member of our exclusive club.
            Unfortunately, we are Life Members.

          4. MB says:

            Yes 69R. It has been by the grace of God! It certainly isn’t for the lack of trying when I didn’t know any better.

        2. 69Revolver says:


          Ah, lol! I was wondering if you knew something I didn’t??

          Are you kidding? No, HG doesn’t ban (he proclaims).

          After one of his particularly scathing blog posts (it was damn nasty), I told him I wished his name was Richard so I could call him “Dick.” Then the jabs just started going downhill from there, I went off on a tangent. Days later I felt guilty for being “mean” so I apologized. Typical Empath fashion. WTH. I just embrace myself.

          HG is a good sport, even for a 70-80 yr old guy. Proof? I’m still here.

          Besides, he can’t suffer Narc injury or be insulted by me, I’m just a Reader—tertiary fuel.

          1. NarcAngel says:

            Yes I was kidding. I believe him that he doesn’t ban and operates within the rules established. He’s pretty tough stuff and of course we are tertiary as you point out, so I think it’s safe to say any slights were brushed off. However, if you persist with this 70-80 age bracket for him all bets are off lol.

  4. 69Revolver says:

    HG has legs…..and a hand that holds a phone.
    Who knew!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      He walks, he talks, he comes with a range of masks and a Devil’s Toolkit, available in all disreputable toy stores

      1. Caroline R says:

        Ha ha!

      2. MB says:

        I’ve never played with a Ken doll. (Reminds me of your story with the neighbor kid, NA!) I might make an exception for an HG doll, though. I’m asking Santa to put one in my stocking. I can change the masks and play like K. Wear the narcissist mask. Be the narcissist.

      3. 69Revolver says:

        Can you feed it a bottle and make it pee?

      4. K says:

        I read about Lennox and his wife having a baby in Jealousy and Joy. Needless to say, HG’s collection of CD’s was in superb alphabetical order, as he made excuses not to attend family functions so he could avoid the loss of the spotlight.

        I hope you get your HG doll in your stocking.

      5. Caroline R says:

        “The new HG doll-
        It’ll pee on your leg, and tell you it’s raining”

        Ha ha!

        1. Clarece says:

          Wow Caroline R. How can any of us pass up the Golden Shower HG Doll? Will that be sold in all Adult XXX truckstops along the U.S. Interstates?

      6. V.I says:

        @ 69Revolver,

        My tit**s are ready for HG doll. It should not be feed by a bottle, NOPE !

      7. Caroline R says:

        Re: the HG doll peeing on your leg and telling you it’s raining,
        I was thinking along the lines of Judge Judy saying something similar in the past. It struck me that she was dealing with specious arguments that amounted to what I now recognise is gaslighting by those in court trying to avoid being held accountable for their actions.

        I didn’t mean to be crass or crude. That’s not my style. I apologise if it came out that way.

      8. mommypino says:

        Ha ha ha! Caroline that actually got me laughing. If the pee smells like Creed I would buy it. 😊

    2. 69Revolver says:

      I was pleasantly surprised by two very unexpected Avatars. I put his age in the 70’s-80’s.

  5. E&L says:

    HG, as an American, am I automatically “ensnared” by President Trump or does this require a more intimate or proximate relationship?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Not automatically, no.

      1. 69Revolver says:

        HG, no, not automatically ensnared by Trump or no, proximity to him is not needed. I’m not clear on your answer.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Not automatically ensnared.

        2. Windstorm says:

          I’m an American and I’m certainly not ensnared by Trump. Zero attraction, zero respect, live in an area he will never visit and plan on living out my life and dying without ever having come to his attention. Hard to imagine being less ensnared.

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